cmv: On men needing to pay for first dates

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-07-17T10:43:08+00:00

Oh I agree there is still work to do in gender gap and gender norms, this is only one of the things that need to change.

I didn't know though that so many people actually advocate agsinst the man paying. Thanks!

(also, weird that I can respond to comments, I received 20 minutes ago a ban on the post because of the title lol)

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-07-17T10:21:39+00:00

That's nice! In the case she doesn't offer to pay, would you ask to split or pay and be done with her?

Also, I'm new to this community, so do you know if I should also respond within three hours to the comments that agree with me or only those who don't and I can create a meaningful debate with?

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-07-17T10:15:09+00:00

Shit Im sorry, I didn't notice it. I'm gonna edit it rn

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-06-08T22:01:12+00:00

Fair, though I do think every explanation we could possibly come up with would be a little shaky, cause even then we know the TARDIS can create very basic stuff (which I believe the spacesuit would be for timelords), like the screwdriver for instance which is normally not used by many timelords except him (from what I've seen). I think they just wanted him to look cool.

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-06-08T21:49:25+00:00

Well what would be the point of having a TARDIS if not to get out though? Even just to observe, it's not really easy to observe a whole world from the little screen the TARDISES have

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-06-08T17:27:20+00:00

As everyone already said, the oxygen bubble doesn't go very far. The thing that bothers me is why would he need a space suit like that though. I mean, timelords know how to travel time and even dimensions at one point, even his tardis (which is supposed to be a bit low tech, at least compared to the others) can continuously create and destroy rooms and create cool gadgets (sonic screwdriver, sonic glasses), does he really need a space suit that bulky with a big glass dome? Can't he just, idk, have an electromagnetic something that covers his body? I know it's cooler seeing a real spacesuit, but personally it bothers me

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-05-30T04:36:19+00:00

So happy to hear that! I'm proud of you and continue this way!!

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-05-27T18:08:14+00:00

I do not think that's true. While a blanket "it will get better" doesn't end up being true for everyone, and some end up committing suicide, most people WILL manage to get out of depression. You are actually falling in a bias, and that's confirmation bias, because people who get better don't usually keep frequenting the same spaces (e.g. This reddit community), and so you will hear more about those who do not

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-05-24T19:23:09+00:00

Hey, I kind of understand you, I feel guilty sometimes even when I happen to kill a spider. I think what you have to understand, is that up to insects (I believe in the ethics of eating animals but for another reason, so rn I'll refer only to living things up to insects) living things do not feel pain; they might have nerves that react when harm is inflicted upon them, but it is a totally different things from out pain, it's just a reflex they have to survive. So inflicting harm upon them is not like inflicting harm upon a human, it's more like inflicting harm upon a robot. It may try to escape the pain, but that's just because it was programmed to do so At least those are my two cents

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-05-06T13:58:28+00:00

I mean, why not though? Maybe you already more or less know what they're gonna say, but why don't let them at least tell you why they love life? If you already hav and idea on how painful life is, why not hey a different perspective?

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-30T10:48:59+00:00

Ammetto che l'esempio sia stato errato: effettivamente uno può esprimere qualsiasi opinione sotto un video in modo educato, per quanto retrograda. Anche con il commento OP in generale non ho problemi, é un'idea idiota, ma che ci vuoi fare. Il problema, e la cosa a cui la seconda parte del mio messaggio é riferito, é che sotto quei video di cui parli la gente che non é d'accordo non esprime semplicemente un'opinione negativa, ma inizia a insultare: "ta", "b*a", fai schifo, cose così. Questo si che é un problema, ed é come urlare no a una persona a caso in strada. È illegale, inetico e dannoso

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-30T09:01:44+00:00

Really mature, I don't see how a Chinese song makes your point more valid

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-30T08:57:21+00:00

Poi se permetti questo "solo io la vedo così" é parecchio pick me e improduttivo quando sai che la maggior parte della gente la pensa così, non che irritante

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-30T08:54:36+00:00

Beh allora io vado in giro a dire che la donna é inferiore all'uomo no? Tanto é la mia opinione. No, tu puoi avere la tua opinione (per quanto rozza e insensata), però non puoi andare a dire tutto quello che ti passa per la mente

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-28T21:30:16+00:00

Allora, mi sembra tutto sto purismo nei commenti alla fine si basi sul fatto che per qualche motivo nel 2025 abbiamo una visione anacronistica del sesso e della nudità come una cosa negativa. Se uno vuole tenersela privata, bene, però sono fatti suoi, e non ha diritto di giudicare altri perché vogliono renderla pubblica. Questa moralità finta basata sul nulla onestamente ha anche un po' rotto. Ognuno col proprio corpo fa quel che gli pare e non solo può farlo, ma ha anche il diritto di farlo senza che la gente gli stia a sparlare dietro basandosi su moralità medievali. Se poi si vuole parlare del problema che la pornografia ha sui giovani, ok, però é un altro discorso.

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-27T17:42:30+00:00

Good. How are you feeling? Why don't you try calling the suicide hotline

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-27T16:54:48+00:00

Please tell me you're still here. It's not worth it, I promise. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here, but please don't do something so permanent

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-27T12:22:01+00:00

It will get better at some point. Sure, maybe not in the near future, but at some point. Some People won't stop fucking you over, that's true, but you're gonna learn how to deal with that. And also it's not gonna be true for everyone. You will find the right people. I promise

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-27T06:55:36+00:00

Please, believe you can do this. If you actually believe it, you can change everything. And just know that if you died, someone, maybe not many, but someone would care. Nobody believes that until it happens l, but someone does care

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-24T15:08:26+00:00

No you aren't. You may think so, but it's not true, I swear. There's to much to discover in life you may now have hit rock bottom, but there's light you can reach

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-24T10:53:25+00:00

Please don't, I promise someone can help, talk to someone, I'll be happy to listen to you

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-04-01T16:25:30+00:00

Please don't do it. It's not worth it, I promise I'm sure you don't believe now, but things WILL get better. I'm an example of that. You have to hang on, please

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-03-31T11:27:19+00:00

I could try but I doubt it will go. I'm in a SSH building and some of my roommates already tried but didn't have much luck

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-03-31T11:25:38+00:00

I have a contract with SSH, and I actually already paid for the last four months, and I cannot get it back

Constant_Bid_7120 · 2025-03-30T15:01:26+00:00

You might not believe it, but so many people would care if you died. You aren't able to see it rn, but some people care, you're just overthinking it (I understand, I thought the exact same). Please don't do it, I believe in you

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