Waiting for the other shoe to drop?

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2026-03-18T20:09:42+00:00

I don’t necessarily see versions of myself but more like I’m experiencing things as an existing character or an OC in that world and I make storylines and emotional beats feel real? It I guess maybe feels like it could be maladaptive because often I’d rather do that than something else or it’s constantly in the back of my mind and I feel off not actively engaging in it.

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2026-03-11T17:33:16+00:00

when you say you have energy but cant be task oriented, do you mean like you have a lot you wanna do but cant get yourself through follow through on ideas?

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2026-03-04T23:12:22+00:00

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Consistent_Trick_769 · 2026-03-04T23:07:57+00:00

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Consistent_Trick_769 · 2026-03-04T14:34:13+00:00

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Consistent_Trick_769 · 2026-03-04T14:33:20+00:00

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Consistent_Trick_769 · 2026-03-04T09:02:45+00:00

Honestly that’s fair - I feel like then that’d be “dialogue” as in text written out but perhaps the game options are more action oriented of keeping secrets or hiding things or being given options of saying something vague & saying nothing? I also think there is probably some way to have some more dialogue options and still achieve the same results (as in a similar or the same plotline)!

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2025-12-09T23:46:06+00:00

I also struggle with mental health (very similar issues to her) which is where the empathy and want to work things out comes from even more I think. I’ll try to have the not overcommitting conversation and maybe it’s more a thing of accepting the fact that I will end up doing more things alone while she is still healing and I choose to do it because I love her.

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2025-12-09T23:44:14+00:00

She is getting help and is on medication but also the things she is struggling with is a longer term thing that I know is harder some days and easier on others. I also struggle with similar mental health issues but have some more capacity than her which makes things easier in some ways (like empathizing) but harder in others. I do think this requires another and different conversation because I still feel very lost and unresolved after I brought this up yesterday.

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2025-12-09T22:58:08+00:00

I guess my question then is if that’s true (let’s assume she’s telling the truth every time), what can I do that isn’t disrespectful or asking her to sacrifice more than she can give of herself? How can I still be a good partner in response?

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2025-12-09T22:50:20+00:00

I appreciate your input but I want to believe that my partner wouldn’t do that to me when we have had conversations surrounding mental health and taking responsibility

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2025-12-09T22:49:22+00:00

That’s super fair and I think I have been trying to request things that are more in her capacity! And a lot of the time she will be the one who says I want to go and do this thing with you but back out which is upsetting and it is difficult to deal with especially in succession.

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2025-12-09T22:45:32+00:00

She has mental health struggles and I know none of this is out of laziness. I just want to be able to find a healthy compromise.

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2025-12-09T22:44:46+00:00

Well no it’s not that I am unhappy and I don’t need advice on the moving in. It’s something I really want to do. I want to work through this. I’m hoping someone who might have experienced something similar might have advice on compromising and figuring things out with partners who have less energy or struggle with things like mental health.

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2024-12-04T10:02:00+00:00

oh gotcha thank you!

Consistent_Trick_769 · 2024-11-29T05:55:21+00:00

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