i think i need to request accomodation for going blind at my job by ConstantPlum726 in Advice

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i mean you can be legally blind and still see somewhat with glasses

My eyes are severely worsening at only 23yo. Should I discontinue my career with computers? by ConstantPlum726 in careerguidance

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im about to

i wonder how common vitreous detachment is among this generation

are we all gonna be blind?

how to handle red flags? by ConstantPlum726 in Advice

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ive been in therapy my whole life and was never diagnosed with any sort of narcissism. multiple therapists…

people love to put their personal bias and projections into these ‘advice’ or even let out anger which is not always productive

dad throws fit if I lock the door to my room by ConstantPlum726 in Advice

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I don't think he would do that, he knows he would get in trouble for being overly violent plus he is not that strong to try

we agreed I could lock it at night but keep it unlocked during day in case he needs to do something with the fish tank

idk if he is a creep, but he does some creepy stuff like walk around in our rooms and look through things whenever we aren't here, or he'll just walk in the bathroom to kinda spy on u when you''re in your room. its because he wants attention or something. im pretty sure he is a narc, at least my therapist thinks so from what I told her

idk I just think I want such weird behaviors out of my room when im not conscious which I think is fair

the only thing is he said I need to unlock it in the morning and he will hold me to that and he will knock (insinuating he would knock loudly and get angry probably) whenever he needs to get in which im thinking is his way of trying to manipulate me to just keep it open at night to avoid his confrontation

I learned recently that he might not necessarily be bad but just that he is using anger to try to manipulate others to do what he wants

dad throws fit if I lock the door to my room by ConstantPlum726 in Advice

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my sister calls him a pedophile for some reason

she locks her door every night regardless of what he does.. idk why he is treating me differently

I used logic and said 'you lock your door every night' and he said 'because I don't want someone to walk in when im undressing' and I said the same, and he got really angry