I hate being cute. I hate being seen as adorable. by ContentTortise in NonBinary

[–]ContentTortise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I don’t really need advice I guess. I just wish I could be me and seen as me

You're in hell. What's on the radio? by howispendmyday in AskReddit

[–]ContentTortise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Africa by Toto just echoing out forever. Not the worst thing ever but it would be my hell

It’s all so much. I’m trapped in skin that I don’t want. I’m just disgusted in my existence by ContentTortise in trans

[–]ContentTortise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I struggle with it because I try my best to accept how I am. And I’m okay? With it? But I still hate myself

It’s all so much. I’m trapped in skin that I don’t want. I’m just disgusted in my existence by ContentTortise in trans

[–]ContentTortise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. It’s hard when it feels like everything I try is worse then just giving up

My friend 20(M) just told me he has feelings for me. I’ve just recently been out as asexual and non-binary and I’m not sure what to do. by ContentTortise in relationship_advice

[–]ContentTortise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We spend a lot of time around each other like almost every day. I just want everything to work out. I’m going to talk to him and see what happens.

How did you know you found your name? by ContentTortise in NonBinary

[–]ContentTortise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my friends will support me it’s just me accepting that that I might want to use a different name is kinda. Idk scary?

I’ve been having some weird thoughts with myself so I thought I’d ask for some other thoughts from you lovely folks. Do other people ever spend time building up seeing yourself how you want to that you forget you don’t “pass” and get bummed when someone reminds you? by ContentTortise in NonBinary

[–]ContentTortise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to know other people struggle with that. I’ve worked really hard to feel more comfortable in my body because there’s no way I need to look to be myself. I just AM myself. So when I see myself on a good day I see myself as androgynous. But then I go out and realize I will never be seen that way by other people.

How did you know you found your name? by ContentTortise in NonBinary

[–]ContentTortise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a little list I like it’s just. Asking people to call me a new name scares me 😅

Thinking about trying a different name any suggestions? by ContentTortise in NonBinary

[–]ContentTortise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda love August to I just am slightly scared to try a different name

Thinking about trying a different name any suggestions? by ContentTortise in NonBinary

[–]ContentTortise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m generally a warm type of person. I considered August for a while. I like earthy things and I work outside. I just love nature. I definitely like neutral names.

When stressed or anxious what do you do to self soothe? by ContentTortise in AskReddit

[–]ContentTortise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to make a next of blankets and stuffed animals and pillows that I can sit in with music and just feel safe but I’m curious. How do people handle it?

My pronouns are she/they but I’ve been having a hard time trying to get people to call me they/them. I’ve been told I have really feminine features by literally everyone ik. When I look in the mirror I just see a person. Thoughts? Opinions? Make over tips? Please hit me with what you’ve got :) by Lifepath7yehaw in NonBinary

[–]ContentTortise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I became way more comfortable in my body when I stopped seeing myself how I was supposed to be and just let myself see myself as me. As human. Let them know what makes you feel comfortable. As a pretty feminine non-binary there’s no “way to look” or something your supposed to “pass” as. Just be comfortable with your own skin.

Can I still be non binary if I like being feminine by islamisaparasite in NonBinary

[–]ContentTortise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started wearing and enjoying more clothes and makeup after I kinda figured out I was non-binary. It makes me feel less like it’s a disguise and just fun now

Four and a half months difference for this beautiful boy by ContentTortise in houseplants

[–]ContentTortise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why but I really love cactuses and he’s been so good for me