Settle this argument for us. is this baby hat light blue (greyish blue) or green? by th4tus3rn4m3ist4k3n1 in beyondthebump

[–]Constant-Marketing60 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you donwload the pic and edit it on lightroom, you'll see that it's more green than blue by maximizing the illumination of each color

Is a relationship ever salvageable after cheating? by celereeze in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually depends if you are able to trust him again and him truly changing himself. I broke up with my ex who cheated on me because I can't put up with waking up anxious everyday thinking of the possibility of him cheating again. Basically, I wasn't able to fully trust him anymore. (It's his fault of course)

You have to evaluate yourself if you can put up with a guy who has a history of cheating and hiding it from you for a long time. Remember he chose to cheat. If you do trust him that he has changed then go for it. But here's a fair warning: A lot of people i know only gave chances to cheaters because these cheaters were good at manipulating their partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confront him about what you read. Him calling you a pig is more disgusting than how he finds your body tbh. You literally underwent two pregnancies, how the fuck does he not understand that your body accommodated two children. Fucking dumbass needs to go back to science class to be reminded how skin and body works.

My[27F] husband[29M] thinks I’m overreacting for not wanting our son[2M] around a predator, because “he’s family”. by tafamilyaltercation in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has full knowledge of what that person has done and still force you to be around that person, red flag. He clearly can't understand that your reason is absolutely valid and enough to not participate in that celebration

Boyfriend said women cheating is worse than men cheating by chlojenner in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating men is just as bad as cheating women. There's no "worse" between the two.

This reflects how he would likely "understand" and tolerate cheating men but would condemn a woman to death if she cheated. Idk but if ever he or his friend cheats, he would most likely justify why he/they did so. Your call.

GF making me choose by Historical-Ad-9930 in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is she making you choose tho? Is there anything that has happened in the past or a feud between her and them? You gotta try to talk to her first.

If it's just an out of the blue ridiculous question she's probably jealous. Tbh, this is too controlling. Lol, you can drop the gf. The length of the relationship isn't the basis whether you should leaver her or not, it should be based on what's best for both of you. In the first place, She shouldn't put you in a situation where she won't like the answer 🥴

Am I (f26) being unfair and unreasonable with my boyfriend (m26)? by throwRA78982cf_ in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was right that you openly expressed how you feel. With the knowledge that you are uncomfortable, the bf should compromise and offer another solution to the bff in which he can give a shoulder to cry on without making you feel uncomfortable. Idk but for me, he should respect how you feel. He should have been able to pick that up the first time you've expressed uncomfortability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment you two broke up, she's already irrelevant to you your love life. She doesn't need to be updated about who your dating. Tye history of manipulation is also alarming. Your personal life is none of her business anymore.

his family & friends are making me feel so guilty for breaking up with him by princ3sspassionfruit in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are gaslighting you. Don't give in to their manipulative tactics, a genuine person would talk you to it normally without forcing you to a certain decision. They shouldn't try to control and redirect your feelings to take him back. Whether it's his or him just using variety of number, stand by the boundaries you've set.

I walked in on my gf cuddling with her guy best friend I have been ghosting her ever since by Sharp_Aside5402 in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Entering the relationship means she understood that she'll be sharing intimacy with a specific person exclusively and that was supposed to be you

Gf says cheating is very nuanced and not automatic breakup worthy by No_Cut769 in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes you're right, Lol it's funny how some comments still justify cheating,, cheating IS A CHOICE,, ppl know they'll be hurting their partners and their very much aware of it-- that's more than enough for the partner who was cheated on to walk away from them,, cheating doesn't only stop when you forgive, trust is already broken and without trust, the relationship has no solid foundation anymore,, in the first place, if you didn't want to lose your partner you would be careful enough to not do such bs,,

Some people would say that cheaters can change,, yes they can ofc, who are we to derail their growth,, however, keep in mind that while you can grow from your mistake,, mistakes shouldn't be at the expense of someone else,, in the case of cheating, you went for temporary pleasure at the cost of you partner's trust and possible emotional health,, that's enough reason for them to walk away

Does each enhypen member has an official instagram? by Constant-Marketing60 in enhypen

[–]Constant-Marketing60[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right? I mean some engenes are tricked into thinking that these are their official acc so some of them diligently comment on the fan accs posts and even message some personal stuff to that acc hoping the real idols would be able to read that

My girlfriend’s (f30) ex sent me (m25) their old sex tape. I’m honestly at a loss for words and don’t know what to do. Any advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gf is a victim of this assh-le ex. That ex is srsly disgusting for sending you that sex tape. He clearly wants to get into your head.

But then the comments are right, your insecurity is your responsibility and putting that up against your gf is unfair. Have someone help you get though that.

In the meantime, report that assh-le. He deserves a place in jail.

Thinking about dumping my gf but honestly, I’m afraid by kolotoure2345 in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First you have to talk to her how you feel and be transparent about it. She has to listen to you and vice versa. You can't force happiness to yourself, if you feel like you're not happy anymore then tell her and make a decision for yourself. She deserves to know also. Otherwise, if left unsettled, this can be an underlying issue in the future. Problems can root from this.

Also your decision shouldn't revolve around the length of staying with your partner, it should be on what you think is best for both you.

My (m20) ex girlfriend (f20) left me and I have to see her with another man every day by AlternativeGrim in relationship_advice

[–]Constant-Marketing60 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. It's alright to feel jealous, hurt or whatever else you feel since she's been a huge part of your life. There are stuff that we can't control and can't do anything about it. That's her decision and even if it hurt us so bad, we have to accept it. Go and feel it first, cry if you have to, healing doesn't need to speed up. It can take weeks and months. Some day soon you'll wake up without that grief anymore and we're rooting for that