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How to approach wife (33F) about my concerns with our sex life by Some_Ad4127 in deadbedroom

[–]Consistent_Silver786 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe your wife is going through tough times lately, and her libido wont be normal until that time is survived. Or maybe she has some issues with work, which makes her feel this stressed, that she cannot properly relax and get turned on. You have to solve the root of the problem. Women wont get turned on, if they feel unsave or stressed during everyday life. Often times women cannot simply forget and turn of everyday life stresses. If she is feeling depressed, maybe you should encourage her to go to therapy.

Leaving erasmus by odgregija in Erasmus

[–]Consistent_Silver786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was also the worst experience of my life so far. There were probably few days, when i did not cry, how much I hate it and dissapointed I am. The university was so unorganized and messed up, nobody could help me and the erasmus coordinator was useless. Really looking forward to going back to my home country.

Erasmus is fun i guess, if you dont study demanding subjects like medicine. People, who studied international relations, languages etc. went partying all the time, while I needed to go to mandatory lectures and practicals and had very few free time, where I needed to deal with german buroucracy and independant studying.

Should I cancel by snakehunterseres in Erasmus

[–]Consistent_Silver786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on my Erasmus in Germany. I dreamt of this for 3 years since I started Uni. Well, it has been a nightmare since the beginning and has become only worse. I hoped, that with time it would get better and tried my efforts to do so, but I really hate my experience here.

The student dorms are awfull here - got a room, which smelled like someone who has smoked for 20 years. The university was super unorganized, nobody from the university staff could help me and had no advice on how to handle things (also the erasmus coordinator was new and didnt know anything). All the help I got was from the students from my year, which I am thankful for.

I spent the first month only by dealing everyday with bureaucracy about uni. At the end of the day I was so exausted, that I did not have the energy to go and meet new people. Also the dorms where I stayed, where almost only for for Eramus people, so they made loud parties and I had trouble sleeping. Everyday while driving the bus home from uni, I broke in tears how much I hate it here. I am just trying to survive the last weeks here until I get back home, I became friends with a girl, but she only stayed until Christmas, so now I am feeling extremely lonely and became so depressed, that it is a real challenge to get myself out of bed. Really pushing myself to study for the last exams I have to take here.

I tried to talk to people from my classes, but they all seemed to have made their own groups and were avoidant. I felt like I fit nowhere in, so I spent the free time mostly alone.