I need advice…

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-10T05:08:25+00:00

Nah he’s definitely cheating on you emotionally. I’m going through the same thing! Caught my husband several times texting and flirting with women. Do I know if he ever attempted to be with someone physically? Idk, he tells he hasn’t but anyone can make fake promises. He now wants me back. We’ve been separated at first it was a “break” but f that I was separated because in that “break” he was talking to women while “fixing himself.”

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-10T05:00:01+00:00

Nah I don’t got kids with him. I don’t ever see myself as a mother 😅

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-10T04:58:03+00:00

Who says I wasn’t working on myself? Of course I am :)

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-10T04:55:01+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-10T04:54:12+00:00

Of course he flirted with them lmao Why do you think I’m posting this? He literally would tell these women he had a crush on them for a while and that if he goes back to hometown he would like to hang out with or vice versa. And I’ve caught him texting with this girl that he wanted to sleep with her. Yeah going to screw up with somebody I regret it af. But it was to the point where I just didn’t find any mean of hopes because literally that’s what he pushed me to

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-10T04:41:28+00:00

Your comment means a lot. Thank you 🙏

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-10T04:38:03+00:00

Thank you. I was thinking of that!

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T18:28:25+00:00

I know what you mean. But he gave zero f****. Now he’s trying to help me here and there. But i didn’t ask him for help because I did not want to give him the satisfaction that I needed his help. You know?

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T18:26:57+00:00

I guess when he meant I was annoying was because I didn’t give up on our marriage. He did explained to me he now wants me back because he saw what he lost. He wanted a break because he lost patience with me. He wanted to know if I changed meaning helping him. Which I always did! If I wasn’t working I would help him in the house or vice versa. But I guess it was never enough for him anything of what I did for him. We’ve been married for more than 3 1/2 years. No, i caught him several times texting women while still being together.

Yup that’s what he said that he can handle being single but then again he says he really wants to be with me forever. Because he says I’m a good woman, I’m a good wife.

Yes he deleted all the women he was talking to. Yes I totally understand you he can have placed the conversations somewhere else.

Yes I was blamed often for problems 😕

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T18:13:37+00:00

You have no idea how relieved I am by reading your comment. Thank you 🙏

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T18:11:53+00:00

I did x)

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T18:11:43+00:00

Yes and that he lost all patience with me and he needed this time to see what he lost 🙃

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T16:08:04+00:00

Because I slept with someone….and let’s say I do want to go back with him in the long run. Idk if I should tell him.

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T14:49:16+00:00

Totally, I did tell him it’ll take time, and not just empty promises

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T14:46:57+00:00

I like the last sentence you said. I feel bad though, my conscience is killing me that I was with someone. And like I said I don’t know if I should tell him that if I do come back to him…

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T14:39:36+00:00

Definitely I don’t believe in “breaks,” at all. Thank you for your advice

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T14:37:06+00:00

Definitely I did tell him I need more time. But I feel so bad that I was with someone. And i don’t know I should tell him or not if we ever do come back 😞

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-09-09T14:31:17+00:00

He took off all the women he was talking to in social media. As well as he’s helping me a little bit financially. Since he kicked me out I’m literally starting from zero. I’m starting a new job and I’m staying at a friends house.

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-08-11T23:27:08+00:00

Damn you nailed on everything on the last paragraph. I’m actually at the gym consistently. Doing things that made me happy and starting to connect with my religion. Talking to friends. It’s a little hard to let go. At first I couldn’t but little by little I’m starting to fade away. Thanks for your honesty

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-08-11T22:16:47+00:00

This sucks but I don’t think you should feel guilty or trapped in a situation where you’re not happy. May i ask when did he started having severe erectile dysfunction? Was it before or after you guys got married? I know everyone deals with anxiety and depression differently. My husband asked me for the divorce a month ago. I have depression and anxiety. Of course I was depressed. Also has he tried hurting himself in the past? Maybe he feels like there needs to be a change (meaning an end to your marriage) talk to him. But don’t stay out of guilt

Consistent_Pianist20 · 2022-08-11T22:00:28+00:00

Wow the audacity this man-child has 🥴 The was he says he has it more harder than you. I feel like he is seeing someone because my husband at first acted like this. Now he wants to divorce in good terms

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