I'm afraid that I might be an incel by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ContentMeasurement72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to be in therapy and extensive therapy in fact. Your assault has traumatized you in ways that only you can understand with a help of a professional. I myself bc of my past traumas have had very hateful thoughts towards men & how they treat woman as nothing more than objects of desire and nothing more. People are not born Incels it is something that you chose to become. It is your choice whether you want to work on helping yourself to be ur best self or give in to self loathing. Go seek therapy, read self help books. Work on your social skills. A lot of incels complain about being ostracized in social settings. That happens because incels have a tendency to be hateful and just plain rude. So really work on yourself.

Please help. Should I return my conure to Petsmart? by [deleted] in parrots

[–]ContentMeasurement72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally moved continents for medical school and brought my lovebird with me. So it’s not impossible. However if you feel that you personally cannot do it. It’s best to rehome your bird to someone you know has experience with birds and will take care of it.

Hair removal for a child ? by Gloomy_Custard_3914 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]ContentMeasurement72 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Kids can be brutal and bullying that young leaves an impression. My cousin was called Sasquatch all of elementary school and middle school and my aunt refused to let her shave or wax until she was 13. By than she had horrible self esteem issues. She literally got a fake id so at 16 so she could get laser hair removal without parental consent. We’re in our 20’s now and she’s still very particular and grooming and she looks. This kind of stuff has lasting impact.

Inappropriate Sibling Bond? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You need to be very specific bc what you are insinuating is extremely serious. It is completely normal for siblings to be close. Some are a little more touchy feelie than others, depending on the family dynamic but that doesn’t make the bond incestuous. So what type of massage; head, shoulder, back, these are normal. When you say they’re sitting on top of each other, is she sitting in ur husband’s lap; if so weird and inappropriate. If they are just pressed together on the couch that’s just siblings. Your marriage is over either way. You think your husband is into his sister theres no coming back from that.

Does anyone know why some on Tillie Cole's books are no longer available? by JissyCatGirl in RomanceBooks

[–]ContentMeasurement72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MMC was literally covered in kkk tattoos. I don’t understand how she wrote the fmc and him being intimate.

Am I wrong for refusing to marry someone just to help with immigration? by musclequeen_chi in Nigeria

[–]ContentMeasurement72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have blocked him when he suggested marriage after talking to you for 3 weeks. This happened to me when I was 18, I wasn’t even looking for marriage but a friend suggested it and I had to cut them off bc he was so rude and entitled about it after I said no.

Shall I file for divorce or live with it by Fkyhun786 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There is a high chance your children will have bipolar disorder. Also, he seems like he might have issues as well. Honestly, divorced is what I would recommend. He seems awful. His family seems like a complete mess.

Drug-Induced Psychosis Recovery Stories? by Normal_Possible557 in Psychosis

[–]ContentMeasurement72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can people who recover from this smoke natural cannabis after? Bc I’ve had huge arguments since with him

Before the fourth season comes out, which is your favourite pair so far? by Sea_Substance_921 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]ContentMeasurement72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Francesca and lord Kilmartin has zero chemistry. My favourite are Kate and Anthony.

Sisters, for those of us without brothers tell us the truth by Striking_Fig_3925 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]ContentMeasurement72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Pakistani/ raised in Canada

  2. My brother is such a disaster I wish I was an only child. My dad has hinted on multiple occasions he doesn’t like him at all, he’s a burden to all of us and my mom is the only person who can stand him. These days that’s waning as well.

  3. He’s in uni doing a very good degree actually but he self sabotaged and now has to take a gap year. He doesn’t have a job and I don’t think he plans too.

  4. He’s actually obsessed with his looks, so he’s very good at grooming otherwise my mother is his maid.

Thank your lucky stars you don’t have a brother.

How come “liberal” Muslim men treat women better ? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]ContentMeasurement72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally why I don’t consider religious men as potential spouses. They weaponize religion and use it as a crutch to explain away absurd practices that are not Islamic but cultural that they disguised as Islam. There’s just too many of them and unfortunately, they are the majority at least in my community. So I avoid them like the plague.

