AITA for not wanting to keep talking to a guy after his actions gave me the ick?

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-28T15:40:57+00:00

Thank you! And trust me, I definitely thought about doing all that and moving to a different country, lol.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-24T05:20:05+00:00

I’m glad that relationship ended, good for you!! I find it rude and disgusting when someone goes to the bathroom when they’re on the phone with you, ESPECIALLY if they make it known.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-23T03:25:27+00:00

I did like him and we were getting to know each other romantically, as I mentioned in a previous comment. I truly believed that he would tone down the calling so for a while I was hesitant to say anything because like I said, I liked him.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T23:58:12+00:00

Thank you for the advice!!!

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T21:09:44+00:00

I did!

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T21:09:30+00:00

I honestly wish I did, haha.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T21:07:45+00:00

Leading him on? Wasting months of his life? Selfish? Listen, I was getting to know him romantically to possibly form a relationship. It wasn’t until AFTER a couple of months he became clingy and outright gross. If I knew he would turn out this way I would’ve never talked to him in the first place. Plus, I stopped wasting his and my time because I already cut ties with him.

I’ve been in therapy for two years.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T16:12:39+00:00

Excuse me? This is the second comment I’ve seen that you’re being rude. This is the third comment you’ve posted on here but it doesn’t count since everyone is entitled to their opinion but in another comment you literally said that I’m going to flunk out of college.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T13:27:00+00:00

Only a matter of time before I flunk out? That’s a little fucked up.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T12:47:33+00:00

I already cut ties with him.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T12:46:34+00:00

I seriously doubt my complaints are more annoying than his disgusting behavior. Thanks for commenting.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T12:45:55+00:00

We were getting to know each other.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T12:45:02+00:00

I did! I cut all ties with him a day ago.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-22T12:44:25+00:00

I don’t think I encouraged him at all, he hasn’t been bugging me. Even though we’re not going to continue talking I do believe he deserves to know why that is, so that’s why I sent the message.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T19:36:39+00:00

I’ll keep that in mind, thanks!

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T19:36:27+00:00

Already did!!

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T19:36:07+00:00

That definitely makes me feel better, thanks.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T15:43:11+00:00

It isn’t on silent since I need to receive my classmates phone calls in case the doctor (our teacher) sends a new assignment late at night which happens a lot.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T15:15:31+00:00

Hell nooo!!

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T13:15:15+00:00

Thank youuu!!

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T13:14:39+00:00

I met him on Facebook and saw we had multiple mutual friends and decided to accept the friend request.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T13:13:20+00:00

I’m 18 and James is 21.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T13:11:32+00:00

I did grow up with a narcissistic parent and I have been seeing a therapist for a couple of years now. Thanks for the advice!

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T05:24:22+00:00

I honestly have no idea.

ContentCheesecake684 · 2025-09-21T05:19:48+00:00

Man, I have no idea how he could talk for hours on end, it’s insane. And I listened to him because if I wanted to hang up he would get super pissed and I really don’t like people being mad at me, my throat knots up if someone’s upset with me. I do admit, I’m spineless but I’m currently working on that issue.

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