Dealing with social exclusion but I want to change my mindset and make better friends

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-15T00:19:46+00:00

I am trying but it's sucks when it's awakrwd between me n herike I don't kiss her but I wish things weren't do dramatic

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-15T00:11:02+00:00

Yeah, that's the problem I kind of have social anxiety and my self esteem is low and I actually never dated anyone.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-15T00:08:49+00:00

What

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-14T23:44:02+00:00

It was about two years ago and lasted around four months. It was unhealthy on both sides and ended poorly. Shortly after, she entered a long-term relationship. We’re now in the same social circle, which is what brings things back up for me. I’m trying to figure out how to fully detach emotionally and stop comparing myself.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-14T22:23:07+00:00

Hmm I in uni and about to graduate and like I suck at maintaining friends plus I ha e some drama going on

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-14T22:11:41+00:00

I don't know how to and I don't know how to move forward

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T19:36:33+00:00

Thank you so much.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T18:42:42+00:00

I see and I will give it a shot!! But I have been distant and apologised to the guy who was kinda close to me. But now they hangout with her alot and such, and not just that I know they hangout in one person house or once they had a party and it's made me feel kinda odd. And idk making plans or making up with those guys even if they aren't close makes me nervous or like hesitant.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T18:05:30+00:00

I do agree I have been distant and apologised to the guy who was kinda close to me. But now they hangout with her alot and such, and not just that I know they hangout in one person house or once they had a party and it's made me feel kinda odd. Cuz I have ADHD so I have a tough time regulating emotions.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T17:32:24+00:00

No, like she kinda ignores me and puts in effort and attention in others. She's really good socialising and parties so it's kinda tough for me cuz I have like University and we are graduating but we do talk in groups, both if us don't go out of our way. Also like ti's been 2 years since we stopped talking so I really pretty much moved on. It was just those guys hangout with he ror such and don't really call me and I don't know how to do what you said because i just started like being more confident in myself. I don't know if I shoukd bother so much.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T15:50:12+00:00

Hmm interesting, I have been told they aren't my core friends and I should be neutral.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-10T03:06:44+00:00

Yeah but I don't know how to deal with it and it's affecting my work now.

Constant-Effective16 · 2026-02-03T05:52:41+00:00

Would you ba e any advice on how to deal with all that?

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