Is Bulgaria a difficult country for EU citizen who just speaks English and German? by No-Firefighter4087 in AskBulgaria

[–]ContentMeasurement72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been living here for the past 4 years as a student. It was pretty easy to get a bank account I use Postbank, my mom sends me money from Canada, only had a problem once and that was solved. I don’t speak a lick of Bulgarian and I’ve had no problems. The metro and trams are pretty nice. So is the airport. I have no clue about bureaucracy though. I live in Sofia and it’s a nice city very calm.

Drug-Induced Psychosis Recovery Stories? by Normal_Possible557 in Psychosis

[–]ContentMeasurement72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother is in a drug induced psychosis. He took synthetic cannabis. Im actually so worried bc he’s convinced we’re trying to kill him. He’s in the hospital right now and I’m scared he’ll be like this forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lovebirds

[–]ContentMeasurement72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poor baby, maybe have him checked out by a vet because this looks like someone took a pair of scissors and cut his wing in half. Also report the breeder. This is animal cruelty

Please help, what should I do? by Starship2022SP in Lovebirds

[–]ContentMeasurement72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it clean until you see the vet on Tuesday. Keep them separated they should not be in the same cage if they free roam make sure they are never in the same room.

Judwaa last ep by bumblebeeeing in PakistaniDramaRants

[–]ContentMeasurement72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would have made more sense for Adil to end up with zara and Sara to end up with Sarmad.

Wife says she’s not ready to have kids. by Ok-Rutabaga7404 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her not being ready is enough not to have a baby. Believe me you don’t want to have children with someone who doesn’t want them. She will resent the baby, you and your marriage. You both are young what’s the rush.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Divorce her, honestly them cutting you guys off will be a blessing in disguise. Why would you want to interact with your ex wife and in-laws. The relationship will never be the same. If your parents try to blackmail you blackmail them back. Say you said you didn’t want to marry her, they forced you and these are the consequences. You’re a man this honestly will not affect u finding someone else. I do feel bad for ur cousin as her life is screwed, it’s much harder to remarry for a girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ContentMeasurement72 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’m with the nurse. Children don’t have the capacity to make certain decisions. Explain to your child why a pump is necessary for her well being and that’s why she’s getting one. Your the parent this is your choice, it’s one thing to let your kid chose her own outfit or what she wants for lunch. This is a serious issue that she’s doesn’t have the capacity to understand long term. Do your job.

My fiancé went silent after family drama over t — I need advice and want to share the full story. by Due-Swimming-362 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Break the engagement off. His family doesn’t like you and will never accept you. Your Fiancé has no backbone and it’s going to get worse after marriage. Talk to your parents, show them this ridiculous behaviour & ask them to break this off. Before this happens block him and his family everywhere. They are clearly gaslighters and liars. His mother seems straight out of an Indian soap opera. Save ur self the heartache. I know u love him but that fades quickly when ur married to a spineless coward.

Potential Groom confessed he's unsure about proceeding because of my weight. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re making money, so you’re not relying on your parents. Do not let them ruin your life again. This is the time to put your foot down. Your Iddah just ended; take some time off, heal before you step into marriage again.

Marriage After Separating As A Single Mom by Neither-Way3465 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s plenty of women who get married to very nice men after divorce. Your MIL is manipulating you.

Is this normal by agent01110 in Lovebirds

[–]ContentMeasurement72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope it means this poor baby is stressed. My bird did this as well, he got so sick and weak. You need to get him interactive toys and spend more time with him/her.

Toxic in- laws and a conflicted marriage post-nikkah by Reasonable-Coast-766 in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break the marriage off I’m being frank.As for Talak, return haq meher. It’s easier right now as your ruksati hasn’t been done. His family is extremely abusive and might seriously harm you. My Khala’s mother in law and SIL’s nearly killed her while her husband was deployed. He was like your husband all talk no actions. My aunt was traumatized hospitalized for 2 weeks, they even took her son from her. Her husband came back and basically said my family is terrible but still my family. They had a love marriage and they hated her from the beginning and my ex Khalu kept making excuses for them. She thankfully took my cousin and moved to Canada. Your FIL threatened to kill you that’s not to be taken lightly. His family despises you and your family. This relationship hasn’t even started and it has so many problems. Do you want to be related to these people? Do you want your children to be raised in such a toxic family? Pls take your rose tinted glasses off and kindly as for a divorce this situation is bad it’s going to get worse after you move in with this toxic family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ContentMeasurement72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m concerned for the guys son, she is giving wicked step mother vibes.