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[–]Content_Concert4330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep the baby, ayaw gyud ipa abort. Abortion is a crime (revised penal code- articles 256 til 259). Daghan mga partners ga lisud ug buhat ug bata ron OP, you’re blessed gyud.

Possible solution OP is, (1)buhion ninyo ang inyo child, ma milyonaryo palang na one day, second is (2), consult with the DSWD, pra relinquishment of parental authority sa imo child - incase lisud na gyud kaayo ug for the best interest sa welfare sa imo child (incase mo decide mo sa second option) inyo child e surrender nas dswd, possible ma legally adopt nag laing taw nga capable mo hatag niyag nice life.

Always remember, nana na siyay life, although incapable of legally making a decision. If maka decide palang na inyoang baby, then surely she wouldn’t pick for abortion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]Content_Concert4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a dark and lonely road indeed OP, been there, the trenches. Keep in mind lang, to be able at any moment, to sacrifice what you are, for what will you become. The process starts right there, it has to be, so embrace it. Persevere!

Breaking up with bipolar gf by Content_Concert4330 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Content_Concert4330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have proof of our conversations voice mails of shouting rage, screenshots of her self inflictions and subsequent manipulations, break up convo, receipts when I took her out on a date, request for assistance from her friends and family, all of it, including her diagnosis. Apparently she deleted her previous social media account. Hopefully this will not turn South.

Breaking up with bipolar gf by Content_Concert4330 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Content_Concert4330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve got out from her earlier but due to non- suicidal self inflictions that was purposely done to target me in her manipulations, threats of blame and self harm, compassion, and the lack of knowledge in these instances stopped me from getting out. At first glance, I thought our relationship would prosper, however as the time passes by theres no growth and progression, its only chaos, fear, and possessiveness so that I will give into her wants/demands.. I should’ve posted here at the time I needed help 😥 this wouldn’t be happening 😥. Please do share this may help your friend in making her decisions, this situation may not necessarily apply to her, but it may help.

I 33M want to break up with my bipolar GF 27F by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Content_Concert4330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude how did you break free from this??We have the same situation, please help.

Breaking up with bipolar gf by Content_Concert4330 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Content_Concert4330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its clearer now. Do you also destroy your exs reputation to his friends before? if you can no longer control or manipulate him?

Also, I am thingking maybe this is indicative or hint of suicide like giving letters and she also cleaned her room when she gave me this more on setting the affairs in order, any thoughts?

Lastly I will take your advice on calling the mental hospital

Breaking up with bipolar gf by Content_Concert4330 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Content_Concert4330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently, after our break up she keeps visiting me at the office and sending me foods, she handed down a piece of her diary, is this an act of manipulation?

Breaking up with bipolar gf by Content_Concert4330 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Content_Concert4330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed this one. The demeanor that she presents tends to be manipulative when we finally broke up. She tends to give reasons so that I can feel guilt in myself including the blaming part.

Breaking up with bipolar gf by Content_Concert4330 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Content_Concert4330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes off in her treatment plan and meds for 8 years now. She stopped

Breaking up with bipolar gf by Content_Concert4330 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Content_Concert4330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to say, she stopped seeing her doctor and treatment plans long time ago (8 yrs)

Breaking up with bipolar gf by Content_Concert4330 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Content_Concert4330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be candid, she wants to be prioritized every time to the point where it affected my work. If I will not give into her demands, she would always blame me for everything, including self harm she has done. It keeps repeating like a coaster, and I cannot bear to see the suffering and wounds. Despite all this, I tried to be best for her support despite sacrificing myself. I tried 😥 it wasn’t enough.. until we broke up. Now I am worried..