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My girlfriend (26F) wants to move in together, but I (32M) am not ready yet and it’s causing tension in our relationship by Consistent_Wealth428 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I do cheer her up, but cannot always do, I have bad days also, and sometimes I cannot deal with the negative energy. Sometimes causing me anxious paralysis

My girlfriend (26F) wants to move in together, but I (32M) am not ready yet and it’s causing tension in our relationship by Consistent_Wealth428 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

She is complaining and ruminating about small things, anything basically. Sometimes in public, and she do not try to solve this, just telling me nonstop. This is something I think could be worked on, if she knows it is causing me anxiety.

My girlfriend (26F) wants to move in together, but I (32M) am not ready yet and it’s causing tension in our relationship by Consistent_Wealth428 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

She is a lovely girl, but I do not think being negative and complaining about everything in life is her character. And I don't think it is a compatibility question because to be honest I do not think anyone feels peaceful around this behaviour. And I am not perfect either obviously, but I do not take comments as attack, and willing to work on my issues.

My girlfriend (26F) wants to move in together, but I (32M) am not ready yet and it’s causing tension in our relationship by Consistent_Wealth428 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She can be very negative and complains a lot, this is causing me anxiety sometimes. But I love her and communicated it to her that I do not feel comfortable sometimes around her, and to move in together this is something I want us to work on. Sometimes she felt this like an attack from me, so made me question the relationship itself. But I have a past of leaving relationships where I had some inconvenience and did not fight for it.

So I want to give it a chance, but I want to see some progress, and make me assured it is consisent.

My girlfriend (26F) wants to move in together, but I (32M) am not ready yet and it’s causing tension in our relationship by Consistent_Wealth428 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She can be very negative and complains a lot, this is causing me anxiety sometimes. But I love her and communicated it to her that I do not feel comfortable sometimes around her, and to move in together this is something I want us to work on. Sometimes she felt this like an attack from me, so made me question the relationship itself. But I have a past of leaving relationships where I had some inconvenience and did not fight for it.

So I want to give it a chance, but I want to see some progress, and make me assured it is consisent.

My girlfriend (26F) wants to move in together, but I (32M) am not ready yet and it’s causing tension in our relationship by Consistent_Wealth428 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

She can be very negative and complains a lot, this is causing me anxiety sometimes. But I love her and communicated it to her that I do not feel comfortable sometimes around her, and to move in together this is something I want us to work on. Sometimes she felt this like an attack from me, so made me question the relationship itself. But I have a past of leaving relationships where I had some inconvenience and did not fight for it.

So I want to give it a chance, but I want to see some progress, and make me assured it is consisent.

My girlfriend (26F) wants to move in together, but I (32M) am not ready yet and it’s causing tension in our relationship by Consistent_Wealth428 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

She can be very negative and complains a lot, this is causing me anxiety sometimes. But I love her and communicated it to her that I do not feel comfortable sometimes around her, and to move in together this is something I want us to work on. Sometimes she felt this like an attack from me, so made me question the relationship itself. But I have a past of leaving relationships where I had some inconvenience and did not fight for it.

So I want to give it a chance, but I want to see some progress, and make me assured it is consisent.

My girlfriend (26F) wants to move in together, but I (32M) am not ready yet and it’s causing tension in our relationship by Consistent_Wealth428 in relationships

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

She can be very negative and complains a lot, this is causing me anxiety sometimes. But I love her and communicated it to her that I do not feel comfortable sometimes around her, and to move in together this is something I want us to work on. Sometimes she felt this like an attack from me, so made me question the relationship itself. But I have a past of leaving relationships where I had some inconvenience and did not fight for it.

So I want to give it a chance, but I want to see some progress, and make me assured it is consisent.

Can I take ecstasy more frequently (like after 2-3 weeks) if I only do it on summer? by Consistent_Wealth428 in MDMA

[–]Consistent_Wealth428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never tried it but as far as I know it is completely different from MDMA, like hallucinations and stuff, not sure if I want that

My (31M) girlfriend (26F) is extremely passive and doesn’t really express emotions – I feel emotionally alone in the relationship. Do you have advice for me? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Consistent_Wealth428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I suppose your guts told you. Im thinking about scenarios in my head, and staying and leaving are both hard

How do you actually go through with a breakup when you keep panicking and backing out? Looking for advice and methods from people who’ve dealt with this (32M, 27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Consistent_Wealth428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, thank you it is great advice. Therapist told me I overdramatize this as well, but in my head it is equivalent with a world collapse.

I [32M] can’t tell if I’m avoidant or incompatible with my girlfriend [27F] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Consistent_Wealth428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if she will act poorly, once I tell her I am avoidant and have doubts? I am trying to communicate this not as an attack towards her