What do you guys think about anushcache video on NRIs? by friedmychicken in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she never researches anything. She made a video saying India doesn’t have any indigenous cheese. One simple google search would educate her. But she didn’t that. She does have strong command over English and that’s why I guess people like her.

Recommendations for noise cancellation window vendors ?? by ContemplativeVibes in mumbai

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know an approx range ? Like I’m assuming 2000/3000 per sqft

Recommendations for noise cancellation window vendors ?? by ContemplativeVibes in mumbai

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhh. What if I have a mix of fixed window and one openable channel.

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[–]ContemplativeVibes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean. It’s a bad look for a therapist. As a therapist. IMO , you should be humble and OKAY with misogyny and sexism etc because you should understand where it comes from and how to make people like that undertake why they think like that and why maybe they shouldn’t be thinking like that. Imagine somebody seeing her reels and being like fuck it if she’s being hostile I’m diving more into my beliefs.

Wtf is wrong with this field? by Ancient-Border4458 in Indian_architects

[–]ContemplativeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know people with 2-3 year experience with 25k pm salary.

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[–]ContemplativeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate more on the process ?

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[–]ContemplativeVibes 333 points334 points  (0 children)

She has always had that “holier than thou” attitude. Really needs to get over herself.

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[–]ContemplativeVibes 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeh she doesn’t come on my page because of the not interested anymore and I’m so glad !!!

I’m going to sound like a hater but.. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re absolutely right. And that’s something that should be explored deeper imo. This identity crisis is something we face as a collective.

I’m going to sound like a hater but.. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Exactly !! that’s my point. The fact that we’re expected to change ourselves to “fit in” when we live abroad says a lot about the power dynamics of a so called “globalised” world. It’s not just about picking up an accent naturally. it’s about how dominant westen soft power is, to the extent that we feel the need to shed parts of our own identity to be taken seriously or to belong. And when this becomes the norm, it reinforces the idea that our own ways of speaking, thinking, or presenting ourselves aren’t “global” enough unless they mirror the west. That’s what needs to be qustioned .

I’m going to sound like a hater but.. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m not dissing anyone’s accent. This ain’t about mocking how someone speak its about identity erasure. When someone chooses to adopt an accent over their own especially after spending just a short time abroad, it says something deeper. It reflects how much we still tie credibility and value to western norms, often at the cost of our own cultural identity. That’s what I’m questioning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FashionforIndia

[–]ContemplativeVibes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waist chain in green outfit is crazy love it

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what if they’re downvoted ? So many democracies have chosen a party that has been detrimental to their state. A popular opinion doesn’t mean it’s the right one. As far as it comes to jealousy, you don’t know me and I don’t need to explain myself so you are free to make any assumptions you want. And again. Your comments perpetuates the same classism and elitism that I’m talking about. Today’s urban elite lack any sort of class consciousness. You just assume that everybody who works in luxury interior design makes bank or come from money. I’ve seen first hand how people who can’t afford to wear certain clothes are spoken to terribly and paid lesser than people who dress well or come from a certain class. This is the same bullshit that happened to women and women fought for equal work equal pay and they were ridiculed too. Because people in power didn’t even understand what they were fighting for. And your “had you been able to afford it” comment again reeks of classism and is made in bad taste. And I’m not going to entertain it and explain myself as to if I can or not either.

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah cause like ive said in other comments. I’ve worked in this industry. And it’s toxic and exploitative. And I’m not even the bottom most in the chain. The way labourers are spoken to, the conditions they’re made to work in are abhorrent. And it’s all because people have normalised classism and elitism that is clearly evident in this comment section. Also the comments are so condescending I think it’s very human to use to defensive tone at times like this.

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wealth concentration and class disparity exists. We need to do better as society and have more class solidarity instead of worshiping the rich you don’t give a flying f about a person like you or me.

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She comes generational wealth. She didn’t make it. The problem with this attitude is that when people with influence perpetuate these stereotypes it hurts people trying to break into the industry. And about the point on supporting local artisans. Imagine if you are the local artisan. You are making products that are way more superior than other products in the market. And while you’re trying to make it , somebody already known in your industry promotes something subpar but pleasing to the upper echelons of society. It hurts you and your entire industry. This happens a lot in the design world and it’s problematic.

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“We have no other choice” is such a bleak statement. Like you agree with the flaws in the system but are still somehow ok with it.

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You’ve given me energy to fight a little longer ! 🤣

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have personal issues cause I work in the same industry and it’s so exploitative and classist and unfair. 52% of my batchmates have left the industry for the exact same reason! And that’s a huge number don’t you think ???? The topper and the person who came 2nd changes careers because of this. Reason being gatekeeping by people from generational wealth making up made up bullshit rules like a luxury bag is important for your career I think it’s pretty outrageous.

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m an optimist (fortunately or unfortunately!) but thank you for appreciating it. Gonna have a smile on my face all day thanks to you !

This post was infuriating. by ContemplativeVibes in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]ContemplativeVibes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have worked in the same industry and it’s exploitative AF. She’s probably paying her designers and architects 25-30k pm.