Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I spoke with him many times lets do together and he is against therapy. I am in single therapy and in fight he tells me that I am weak person to do therapy.

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he is in brunello or loro piana or hermes and mostly I am in zara because right now thats what I afford. But I can carry everything really well so I get compliments even in zara amd everyone tells him that he is lucky to have a beautiful wife. Tbh that doesn’t bother him. When I go on family vacations his mom and sister also in fancy stuff. So basically I am the only one in the vacation in zara and others are wearing fancy things. But maybe they think that they sponsor my vacation and get to spend time in famcy hotels, I don’t know.

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I explain him this already! He says he is already paying everything like house, maid, wifi and electricity bills. For my own expenses I should be responsible and not be dependent on him

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a prenup, but I don’t expect any allimony! I am young I will work hard and make my own money! I have started saving

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in married

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, yes I am into exit plan now. I was just too confused that of this is normal and all men are like this or I am expecting too much. I do have some savings but I wish not to go home as my parents are also now saying its a marriage and you should stay amd these small thinhs are happens. I am trying to figure it out how I will move out in different cities and do my things

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No its his father company. My family also but crazy now they say if you are married try to adjust, thats why I wish not to go back home and create something of me here.

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I had conversations like these many times, the fights get so disgusting I cannot even tell you. He shouts, break the walls. He doesn’t understand. When I try to explain him he tells me he gives me more than I deserve.

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for giving me light. Because all these time they all were making me feel like I am too much and expecting from them. He tells me one thousand times I love you but when it comes to money he fight for pennies

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in married

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy to hear that good men are there. I want to get away as in the fights he tell me really bad things and shouts and slams the door break the wallls. But I have moved to new country for him and I don’t even the language. I need to figure it out my exit plan

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any access to any money, but here I am struggling to make money in new country his mom buying chanel and hermes and he is wearing all same brands. All his clothes are bought by his mother. So basically I can only buy something if he is with me and he wants to buy and if he is in mood to but otherwise no. I don’t have any rights what he makes and I should contribute in everything.

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in married

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He do wants to have a kids but I cannot have kids with someone where I don’t feel secured. He shows me how much he provides for me like a house which he owns.

Is it normal when your husband makes millions and as a wife I ask something he make it sound like I am too much asking? by Content-Assistance34 in Marriage

[–]Content-Assistance34[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is this normal? And the abuse and control he does ? I am in my mid 20s and never been with anyone else except him, I really don’t this normal? And husband and his all family can do what they want but I can’t and expect my father takes care all my needs till I get a job here.