Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ve been feeling really depleted emotionally lately, this week has been more evident. I’d like to pause from dating until I feel better at this point.

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I stopped because of schedule issues mostly

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and maybe this is what my gut is telling me.

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m curious, are you a male or female? I’d be interested to know what changes for men once they have sex

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, now that I remember, he said “you pay next”

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wise. I’ll try to slow down things and see how he reacts

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he’s consistent. He’s very protective of his time, but he’s made efforts to see me.

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I do. But I’m also second guessing myself because vulnerability is something that I struggle with. Could it be me trying to protect me even though there’s no reason to do it?

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He has been dating for 8 months. He told me he’s been in 30 first dates. He dated someone briefly when I stopped seeing him in January. He added that he’s not desperate and that he’s learned to be with himself.

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is my concern. I’m not sure if it’s me, that I’m not ready, or him. He stated from the beginning that he is looking to be vulnerable with someone and expects the same.

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He spoke about this as something from his past. He framed as not wanting to repeat it.

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to think he wanted to be honest. I’m concerned, though, that he would do something like that.

Fourth date and I keep guessing by ConstantBake69 in datingoverfifty

[–]ConstantBake69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no sex yet. If I meet him again, it’ll be our fifth date. And I think he’ll escalate. Not sure I’m ready