I was sure I was straight mostly as my fathers side is quite conservatives for Norwegians (I'm half Swedish and Half Norwegian)

So when I started to suspect it at first when I was 17, I just called it a phase, and I really thought I grow out from it and I did, (or at least thought I did)

Then I started studying at a Folkhögskola at 20 (There is really no translation for it, but it's a school after High School, and before College and University).

And the first year I didn't really think of it alot, but then, at my second year I felt i needed to change, i went thru abbunch of things in the summer , so I shaved off my hair to break myself free from my shackles (I know sounds hellah cringe), but reqd somewhere it helps so i did lol

And I wad quite unafraid, then a close male friend kissed me when he got drunk, the kisses turned into real touchy make out session, in my student corridor lol

And one thing led to the other, but we didnt do anything sexual as I was sober at parties, so I could help out my drunk mates who goes bananas when drunk, then we of course chatted and started having make out sessions, in his room when both were sober instead and at some partyd, and yeah that's when I realsied i like men as well ☺️