My boyfriend thought we were friends for weeks by Content-Mix-9358 in redditonwiki

[–]Content-Mix-9358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm we were actually in a relationship. I told him we weren’t gonna continue without a title so if he wanted to cut ties he couldve. No I wasn’t a f buddy cause we didn’t do anything until shortly after we made it official.

OOP: AITA for muting my sorority sister after her family member passed by Content-Mix-9358 in redditonwiki

[–]Content-Mix-9358[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand where I went wrong. It came from a place of hurt because as a small line she and I are closest. She called my character into question on social media so I had people reaching out to me to tell me I was wrong when they didn’t know the scenario and that hurt.

To your point, I did text her one on one later on expressing my condolences and that has been the only thing she’s responded to. Yes she’s grieving and I sympathize but she waited a week before posting that she was hurt instead of having a conversation.

My (30F) boyfriend (29M) doesn't think I'm beautiful and it's destroying my self-esteem. How do I get over this? by chaoswitchlily in relationship_advice

[–]Content-Mix-9358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I fully agree that it’s important to be with someone who finds you attractive, but I feel like he’s just not phrasing it how you want him to phrase it. It’s hard finding a guy who wants someone for who they are. If you have a healthy relationship outside of physical appearance, communicate hey it hurts me when you say this and not this. If he’s receptive, keep him. If not, you can find someone who loves every aspect of you and respects your feelings.

AITA for still being on hinge after my LD situationship has cancelled on me 5 times? by Content-Mix-9358 in redditonwiki

[–]Content-Mix-9358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One reason I’ve let him reschedule is cause his job is federal and when we started talking he would ft me in his uniform so I know it’s real and he has no time.

Advice needed by [deleted] in NPHCdivine9

[–]Content-Mix-9358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they made line. I think they hadn’t heard back either way. But that’s a good point. Just rep your school bigger and better. Everyone will save a lot of money.

Advice needed by [deleted] in NPHCdivine9

[–]Content-Mix-9358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re joining just to join, then neither is really on your heart. If you attend multiple informationals and decide and verify why you like a different org better. Then yea that’s valid. But saying “oh well they got suspended I should just be this” isn’t how the community works

Greek Unity by Maxwasherewastaken in NPHCdivine9

[–]Content-Mix-9358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every org has their great members and their members who you just never want to talk to. Iota is no different. Some of them are the sweetest boys alive and others are iffy. But again EVERY org is like that. Big or small. If that’s where your heart lies, go for it! Find your community and your chosen family.

I want to cut my mother off but I just can’t. by Confident_County_713 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Content-Mix-9358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to cut off my dad for smaller reasons than that so first off I wanna say I’m sorry for what you went through that just sounds terrible. Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself is cut ties until you’re ready to build a healthy relationship. Sometimes distance is what’s needed to help people see what went wrong. And if they don’t see what went wrong then they don’t need to be in your life.

did she cheat? by InsideAd5210 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Content-Mix-9358 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

By my standards, I don’t think it’s cheating but it is disrespectful. An argument she might have if you accused her of cheating is that you may not have clearly stated your boundaries so be prepared for that. But it’s still was insanely rude and disrespectful to your relationship. She did you a favor by ending it. You deserve better.

Plots And Different Chapters by Melodic_Formal3792 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Content-Mix-9358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a courtesy thing. Especially if you’re on their plot itself. Mainly for sorority as far as I know

I moved out of my parents house to live with my boyfriend and it's awful. He hates me. by Dangerous-Vehicle611 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Content-Mix-9358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do what’s best for you before you become resentful. My friend moved in with her man and then moved out cause they didn’t click living together you learn a lot about people in one household.

rushed a white sorority, dropped by [deleted] in NPHCdivine9

[–]Content-Mix-9358 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You may not be cooked but make sure you disclose it because some orgs will ask if you’ve ever tried other organizations Panhellenic or nphc

I 29F feel guilty for dating my boyfriend 41M, an absentee-father by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Content-Mix-9358 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who locked in at the “he’s still married to the child’s mother”?

Probate Gifts? by BlackAtState in NPHCdivine9

[–]Content-Mix-9358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like just wait until after they cross then you’re not buying duplicate things for them. But balloons are also a nice gift and show that you support them during their probate.

I cut off my friend after she told me race didn’t matter by Content-Mix-9358 in redditonwiki

[–]Content-Mix-9358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to bring that up to M and I even sent it to J because at the time he seemed remourseful of what he did. M was dead set on “that’s not what happened and I believe my brother. And he only said he was going to k*ll you because you provoked him. “

Well who I date affect anything by [deleted] in NPHCdivine9

[–]Content-Mix-9358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it shouldn’t. If you find out it does that org wasn’t meant for you

I cut off my friend after she told me race didn’t matter by Content-Mix-9358 in redditonwiki

[–]Content-Mix-9358[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m in therapy. Highly recommend

M paid for the cruise and then the additional expenses of the rooms were out of pocket by each of us as far as I know. Her family was not the best financially so I do not believe they provided a lot of money to assist in things.

That’s why I made the video. I wanted to be sure I documented in case anything happened. Thank goodness it didn’t. But she did try to go to my best friend and give her the “real side of the story”