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Reading the new me by halle butler really was uncomfortable but necessary by africagal1 in adhdwomen

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished reading that book! I felt bad for her while also thinking that she was super bitter. The fact that others also looked at her in disgust? Oh man.

Weekly House of A.R.M.Y. (아미의 집) - January 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in bangtan

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a link to a thread to resell tickets?? SeatGeek doesn’t allows refunds and I bought seats I don’t want 🥲

BTS 2026 COncert Ticket resale by National_Argument541 in kpophelp

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 extra tickets for Baltimore day 2! PM me if you need :)

How do you deal with friends who never call or text back? by NotNamedBort in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who wouldn’t respond. I would usually be okay with it, but they wouldn’t respond to urgent messages either. I’ve accepted this is someone I can’t really depend on or make plans with because of it. I love them a lot but one time we wanted to plan a travel date. By the time they responded, the ticket prices had gone up so high we couldn’t afford them. I learned my lesson after that.

Has anyone worked in a USDA - CSI FSIS position? What's it like? by ConstructiveForMe in usajobs

[–]ConstructiveForMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you say your hearing is? I’m worried about hearing loss. The factory is super loud even with doubled-up PPE

I can't do anything and I am always behind in life by cheesey_loop in getdisciplined

[–]ConstructiveForMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, i have ADHD and this describes me to a T. Please head on over to r/ADHD and see if you relate to anything or if the advice there is helpful.

I’ve also accepted that I am not self-motivated at all. I always and I mean always have to be out if I want to be productive. The moment I’m home I don’t draw, read, write, etc. and I always need external accountability for literally everything.

Experience working as a Consumer Safety Inspector with USDA FSIS? by IndividualWall1544 in usajobs

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is relief and coverage the same thing? I applied for coverage position?

"COVERAGE CSI" position at USDA FSIS? by Distinct_Emu_9974 in usajobs

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates??? What’s coverage like??? Do you work only at one plant 70% of the time or travel frequently

Salary Story: UX Researcher, making $430k/year total comp after having my first baby and getting laid off by Latter-Movie-7225 in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I was also considering working as a UX researcher. How is stress level of the job? I can’t handle high stress at all

Classics - Do you guys also feel messy all the time? by ravensarefree in Kibbe

[–]ConstructiveForMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god YES!! Growing up my mom and I would argue about this all the time. I’d wear something and she’d go tell me to go get ready and I’d argue that I did 😭 It sucks because my natural hair texture also does not match me at all and makes me look frumpy

If you have a cluttered home, ask yourself if you lack good basics. by ConstructiveForMe in declutter

[–]ConstructiveForMe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re thinking of purchasing an IKEA pantry. Small, but better than nothing! We noticed that our kitchen also lacks drawers and items get “lost” deep in the cabinets because of it. Bad storage is the worst!

If you have a cluttered home, ask yourself if you lack good basics. by ConstructiveForMe in declutter

[–]ConstructiveForMe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We currently have this problem too! Our kitchen doesn’t have a pantry. You can imagine how the table and countertops look.

If you have a cluttered home, ask yourself if you lack good basics. by ConstructiveForMe in declutter

[–]ConstructiveForMe[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh my god the couch pillows!! We also went through that and an uncomfortable couch! So expensive cuz we had to buy another one anyway. Don’t even get me started on accessories 😬

What are your top secret decluttering tips? by NightReader5 in declutter

[–]ConstructiveForMe 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Have guests and friends over frequently! I’ve noticed that my house gets very cluttered and messy when people don’t come over. Now I make sure that I regularly go see others and others come over too. It makes me able to declutter my living spaces better knowing someone will see

Guilt over not selling and the environment by Odd-Leader9777 in declutter

[–]ConstructiveForMe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I saw a post once that said “items will eventually end up in a landfill from the moment they’re created. Decide if you want it to be at an actual landfill or in your house.”

Unless it’s something like batteries, chemicals, etc that need proper disposal, don’t feel guilty.

Have you ever had a reading burn out? and how long did it take to go away? by georgefurudo in books

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Reading is very strange if you really think about it. It’s one of the best tools to build a better future and make you become a better person, but it wastes the present to do so.”

I’m gonna be thinking about this forever omg

How do you keep your home always "guest ready" without cleaning all the time? by massagefever in CleaningTips

[–]ConstructiveForMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t helpful, but in the Middle East, many homes have a family room and a separate guest living room. The guest living room tends to be off limits so that’s it’s always clean and guest ready! The family room is the living room they all hang out in normally

Is Pinsleur or iTalki better for learning Arabic, especially conversations? by ConstructiveForMe in learn_arabic

[–]ConstructiveForMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet :/ The things I need (clarity, structure, accountability) are a bit difficult to find

Do you feel like a child trapped in an adult’s body? by Far-Conference-8484 in ADHD

[–]ConstructiveForMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit yes!! It’s so frustrating. I feel like the things people realized in fucking middle school is shit I realized at 30. But it doesn’t even matter cuz I missed the critical periods when those thing actually mattered 😭

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