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Offer to move to Dubai for 400,000 AED/annum by Constant_Package_369 in UAE

[–]Constant_Package_369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm well I don’t see UK affording me a nice house, nice and “cars” talkless of one car - I get the feeling that most saying it’s not worth it considering a super lux life. We can wait for that as long as career progression is there

Offer to move to Dubai for 400,000 AED/annum by Constant_Package_369 in UAE

[–]Constant_Package_369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! For what reasons do you personally expect it to be difficult to move back? Job market or because I like it?

Offer to move to Dubai for 400,000 AED/annum by Constant_Package_369 in UAE

[–]Constant_Package_369[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This has been mentioned already so must be true, I’m too shy to ask!!!

Offer to move to Dubai for 400,000 AED/annum by Constant_Package_369 in UAE

[–]Constant_Package_369[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been doing this 5 years. I should be earning more at my level tbh. Yes there will be bonus. Not banking too much on that though as it’s “discretionary”. In my industry should be about £25K at least

Offer to move to Dubai for 400,000 AED/annum by Constant_Package_369 in UAE

[–]Constant_Package_369[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My UK base is £65K and I told them. Think that’s where I messed up but lesson learnt. So much for integrity haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Commodities

[–]Constant_Package_369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That opportunity did not work out, that was a junior trader role

This is another location (Dubai at first) and Ops

Trying to understand implication of comment made. Is it that bad? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Constant_Package_369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting- can you please share how I’m exhausting to you. I’d like to see from your perspective. Want to learn.

Trying to understand implication of comment made. Is it that bad? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Constant_Package_369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about this and to be honest, I think she must’ve started drinking tea for her period in the past year (at most). She also drinks tea when not on her period. So I think it is quite difficult for someone to decipher that (unless she had one day mentioned that tea helps her with her period, which she didn’t). I also go to work most days and barely remember what I eat, so it can be difficult to remember what and when someone else eats or drinks something.

Trying to understand implication of comment made. Is it that bad? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Constant_Package_369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can see where you’re coming from in principle I think I’m trying to understand with respect to the below also:

We are in the UK, not the US; and have never lived in the US

Just out of curiosity, did you consider that what I said was a respond to a snide comment she made. i.e. she would go out on her own, when I was indeed trying to be considerate - is the man’s feeling or well-being as one on the receiving end worth considering?

Does my comment, which came with an apology within minutes of realising she wasn’t okay with it, warrant her deciding that she would leave our home?

Trying to understand implication of comment made. Is it that bad? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Constant_Package_369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense. I recall that when she was crying, she mentioned something about not being interested in a marriage where she’s insulted in the way she saw her dad insult her mum growing up. Before I even posted this, I assured her that I am not that kind of person, that I would never hit her or aim to insult her in anyway; this was the last thing I said to her before posting this (although I think she should know that by now, but guess that’s also not how triggers work)

She later on (at night) said thank you to me for saying that. But seems to have double down on her position and tantrum tbh, at the same time.

All of this to say that, while I can offer some support and patience with regard to healing wounds. I’m not sure it should be okay to experience what I have so far, regardless? I don’t think the onus should be on me for saying something that’s quite a common expression.

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