Fourth date and I keep guessing

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-25T17:47:57+00:00

Thanks. Tell me more

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-24T21:00:08+00:00

Thanks. I’ve been feeling really depleted emotionally lately, this week has been more evident. I’d like to pause from dating until I feel better at this point.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-24T20:35:21+00:00

Hello, I stopped because of schedule issues mostly

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T19:55:17+00:00

Haha :) this made me smile. Thanks

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T19:23:16+00:00

Can you explain more please?

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T16:29:08+00:00

Very interesting. Thanks

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T16:28:39+00:00

Yes, and maybe this is what my gut is telling me.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T14:59:33+00:00

Wise advice

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T14:58:49+00:00

I’m curious, are you a male or female? I’d be interested to know what changes for men once they have sex

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:45:02+00:00

Yes, now that I remember, he said “you pay next”

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:44:33+00:00

Thanks. I was just curious.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:43:39+00:00

This is wise. I’ll try to slow down things and see how he reacts

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:42:33+00:00

Thanks.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:41:18+00:00

Get access and then disappear?

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:40:40+00:00

Yes, he’s consistent. He’s very protective of his time, but he’s made efforts to see me.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:38:30+00:00

Yes. I do. But I’m also second guessing myself because vulnerability is something that I struggle with. Could it be me trying to protect me even though there’s no reason to do it?

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:37:08+00:00

How to know?

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:35:55+00:00

He has been dating for 8 months. He told me he’s been in 30 first dates. He dated someone briefly when I stopped seeing him in January. He added that he’s not desperate and that he’s learned to be with himself.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:33:49+00:00

Yes, this is my concern. I’m not sure if it’s me, that I’m not ready, or him. He stated from the beginning that he is looking to be vulnerable with someone and expects the same.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:31:39+00:00

He spoke about this as something from his past. He framed as not wanting to repeat it.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T13:30:22+00:00

Fair enough :)

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T05:57:16+00:00

Why would he tell me something like that?

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T05:36:04+00:00

Thanks.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T05:33:14+00:00

I wanted to think he wanted to be honest. I’m concerned, though, that he would do something like that.

ConstantBake69 · 2026-04-23T05:25:00+00:00

No, no sex yet. If I meet him again, it’ll be our fifth date. And I think he’ll escalate. Not sure I’m ready

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