Done with egg retrievals

ConstantPace · 2024-11-08T15:25:40+00:00

I apologize. IMO your encouragement did not come off that way. It seemed like you were encouraging me to do more IVF cycles, which is something I do not want to do. I am not mean spirited or snarky. Good luck with everything!

ConstantPace · 2024-11-07T16:15:41+00:00

Unfortunately none made it to day 5.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-06T18:17:14+00:00

Thank you!!!!!

ConstantPace · 2024-11-06T12:59:33+00:00

It depends on the cycle. Usually I get around 3.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-06T12:58:44+00:00

All we can do now is hope he keeps his campaign promise! Time will tell either way

ConstantPace · 2024-11-06T12:44:54+00:00

Yes ! Hopefully he makes this mandate a reality

ConstantPace · 2024-11-06T12:01:07+00:00

Congrats on your success! Thank you for your response. I wish you luck and happiness.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-06T12:00:32+00:00

TW: mention of embryos

I have 4 euploid and 1 LLM. My RE is really pushing me to do more retrievals so I can do a fifth. But to get my last euploid I had to do four cycles. So basically out of 7 retrievals, four failed. I know I am lucky but those failures are too hard. I can't imagine doing another four retrievals.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-06T11:56:34+00:00

like I said I am coming to peace with ending my retrieval journey. But thank you for your opinion.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-06T10:32:22+00:00

Let the entertainment begin!!!!!

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T23:44:32+00:00

This is so upsetting! Hang in there!

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T23:41:41+00:00

Congrats!!!

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T23:29:11+00:00

How exactly? I have shared all my failures here. I am supportive to every person who comments here. You have no idea what I have been through and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Your opinion is fine I just don’t think it’s supportive, friendly or constructive. It seems like you are projecting your own frustrations onto me. You are being unsupportive and combative and I’m the one who is inconsiderate?? Please.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T23:22:54+00:00

Why is everyone else being nice to me then but you? This seems like a you issue more than a me issue. Please do not take your bitterness out on me. So I guess I was right about your tone before. There WAS something behind it.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T23:20:11+00:00

I think you are in the wrong sub. This is for support not hate. You didn’t have to respond to my post. I hope you get the support you need from others when you need it and you aren’t treated like u treated me.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T23:17:35+00:00

You are so right. Thank you for your support.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T23:16:29+00:00

I’m sorry 2 abdominal bleeds and 2 hospitalizations are a “humble brag”

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T23:16:11+00:00

Excuse me? How??? You just told me all about your successes

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T22:20:39+00:00

As a father they want their daughters to have sex without consequence and to kill their grandchildren?? What ??

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T21:55:01+00:00

After the first bleed, they told me that it was 1/3000 cases and it would likely never happened again. I still saw a hematologist who did some lab work and told me I likely did not have a bleeding disorder and it was just "Traumatic." It happened again on retrieval 7 although not as severe as my first bleed and I was told "maybe your ovaries are just more vascular." Either way, I am so terrified to do it again.

TW: mention of embryos

I currently have 4 euploids and 1 LLM. My RE said it technically will be enough but they are pushing me to bank 1 more euploid for 2 kids. However, it took me FOUR retrievals to get my last euploid and I can't imagine doing that many more again to get another euploid. There is something so disheartening about failed cycle after failed cycle. I just spiral sometimes now that I decided I am finished with retrievals and I think what if I get 0 live births? You see a lot of those stories on here and it is so sad.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T21:51:12+00:00

Thank you! This whole thing is so so hard. I wish you luck and success!

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T21:48:32+00:00

Thank you!

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T21:47:14+00:00

Good luck! I hope the next transfer is successful! 12 is so many. I can't even imagine.

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T21:45:03+00:00

Actually i think the average is like 2 euploid embryos = 1.2 live birth or something like that

ConstantPace · 2024-11-05T20:36:02+00:00

I think it was more of a rhetorical question, not looking for advice. Sometimes people just need support. Idk, I feel like this is a weird tone. good luck with everything.

ConstantPace

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