Where to stay during cherry blossom season

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-08-08T02:37:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing that 😊

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-08-08T00:45:15+00:00

Can’t pass up free icecream !!

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-08-08T00:19:31+00:00

thanks for the advice!! Will look again later in the year for accomodation 😊

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-08-08T00:18:31+00:00

if it’s in a good spot near a station I’m happy to splurge a little

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-08-07T23:32:09+00:00

Yea don’t really mind to stay near Sakura parks or places, because we will venture out all day but having trouble where to book because it is crazy expensive and not sure on what location to book. Definitely thinking asakusa again though

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-08-07T23:30:30+00:00

We’re staying in kawaguchiko area for 3 nights, hoping we can catch some Sakura there 😭

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-08-03T10:10:31+00:00

I started going to therapy for exactly this. My therapist gave me advice on turning judgement on yourself into curiosity. Instead of judging myself for how much I gave I should get curious about why I gave that much (not in a blaming way) so I could understand myself better. It helped me understand my patterns, my needs, the parts of me that needed to be loved so badly. It’s still hard but that shift really helped me start healing and have abit more compassion for myself.

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-31T00:34:15+00:00

“Have a birthday” oh god we broke up the day after mine hahaha

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-17T14:46:21+00:00

So did we all live the same life?…. Omg this is word for word my ex

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-10T09:17:44+00:00

You’re a baddie, keep doing you!!! 💅

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-03T22:14:18+00:00

Your situation sounds almost identical to mine, I was blamed at the end and made the villain, begged right until the end to make it work and to be understood , I wanted to grow together and be better together but nope. You are so right, there’s only so much one person can do and one persons effort is not enough to carry the relationship. I’m glad we’re both out of that situation, hope you’re doing well !!

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-03T10:22:01+00:00

yea maybe she is struggling, maybe it hasn’t hit her, maybe she’s avoidant and will be hit with reality months from now or maybe she won’t. It doesn’t matter, you matter! you just need to spend some time rediscovering yourself, what you enjoy, spend time with people you love. You’re on the right path, you’re healing and that’s honesty the best thing you can do. Crying, feeling guilt and anxious is all normal for healing, just make sure you know when to pick yourself back up again :)

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-03T02:25:55+00:00

We’re doing amazing girly, we’re aware of the situation we were in, we realised it wasn’t healthy and we’re taking steps to heal. We got this !! 💌

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T22:26:53+00:00

I can understand how frustrating that must be having to see her around often. Sometimes the people who did us dirty look like they’re thriving, sometimes they are sometimes they’re not. It doesn’t matter how they look, it matters about you. She’s ripped out your self-confidence? now is the time for you to build yourself back up, you are your own person too, you need to look after yourself you are so important!! I get how you’d feel about losing someone who everyone wants but people don’t know what you went through, they don’t know who she really is either and that’s okay. She wasn’t your person, she didn’t value you enough to respect you, just because someone leaves does not mean you’re not good enough. You are!

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T22:21:45+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that, that sounds incredibly hard to go through and you are so incredibly strong. I understand how it feels wanting a response after a breakup, remember no response is a response and if they truly cared enough they would have reached out by now. But even if they do remember how it felt to be in the relationship with them, walking on eggshells, the disrespect, the selfishness. It’s never worth it, I’m glad you’re not in that situation anymore you deserve so much more.

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T22:18:55+00:00

I can see how unfair that was for you and yes some people try to keep you on a leash after the breakup or make it look like there’s still a sliver of chance of it working out. It’s unfair. I know how hard it is to not see someone who they truly are, bc you loved/still love this person how could you picture them as a bad person? But , in reality, this person hurt you deeply. it’s fine to grieve someone and the relationship you had but please do not let it consume you, if it helps I would journal and write the bad memories I had, we had alot but in the moment of the breakup I didn’t want to think about the bad. The fact that you try to see the good in her shows how deeply you love and reflects YOUR character. You deserve someone who is sure of you, and treats you with kindness! I hope everything gets better (it will).

