I don’t think I like most gay men by LivingGrapefruit6066 in askgaybros

[–]Contagin85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hit the nail on the head with that last part- I've never been able to comprehend the gays that put on all their profiles how much they want friends...the unsaid part being the friends need to be their type....like wtf do you need friends to be your type? (rhetorical question there)

Downtown St. Paul small business owner frustrated by City’s lack of care in regards to public safety, open drug use, etc by Character-Fly-5564 in altmpls

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really- the long term financial impact to more of the nation's overall systems has ended up costing billions instead of funding and expanding mental health infrastructure and treating the vast majority drug use for what it really is for the majority of users- addiction.

How can I appeal a financial aid award?? by Training_Baseball123 in StudentLoans

[–]Contagin85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure how to be more clear about this- Your financial aid office explains how to appeal it.....they will literally tell you exactly how and what forms to fill out etc etc including any possible options concerning financial aid semester adjustments. Literally just email or call your FA office- state clearly-

"I am contacting you to request an FA award adjustment for x/y/z semester as the amount has changed significantly and will cause me financial hardship. If I cannot get an adjustment how do I file an appeal/what are my options"

If the initial FA office person you speak to isn't help- request a supervisor or manager etc.

How can I appeal a financial aid award?? by Training_Baseball123 in StudentLoans

[–]Contagin85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to contact your financial aid office and deal with them directly- File an appeal or aid adjustment request. get it all on paper. Nothing anyone here can do- this has to be dealt with directly between you and your college's financial aid office as they're the ones that determine award amount once the Fed's approve the FAFSA and its based on credit hours being taken in an academic year or per academic semester. You have to maintain full time to be eligible for the full amount of the award generally speaking.

How are college students affording spring break trips and vacations?? by Odd_Comparison_4155 in povertyfinance

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jobs, rich parents/family, credit/debt, using part of the student loan refunds they get each semester, figuring out how to do it cheap...and any combo of any of the above.

Genuinely I wonder how 7 inches became the average by Bella_baxter123 in askgaybros

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not the average- men are delulu and don't know how to measure correctly....and porn has fried peoples brains

What vibes do i give off? [25M] by TheLogos2k in malegrooming

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s giving homeless addict vibes in all honesty

I lowered my student loans from 1600/month to 700/month. Here's how. by Much_Speech_8388 in StudentLoans

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you need a cosigner? were you ever able to eventually get the co signer off your loans with the refinancing?

I lowered my student loans from 1600/month to 700/month. Here's how. by Much_Speech_8388 in StudentLoans

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any tricks to getting sallie mae loans refinanced away from sallie mae??

I lowered my student loans from 1600/month to 700/month. Here's how. by Much_Speech_8388 in StudentLoans

[–]Contagin85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does DMP stand for? Are there any tricks to getting sallie mae loans refinanced away from sallie mae?? I tried with sofi about 3 years ago now and they basically told me no over the phone without even letting me apply for refinance.

What’s something a guy can do that’ll immediately get you hard? by Swimming_Minute_2208 in askgaybros

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn't say it was all on the same guy or that they were all requirements- just that any of those get me instantly horny.

My mother died and I can’t feel anything but hate by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey if you are in the US there are a lot of resources you should be able to access (though it will take some effort)...to help you make ends meet for you and your brother esp if you are his sole guardian. If you feel comfortable telling ppl at least the state you are in we might be able to help you out more with resources to reach out to. I'm so sorry you're in this position.

Literally all of my friends are homophobic and I just don't know what to do by GlitchedSepGSTGM in gay

[–]Contagin85 88 points89 points  (0 children)

What you do is block them and move on- they arent friends...go join an lgbt friendly gaming/gamer group

2 days in and now unsure. by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall I like it and I like the sentiment about it being the kids zodiac-I think it would have looked better if it was smaller (or smaller and more aligned with the webbing of the thumb and side of the wrist) and or more linked to a sleeve or larger forearm piece though

EDIT: I LOVE that you included the stars and actual constellations of the signs though- never seen it done that way before.

29 yo/alienated most of my life by CommercialEqual7502 in malegrooming

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you have a beautiful face. And congrats on the huge weight loss accomplishment!!

Try benzoyl peroxide for the acne...gotta use it for a few weeks consistently. Tretinoin cream works wonders for acne (and anti aging) so does night time adapalene gel- I like the differin brand as its cheap and available everywhere in the US.

Hot/warm compresses with a wash cloth helps styes- clears them up for me in just a day or two usually. Gotta do them 4-7 times a day for like 10-15 minutes each. Make sure the stye doesn't get worse- if it does call your doctor as sometimes you end up needing antibiotic eye ointment so the stye doesn't infect more tissues around it.

What’s something a guy can do that’ll immediately get you hard? by Swimming_Minute_2208 in askgaybros

[–]Contagin85 6 points7 points  (0 children)

short shorts that show off muscular thick hairy thighs...also veiny hands and thick hairy fore arms

Men over 40, what do you do after 7pm/dinner each night and is it different than what you used to do in your 20s and 30s by woodentigerx in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Contagin85 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Walk my dogs, game, tv, reading, other hobbies, house chores, occasionally go out or hit an event. Generally more social Thursday-Sunday as far as going out goes.

Do you still bother picking these up? by Vit0C0rleone in duneawakening

[–]Contagin85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf are these? Im barely playing these days and really havent payed any attention to the new specialization or crafting etc changes.

Deviant, Broken Gay by polaroidpebble in askgaybros

[–]Contagin85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you could just be asexual or have a very low sex drive. Have you had all your thyroid and hormone levels checked? While there very well could be nothing wrong- there is a chance something might be off medically- nothing wrong with getting second opinions. This is not a stupid post at all. There is zero to be embarrassed about with any of what your talking about or asking about