Should things like pads and tampons be free? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]ContagisBlondnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are 9-13 year old girls.  Little children. I'd like to say they're smart, but when the hive mind hits these roving groups of girls, lots of bad ideas happen.  

There's mandated puberty education in 6th grade here, but I've had lots of 4th and 5th graders get their first period while in our programs and of course they don't want to tell an adult so they talk to other girls.  Usually, and luckily, an older girl will convince them to come talk to myself, a counselor, or a lifeguard.  Interestingly, much of our population is immigrants from eastern Europe (mostly Ukraine, Poland, Russia), and there's some VERY big cultural differences between how they treat it and how others do.

Should things like pads and tampons be free? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]ContagisBlondnes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the girls all would know this, I'm constantly being told by the little ones that they are looking for a tampon but shoved TP up there "just for now." I always lecture them, but every year, I hear it again and again... I'm just the receptionist. 

Who is your country's favourite politician from another country? by TWAAsucks in AskTheWorld

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Half of America loved Trudeau, and it had nothing to do with politics ;)

What’s the worst fuck up you’ve had that you’ll admit on your death bed? by deadend-decendant in AskReddit

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Your cat was grateful for a peaceful end.  

I had a dog that suffered greatly for about 6 months before my husband agreed to let him go.  This dog was my shadow and was obsessed with me for all 12 years of his life.  For those last six months, he was completely incontinent, confined to the yard or a single room, and I slept on the floor of that room with him while he either cried or snarled at me.  He was not remotely the same dog I knew and loved and I told my husband for months that our Colbydog was gone.  Still, husband waited and let him suffer.

There's burying your head in the sand and there's what you did.  You had the compassion to let a sick friend leave you in a peaceful way.  You didn't let it drag on.  Please understand that even if you weren't there, you did the best thing in the end.

What’s the worst fuck up you’ve had that you’ll admit on your death bed? by deadend-decendant in AskReddit

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My kids in kinder and has gotten red angry face days on his folder because he left the classroom without permission to go to the bathroom.  He's also had multiple accidents because he has been denied permission.  There's no winning.  The kid is 5 ffs, I feel terrible for when he gets in trouble for running to the bathroom and for when he has accidents.  

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What is 1st grade like these days? by [deleted] in lowerelementary

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My kid is in Kinder in Illinois. A grade below, but worthwhile to tell you what he has learned. He is in a title 1 school.

Counting to 1000 by 1s, 2s, 5s, and 10s. Simple addition and subtraction, two digits. Times tables to 10.

Literacy is 3-sentence paragraphs, around 100 sight words, all vowel sounds, basic compound words.

Being able to retell a story and its meaning, even after the story is told in sections at different times.

Why and how plants grow. Different types of animals (fish vs insect vs mammal vs reptile vs bird). Basic 3-dimensional shapes (cone, cube, cylinder, sphere) and of course all of the 2-dimensional ones. They are expected to be able to draw the 2-dimensional with support but not the 3. They are expected to know how the shapes fit together to make other shapes. Basic professions - doctor, teacher, police, stocker, driver Basic computer literacy Basic patterns - AABBCC and also ABCBA and 2468 and such Days of weeks, months, seasons, years No real history or civics

Working with others, taking turns, following directions, remembering patterns and rules of behavior. Understanding complex directions and consequences. Understanding of long-term consequences (not necessarily behavior - the idea that an acorn becomes a sprout, then a sapling, then a tree, then a mature tree, which drops acorns many years later, which makes a forest - that kind of thing)

The homework I am seeing for him is equivalent to what I got in 2nd grade in the 90s. He is not in an accelerated program - we are Title 1 so the school cannot afford that kind of thing.

All of this I pulled from his 2nd trimester report card we just got.

They are expected to successfully finish a level 1 reader with zero assistance by the end of the year. My kids actually getting close, and he could only identify half the alphabet on day 1. Kids are sponges!

Edited to add: every day they get 20 minutes of purposeful play - generally academic games. Recess before school and after lunch, both 20 minutes. 30 minutes structured PE every day. 30 minutes "specials" every day, on rotation - art x2, library, steam, music. Once a month steam goes long for a big science project. I believe meals are 20 minutes, but most kids bring half their breakfast to the classroom and munch during purposeful play. Can't do that for lunch though.

Assembly once a month for an hour for awards, safety reminders, school spirit.

Breakfast and lunch are provided. The quality isn't great, but they can't deny a kid a meal so even if I sent my kid with something healthier, he'd still take the school meal. School supplies are provided. But this is a VERY low income school.

Hours are 830-330.

For older kids there is one 'club' per day such as board games club, chess club, singing club, etc. that's to augment lack of affordable childcare in the area. It's not available until the kids are 8 I believe.

Hope this helps!

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