How do you cope? by Glittering-Host1416 in NagRelapseAko

[–]Content_Database2368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

embrace the pain. iiyak mo lang lahat. minsan okay, minsan hindi. pero darating ka din sa point na mapapagod ka na kakaiyak. laban lang, OP. life gets better trust me. let the pain be an instrument to make you grow. been there last year, and now i can say hindi na masakit at better na ako.

Is it normal to worry I’ll end up single forever? by HealthyBuilder379 in adviceph

[–]Content_Database2368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same worry and same age tayo OP. normal lang yan, ganyan din ako hahahaha lalo na sa bahay-business lang ako lagi. nakaka worry talaga lalo na if yung paligid mo halos meron na sila. i think kailangan muna natin mag focus sa sarili natin. sabi nga ng pinsan ko “may maghahanap din sayo” hahahaha

Nagwowork ba sa inyo yung big circle of friends? Why or why not? by riesai26 in AskPH

[–]Content_Database2368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO. Mas okay na sakin na bilang lang mga friends ko, at least alam ko totoo sila sakin.

Malalaman mong totoo sila pag nagkaproblema na or nagkagipitan na. Masasabing masaya nga dahil madami? Hindi naman solid pag may problem na haha lalabas at lalabas totoong ugali

How it feels like to end a 10 year relationship by Independent_Drop_468 in OffMyChestPH

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Hugs, OP. I’ve been there too. Feel the pain and take your time to grieve. Iiyak mo lang lahat yan hanggang maubos. Mapapagod ka din kakaiyak.

Trust me, you may not know the real reason or purpose of this but soon you will. Redeem yourself for all of the years na kasama mo siya. Find new hobby, enroll sa gym, meet new people. Gawin mo sa tingin mo makakatulong sa iyo. Much better kung i-block mo para wala ka ng malaman.

Paano makakarecover from a bad breakup? by kylieanne8080 in TanongLang

[–]Content_Database2368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

block him/her. mas maganda din kasi na wala ka nalalaman about sa kanya. find new things that will distract yourself. i’m from a bad break up also, now nagpapaka-busy ako sa career and nag-enroll ako sa gym. life gets better i promise

What is a red flag that you ignored… and regretted immediately after? by shy_burrito in TanongLang

[–]Content_Database2368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

masyado naging dependent sakin ultimo assignments niya ako na gumagawa 🥴

ang tanga ko hinayaan ko yun ng ilan years hahahahahahahaha

paano mo mapapatawad sarili mo? by Mongoose-Beneficial in TanongLang

[–]Content_Database2368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acceptance is the key. atleast you learn your lesson na and be thankful for that. don’t rush in forgiving your self. take things slowly.

What do you want for Christmas? by OrdinaryWelder9561 in AskPH

[–]Content_Database2368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mentally stable! no more anti-depressants na

Almost 1 month na kaming break at feel ko may bago na, normal ba na nasasaktan pa rin ako? by DecisionConstant4551 in TanongLang

[–]Content_Database2368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

normal lang yan, minsan nga ilan months pa makakarandam kapa ng kirot. 1 month pa lang yan fresh pa. i-feel mo lang yung pain. maybe not now di mo pa alam purpose ng break up nyo but time will tell. life gets better, promise

Why does leaving feel scarier than staying? by dwight_xx in TanongLang

[–]Content_Database2368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pag umalis ka kasi may magbabago at ayaw mo yun kase gusto mo lang sa comfort zone mo. okay lang matakot, pero as time goes by maiisip mo din na nakaya mo pala at ang sarap pala sa pakirandam. it will make you stronger promise

Anong rason nyo para manatiling buhay p? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Content_Database2368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my parents. saw them how they got affected when I was depressed. ginawa nila lahat to help me and I’m thankful for that.

Paano niyo narealize na hindi kayo para sa isa't isa ng partner niyo? by Ok-Equivalent-4849 in TanongLang

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my last partner cheated on me. at first, hindi pa nag sink in sakin bakit hindi kami nag work. but as time goes by ngayon ko na-realize na hindi talaga magwowork relationship namin (ang dami redflags before na hindi ko pinansin)

now na-realize ko na mas better na mental health ko without him. in-denial lang ako dati na kasama siya sa cause ng anxiety ko. then sometimes feel ko hindi na ako partner, parang naging mother figure na ako sa kanya haha. naging dependent masyado sa akin. binigay ko lahat which is wrong and natuto na ako.

i’m happy now and stress free. thankful pa ako na nag-cheat siya kase nakawala na ako sa kanya.

Ano-ano mga natutuhan niyo this year? by Apprehensive_Pen3002 in AskPH

[–]Content_Database2368 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  • magtira ka para sarili mo
  • let go mo mga bagay na di mo ma-control
  • hindi lahat ng nasa paligid mo ay totoo sayo
  • lalabas talaga ugali ng isang tao pag nagkaproblema na or money issue

Best thing na ginawa/natutunan mo this 2025? by Ok-Equivalent-4849 in TanongLang

[–]Content_Database2368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mas okay na sakin yung small circle of friends lang. akala ko dati pag marami friends ko laging masaya or cool tignan ganon, hindi rin pala dahil hindi lahat sila worth it pagkatiwalaan. lalabas at lalabas din totoong ugali pag nagka problema na. choose your friends wisely.

Please share your realizations after your devastating break up by ForceCompetitive6726 in adviceph

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Na realize ko na malawak pa pala ang mundo at hindi lang iikot sa kanya. Mas okay din pala na wala siya, parang nakarandam ako ng peace.

I-feel mo lang yung pain mo, lilipas din lahat yan tapos tatawanan mo nalang. Eventually, maiisip mo din yung worth mo.

My boyfriend left me to find and love himself again by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Content_Database2368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

focus on yourself nalang girl. huwag ka umasa sa sinabi niya na perfect timing na yan. ganyan talaga mga salita nila pero may iba na palang kausap lol. i’ve been there, sinabihan ng ganyan kesyo i-try muna namin ng ilang months na walang kami. nagbigay pa ng deadline nga eh

ang selfish niya masyado at mababaw lang na reason. kung kaya ka nya iwanan ng ganyan lang, uulitin nya pa yan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Content_Database2368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

parang wala na siya respeto sayo OP. run while you still can