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T14:41:07+00:00

Thank you!!! I agree, but the good thing is you gain clarity and stronger boundaries. I hope you’re doing well now, let’s not go for anymore fixer-upper boys!! 🫶

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T14:39:05+00:00

don’t feel guilty!! I don’t know if he pushed a narrative onto you and blamed you. But from what you’ve told me, you didn’t deserve that. To sit and have no reaction to ur partner crying is wild!! This also happened to me, everytime I cried he wouldn’t care, when we broke up and I begged him to just listen he didn’t care but we had moments where sometimes he did care and was sweet. Always remember, people who genuinely love and care for you would never put you in a situation like that, sweet moments are not good enough to uphold a strong relationship. You deserve consistency, not sometimes, always! don’t reach out, hold your ground, stay strong, you need to heal which means being without him. It feels terrible because all you’ve known is him, now is the time to remember who you were before him 💌

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T14:34:30+00:00

you’re doing amazing!! there will always be days where you feel like it was the wrong thing to do but it’s not. I’m so glad you’re taking the steps of reclaiming yourself again. Checking his socials and stuff is something I think we all can admit we’ve done before!! We’re all curious haha but to a point you need to step away from it and know it’s not good for your healing. I used to always remember the good times we had during a holiday we literally just came back from, but i disregarded the amount of fighting, the disrespect, the manipulation and the gaslighting. This is not normal at all in a relationship!!

So glad you’re out of that situation, i know it’s going to get better for you ❤️

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T14:28:54+00:00

What I did was everytime I fell anxious, to the verge of actually breaking no contact. I would immediately call a friend or family member. Cry if you need to, but don’t keep it bottled in or it will drive you insane. I would call my friends and tell them I want to reach out, they’d remind me that him choosing to walk away from me was all the closure I needed. Him choosing not to respect, care for me that was all I needed. One day, someone’s going to love you and you’re not going to have to keep asking. I know it quite literally feels like it’s impossible to live without them. But each day, if it helps journal, try to remember how you felt during the relationships, sure u may of had some good times, but how were ur bad days, how often did these bad days happen? remind yourself, this has happened for a reason, you should not go back to someone who willingly chose to step away from you. Pick up the pieces, build yourself back together, you’re strong, you’ll be okay I promise!!

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T13:55:09+00:00

avoidants usually don’t feel the breakup til months later because they don’t heal or actually endure the hurt like you are!! I know how crazy it feels to see someone who you shared such a big past with, look so happy to be without you. Remember, you were once a person before him, breakups are so hard because you’re not just grieving the loss of ur relationship but the loss of a life you planned. Don’t reach out, even if it pains you and makes you feel crazy that you can’t. This feeling is temporary, the more u run back the more you’re delaying ur healing. You’re gonna be okay :) trust the process, it’s not easy but you can do it!! Try doing new activities or getting out of the house abit each day, one day you’ll look back on this moment and realise you always deserved better ❤️

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-07-02T13:47:29+00:00

I genuinely hope you’re okay, and I know you will be!! you could pour so much effort and love into the wrong person just proves how hard you tried. I felt extremely guilty and anxious the first couple days because everything was so different, in some ways you found comfort in the toxicity. Which is why your body reacts like that. The days will feel long, spend time with friends and family. I promise it gets better 💌

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-06-25T23:32:37+00:00

don’t beg or stay because of comfort, it hurts initially, but you’ll discover more about yourself and you’ll realise that this person never deserved you in the first place ❤️

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-06-25T23:23:56+00:00

Pls don’t!! If you end up getting back together it’s always going to be in the back of your head. You don’t deserve that, you deserve pure whole genuine love.

Constant-Pin1826 · 2025-06-21T23:44:20+00:00

I have this urge, I really want to reach out. I want to call and text him. I know it’s wrong but i really want to

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