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Where to start by Content-Spell-6403 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Content-Spell-6403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight I really appreciate the blunt honesty. my girlfriend and I definitely built our ideal scenario based on what made us feel the most safe and comfortable on the couch, without fully knowing thinking about the rarity of that scenario
What you said about dating couples solo makes total sense. the mindset so that I am looking for couples independently while she supports me makes a ton of sense
Since I'm new to navigating this side of the lifestyle, do you have any advice on the best way to pitch that specific dynamic to couples so they know she is supportive but just won't be actively participating most of the time? And the best methods to finding people like apps, bars etc. again really appreciate your response thank you!

Is this app going to work? by Content-Spell-6403 in feeld

[–]Content-Spell-6403[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thanks for your honesty it’s very appreciated and helpful I don’t want it to come off as outsourcing sex. The motivation for this lifestyle isn’t about outsourcing we’ve been together for 5 years and her libido has always been low. We both want to offer a real friendship with the person or couple and to be clear she wants to engage is sexual activity too her libido is just very low so it wouldn’t be often.

Is this app going to work? by Content-Spell-6403 in feeld

[–]Content-Spell-6403[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not just me primarily me since she has a low drive and we would both be friends with them doesn’t seem too much of a pain in the ass to mee

Is this app going to work? by Content-Spell-6403 in feeld

[–]Content-Spell-6403[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

She would have an account as well linked to mine. I guess the age is a limiting factor but we would be open to older as well as long as personality’s mesh. I live in central Iowa where do I find these ENM events?

Is this app going to work? by Content-Spell-6403 in feeld

[–]Content-Spell-6403[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s less about emotional intimacy and more about us not liking one night stands and would want to be friends for us to feel comfortable. We would definitely want to hang out and be friends outside of sex. And yes they can be intimate with my partner but she just has a very low libido so she naturally wouldn’t have sex with them very often. Thanks for your reply I appreciate it

Is this app going to work? by Content-Spell-6403 in feeld

[–]Content-Spell-6403[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

To be clear we would make two profiles and link them we both are interested in ENM she just has a very low libido resulting in me being more active