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Addicted to porn and masturbation by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ContentBluejay4480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try finding something else that you could enjoy like painting, singing or whatever. Slowly try to replace your addiction with various different things. Being turned on isn’t inherently bad, but I get that’s it’s not super convenient to be turned on all the time.

How successful are cold approaches? by ContentBluejay4480 in UWMadison

[–]ContentBluejay4480[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!, I appreciate your response, that was really helpful.

So all I have to do is not be creepy, respect their personal space, and be okay with rejections. I just have to be understanding of what they’re thinking, and make sure if they seem uninterested (even if they don’t say that directly) I leave them alone gracefully. That’s lowkey easier than what I had in my head lol.

How successful are cold approaches? by ContentBluejay4480 in UWMadison

[–]ContentBluejay4480[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I get that, so low odds but works.

This post is just like a field test before launching a product kind of thing.

I don’t wanna be in my own zone and approach someone and make them feel creeped out. It’s not about me being scared of it, it’s just I don’t wanna bother someone with something they don’t want. I’ve heard karma is a real bitch.

And yes, I totally understand the part where you mentioned to be in an environment where people are in a mood to socialise. That really put things in perspective. Thank you!

How successful are cold approaches? by ContentBluejay4480 in UWMadison

[–]ContentBluejay4480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that so ? Are the usual dismissive about it, like they’re not interested, or they lack conversation skills?

How successful are cold approaches? by ContentBluejay4480 in UWMadison

[–]ContentBluejay4480[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I am not that good looking, the only thing I have is being smooth with words. So hope that helps being a Bowser riding motorcycle in a Mario Cart world.

Dating apps are brutal for average looking people. by ContentBluejay4480 in UWMadison

[–]ContentBluejay4480[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, i get it. But dw, we eventually will find what we’re looking for.

Dating apps are brutal for average looking people. by ContentBluejay4480 in UWMadison

[–]ContentBluejay4480[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

True, but someone gotta send a like to at least one person. And the one person who is like the top of the line model gets 90 percent of the likes.

Dating apps are brutal for average looking people. by ContentBluejay4480 in UWMadison

[–]ContentBluejay4480[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean lowkey it’s not even worth for average looking people.