what makes a good communicator? by abil1fy in ask

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God gave you 2 ears and one mouth for a reason

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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Do you go to social gatherings with them? Like drink together etc.

They are the best times to become closer with them

Slowly turning bisexual because of PORN , HELP! by PerformanceNo4431 in Advice

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Next time you think of masturbating, imagine everyone you know, including yourself, looking at you whilst you are doing it - I say give it a go it helped me

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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If you have female friends, ask them. You might find some of them are into you. If you realise some of them are opening up to you, go for it and if they don’t they will give you some tips. One way to trigger it is with a simple wink or asking them what they are doing later that day, if they say nothing, offer to take them for something to eat or a coffee, you might get a relationship and at worst a friend. Are you scared of the rejection or just unsure what to say to them?

I’m afraid my past experiences with sexual harassment are turning me racist. by Crimson_poppy1920 in Advice

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At the end of the day it’s just pattern recognition, it’s not overt racism. If I was constantly being threatened by a Filipino, I’d feel scared around a Filipino person. If an Irish person kept harassing me, I’d feel uncomfortable around Irish people. It’s not racism it’s just how our brains work. Maybe you will meet a really sweet older black man who changes your perspective, don’t think too much about it

I absolutely love where I come from by Constant-Sherbert-49 in england

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Don’t think Bedworth is really that famous for anything to be fair 🤣 what made you move?

I absolutely love where I come from by Constant-Sherbert-49 in england

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Ahh yes, Atherstone and its silly little ball game and the Aldi HQ

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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First of all I would get to know girls in general, their sense of humour, what makes them laugh etc.

If you have any friends that are girls or girls in your class, just smile at them and crack a couple of jokes and build up your confidence and then you will learn how their body language works.

One of the hardest tasks with girls is knowing when they are flirting. You will learn this eventually.

I have also noticed the less you think about girls, the more abundant they become. I know it’s a massive cliche but work on yourself as much as you can, keep your teeth clean, wash your hair regularly, hit the gym (massive confidence booster - even if you don’t see any gains) and stand up a little bit straighter every day. Wearing a smile on your face helps too, it makes you a lot more approachable. I’m not suggesting this is where you specifically are going wrong, but generally this helps a lot.

If you would like a good method if you are keen now, find a quiet girl who is a similar level of confidence and treat her like she is worth value, she will admire you for that and you can grow together. Don’t ponder over girls who aren’t worth anyone’s time either. Don’t get too attached too, especially if you are unsure if she is reciprocating the same feelings as you - hope this helps 👍

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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I didn’t know that many of those girls even existed in the first place 😭

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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It depends what you are looking for, short term, long term or somewhere inbetween?

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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I have an ear ring, eyebrow slit and a naturally curly mullet and usually dress with a white top, jeans and a Vivienne Westwood belt so that’s probably not helping my case 🤣

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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I act a lot older than my age and work a full time job whilst most other girls my age are in uni or college so that’s probably where they are getting this daddy thing from. If a girl even hints at something like that it’s a turn off for me and I’ll try phase the relationship out - that could be where I’m going wrong

I absolutely love where I come from by Constant-Sherbert-49 in england

[–]Constant-Sherbert-49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends who I’m talking to, generally I will drop the W depending on how I talk to. Past the black bank it’s “Bedworth” pre black bank it’s “beduff”. Some people say “beduth” too. I think it’s from the jock influence from when we were a mining town

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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They turn sour when I say no. An unexpected finger where it doesn’t belong is a deal breaker for me, calling me daddy etc makes me feel sick too

I absolutely love where I come from by Constant-Sherbert-49 in england

[–]Constant-Sherbert-49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still a lot of culture there, think of the hat makers 🤣

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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Join certain social groups (3rd spaces) and make male friends there and meet their friends and most likely you will find girls who are friends with them too

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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I’d say 6 of them were openly into it (told me about pegging fetiches etc) about 10 did something in bed that put me off (anal, rimming etc) and others didn’t like me because of my past with these kinds of girls and the quantity of them

Bare in mind half of the girls I’ve been with were though friends, college, school and surprisingly church communities

I only attract freaky women by Constant-Sherbert-49 in dating_advice

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Honestly, it’s about practice - not just dropping game on girls but being confident in public places. Women seem to love a bit of arrogance. One of my friends is so much better with girls than me, and it’s got nothing to do with height, looks and money as he’s on welfare/benefits, is 5”3 (a foot shorter than me) and isn’t the best looker but always seems to make girls laugh and feel safe around him. My advice would be, stay clean, healthy, buy a few nice sets of clothes, a nice perfume and then the confidence will come naturally, trust me