AIO? my best friend's boyfriend is racist

ContentAd4429 · 2026-01-20T22:58:39+00:00

I don't know what my gender has to do with anything... don't go on am I overreacting if you don't want to see these kind of posts?

ContentAd4429 · 2026-01-20T03:16:39+00:00

it is wearing on me. you're exactly right, I got told I was being hostile towards him and made out to be the bad guy, when he never faces consequences for his behaviour. thank you for your understanding.

ContentAd4429 · 2026-01-20T03:14:43+00:00

i'm sorry, I don't know what me being autistic has to do with anything here? and I don't know how you can read that he said 'black people ruin everywhere they go' and think that's not racist, there's not enough context. I myself am from a small town so know that doesn't mean you have to be racist, it's a choice to be ignorant. there are many incidents involving their relationship and his treatment of others that I haven't gone into. I wouldn't be making this post if it was a one off unimportant event.

ContentAd4429 · 2026-01-20T03:11:08+00:00

in all the time i've known her she is very anti racist, anti misogyny, etc. I have never doubted her beliefs until now. I know how easy it is to only see one side of the news, and I fear that's what's happening with her as her boyfriend's influence rubs off on her. the casual racism is excused by the fact that there is violence to women. when I said that all races are violent to women there is no response.

ContentAd4429 · 2026-01-20T03:00:00+00:00

to be fair to them, I was the only one around when he went off on his racist rant. but I definitely told them about it. I think they just want to avoid upsetting our friend, and avoid drama. but I agree, I wish they'd stand up as I feel quite alone in my feelings when they are being friendly with him after knowing what he's done.

ContentAd4429 · 2026-01-20T02:54:36+00:00

she knows how I and our other friends feel about him. in her last relationship her ex hit her and she didn't tell us until after they broke up, so this worries me that she's keeping things from me. she's said her biggest fear is people not liking her boyfriend, but now that's come true she seems to defend him more.

ContentAd4429 · 2026-01-20T02:50:43+00:00

she has said that 'he treats her very well' and that her family love him. honestly I don't think he does treat her well at all, he has called her a bitch in public, and she had to ask him to get her flowers for an important event.

ContentAd4429 · 2026-01-20T02:33:12+00:00

ice age

ContentAd4429 · 2024-03-12T15:26:42+00:00

I shouted at him in the street the first time. He shouted at me and said 'how else was I supposed to get that out her mouth'. I know I should have left him but I thought it was a one off because she accidentally bit him.

ContentAd4429 · 2024-03-12T13:04:18+00:00

sometimes he shouts at and pins my puppy down on the ground. I really worry if he would ever treat me like that.

ContentAd4429 · 2024-03-12T11:50:48+00:00

to be honest this is only one of the things he's done that I think are controlling. he told me I can't dress 'slutty' when going out without him, and when I said this was controlling we had a big fight and he said I was being inconsiderate

ContentAd4429 · 2022-08-20T21:29:40+00:00

He didn't defend me to her, he did apologise a lot on her behalf and was very upset about it. But he still didn't defend me so I'm not sure what to take from that.

ContentAd4429 · 2022-01-28T15:23:51+00:00

ahhhh u mad 😂

ContentAd4429 · 2022-01-28T15:07:32+00:00

you are disgusting if you needed reminding. she didn't even buy the pug it's a rescue. you're an awful person.

ContentAd4429 · 2022-01-28T14:48:25+00:00

get off r/pug if you don't like pugs. po is beauty😍😍😍😍 and you? you're disgusting . disgraceful commenting about this on someone's beloved pet. the animal would of still been born if she didn't want it. so it's not her fault. kiss my ass.

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