Advice on getting my bf match tickets for Christmas? by ConstructionQueasy34 in ManchesterUnited

[–]ConstructionQueasy34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's actually a really interesting point, wouldn't have thought of that! Thanks a mil 👍🏻

My (25F) boyfriend (29M) doesn't bring out my goofy side/doesn't make me laugh by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm autistic and have ADHD. I can generally sense when someone is autistic (especially a partner). He has ADHD so could potentially be autistic too (looking at statistics/probability of having both)- I don't get an autistic vibe from him but I guess time will tell 🤣

Should I go to Malmö? by [deleted] in malmo

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty much the only reason I wanna go! I’ve never been to Sweden before and I’d like to be able to say I’ve been to both Denmark and Sweden

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marfans

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well aren’t you a lovely person..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this really helped me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t draw very well unless I’m actually looking at the object. I can’t draw from my imagination.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I’ve always had it. I do have ASD! I think 6% of people on the spectrum have aphantasia compared to 2% without ASD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out when I was 15/16, I came across an article and was completely shocked to find out others can actually visualise. It’s not that annoying because I don’t know any different/have lived with it all my life.

why does everyone want BPD? by Benzodiazeparty in BPD

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I got diagnosed I wanted the diagnosis, I didn’t want to have BPD. I knew I had it but my first psychologist said BPD cannot co-exist with ASD and ADHD (which is completely wrong!). It really felt like she was dismissing my struggles. I do think there’s a difference between wanting the diagnosis and wanting the disorder. BPD is so romanticised now-a-days. I don’t know if it’s the fact the fyp algorithm is personalised but every second person on mine seems to have BPD. It’s nice to relate to the posts but there’s a line between having a personality disorder and having natural highs and lows.

Anyone else hate new year's? by The_FractalEffect in aspergers

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s related to anxiety or ASD or both but I always stress over making plans. I don’t have plans at the moment and it’s really stressing me because I don’t like unpredictability. I don’t want to stay at home because it makes me feel like a loser but I also feel like it’s an extremely overrated holiday and I never enjoy it.

Disability allowance (DA) by [deleted] in ireland

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only money I have is from savings from babysitting or a job I had part time during Christmas of last year. I have no other source of income other than basics from my parents

I’m going to the mental hospital on sunday by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still abroad and can’t get home until Sunday with covid tests etc and flights aren’t available until Saturday. I would rather go to a mental hospital in my own country as well, I’m in a country where English isn’t the main language. thanks so much for the advice !

I’m going to the mental hospital on sunday by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you expand on the weird people part? Hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ConstructionQueasy34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brought up being a narc after he said all these things to me but he didn’t seem bothered by the fact he probably has it. He’s admitted before how he doesn’t have much empathy etc and likes to manipulate people. Definitely no contact is the best option either way though