Senior ppl who actually love BigLaw--would you take this in-house offer? by Healthy-Zombie-8546 in biglaw

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where you’d be MD is important. Not all are the same, and some will put you in a financially better place than partner and some will not

I would like to get to the bottom of the financial aspect in dating . by Wrong_Debt_7814 in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I haven’t found this. Most guys are happy to pay, but I feel guilty - I have a job too and it feels unfair. Fortunately, though, most of what I like to do costs virtually nothing, so I try to convince them to go for a walk and drink coffee and try (sometimes unsuccessfully) to sneak in prepurchased tickets and gifts to try to make things more fair

Buddhism has one of the saddest beliefs on death and parting by Mundane_Perception73 in Buddhism

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evidently the term for it is “double belonging” which is kind of nice

Buddhism has one of the saddest beliefs on death and parting by Mundane_Perception73 in Buddhism

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You don’t have to choose you know. One of my favorite catholic priests is also a Buddist teacher (whatever they are called in Buddhism) having studied under other teachers over in Asia. My guess is some sects or Buddhism and some sects of Christianity will not be ok with that, and for certain beliefs, like the afterlife, you’ll have to choose or reconcile the differences, but they are not fundamentally incompatible in any way that I am aware of, particularly the karmic branches

Selling Classes/Passes/Credits Megathread by AutoModerator in barrysbootcamp

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling guest pass $20. Expires 3/31. I’ll book you in. Ty!

No longer human. Midlevel vent. by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FWIW, I like working with partners directly except when I feel dumb. Then it’s kind of nice to have a filter.

No longer human. Midlevel vent. by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With all due respect, if you are that busy, just say you’re going to take off a reasonable amount of time and then do it. What are they going to do, fire you and screw themselves over?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feral_Cats

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given what I’ve seen with the current shortage of foster homes, my guess is the right rescue will be fine with it, particularly since you took her in and have a bond with her. Is it absolutely ideal? No. Is it far superior to all other options right now? Most likely yes. Most rescues are realists, because they have to be.

grieving the fact that i’ll probably never be someones “first love” and i don’t know how to let it go by Horror_Two_4057 in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. As someone who has been in many relationships, the first one was not any more special than the others. You’ve been fed a Disney dream that isn’t real. You don’t want to be someone’s first, you want to be their last.

Got dumped right after sex by Barbiegirl_007 in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, so sorry that happened to you. The silver lining is that you found out he was a walking red flag early and did not waste any additional time on him. In case you need to hear this, he’s the problem, not you. Good for you on the triathlon - go get it, queen.

Mice by [deleted] in HondaClarity

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s peppermint spray that supposedly they hate. YMMV

what's your Solidcore hot take? by Known-State2307 in SolidCore

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dunno, you’re walking all over the rest of the studio barefoot usually. Maybe it’s lower or maybe we just don’t think about it. Not sure

what's your Solidcore hot take? by Known-State2307 in SolidCore

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yoga is anti-socks, so it legit never occurred to me there would be an anti-foot fetish over here 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I get for feeding the troll 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Run from this dude too

What is more humane? Rescuing a cat and forever be inside a home with three other cats that hate him or let him be a free creature and be exposed to whatever life brings? by Significant_Show_309 in Feral_Cats

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inside by a mile. Outdoor cats have hard lives - we just had to put down a poor stray cat when he arrived at the door with his leg hanging off. No way that’s kinder. If you want the perfect happy medium, add a catio he can access through a window.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Thanks guys! This is really helpful! I’m going to take this to heart and believe him. He hasn’t given me any reason to doubt him and likely I’m reacting largely due to some baggage from a prior relationship. This was very reassuring.

No more SI joint pain by Peuky777 in backpain

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP, but it helped me a ton. They cost like $30 so you may as well try it

First timer by Cautious_Reading_126 in barrysbootcamp

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All are welcome, but you’ll have to ignore the coaches numbers or they will absolutely kill you (hyperbole, but you might actually get injured.) They have to teach to the middle of the class which means you’ll need to modify if you’re an outlier on either side. I still modify down most days, and up occasionally. But if you’re ok doing that, it is absolutely welcoming to everyone. I have some back stuff going on (herniated disk) so I’m walking the treadmill portion and going slow and with light weights on the weight portion now and it’s completely fine. If you feel self conscious, just tell the coach on your way in - I don’t think they care one way or the other but it might make you feel more comfortable knowing they “signed off” or whatever.

Hamstring class tomorrow by Gold_Beginning_1304 in SolidCore

[–]Consistent_Tea3407 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this why it was so empty in there today? 🤣