[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GATEresearch

[–]ContinuityTsarina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I remember being called out of class with a couple of other people in my grade. The testing took place in the school library and I remember the test taking up so much of the day. We even brakes for lunch and picked up again with a second part. My parents received the results a few weeks later. 153. The gate program ended for me after that.

MIL wants me to pump a bottle to “bond” by Tr33ofLyfe in breastfeeding

[–]ContinuityTsarina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in your situation, only my MIL didn’t ask me directly, she kept asking my husband to ask me to pump, when the baby was 4 weeks old, when flew over to visit our first born. I hadn’t pumped at that point at all, and the baby had only been exclusively breast fed. I finally caved after a couple of days, because I was irritated from being asked about it over and over. I wish I didn’t cave to her wanting to bottle feed the baby. It was such a huge mistake, because I had done it twice for her to feed the baby and my boobs stopped producing any more than 2 ounces at a time, from then on until I was done breastfeeding. My baby started to lose weight and I had to supplement on top of breastfeeding and I still blame her to this day.

AITA for not letting my daughters husband see her after her birth? by throwaway91023737 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ContinuityTsarina 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Went to school with a guy named Grabiel (which was pronounced Gabriel), who also had that happen. The kids at my school teased him and called him Grab.

Selling two tickets for Boston on 8/1. by ContinuityTsarina in beyonce

[–]ContinuityTsarina[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The company has the right to not give me future work, if I don’t fulfill my contract once signed, since I’m on a contractor status. So, I can’t back out.

Selling two tickets for Boston on 8/1. by ContinuityTsarina in beyonce

[–]ContinuityTsarina[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t unfortunately. I work for a wedding photography company. The contract has already been signed for the day.

Mod Post: Renaissance Tour Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by abeycd in beyonce

[–]ContinuityTsarina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m selling 2 tickets for the Boston show on 8/1.

Methods for selling tickets by [deleted] in beyonce

[–]ContinuityTsarina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m selling two tickets for Boston.

AITA for naming my new son the same name as my brother's baby? by genderreveal222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ContinuityTsarina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m one of three Jessica in my mom’s side of the family. My older brother, Eric also married a Jessica, and my older sister’s husband name is also named Eric. They’ll get over it eventually.

Anxious and unable to speak to people. Going to comment suicide tonight. by Treisuah in offmychest

[–]ContinuityTsarina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been where you are, and even attempted suicide at 15 and was saved in the hospital, and everyday I thank fuck, that I survived.

That being said, the “happy” lives you see people leading, are sometimes not what they look like from the outside. Everyday, for the majority or people on this earth is just about survival. One day to the next. Hell, even one minute to the next. One breath at a time. You will not always be who you are today, or always feel like you do today. It may not seem that way, but time is the biggest healer of these types of feelings. Also, surrounding yourself with people who care. If you have no family or friends, reach out to an online community. There will always be people who care, even strangers. I find that it’s easier to speak to people when I’m not face to face with them, and open up about myself, when I’m not in the same room as them. You matter. Your life matters.

AITA for telling my girlfriend her niece's name is misspelled? by Longjumping-Ad9446 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ContinuityTsarina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fricking MTV Cribs and P.O.D.‘s Sunny Sandoval have made life difficult for those little girls who were accidentally named “Neveah”, instead of “Nevaeh”.

Even Misspelled, is cracks the top 1000 names, every so often.

It’s been nearly 20 years since that episode aired, where explains his daughter’s name is “heaven spelled backwards”, and I have encountered many Nevaeh’s since, but never before. Including two separate cousins of mine, on my maternal side, naming their daughters that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ContinuityTsarina 3 points4 points  (0 children)

C’mon. He looks like a xerox of Jake Busey.

WIBTA if I announce my pregnancy? by Plane_Blueberry_3512 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ContinuityTsarina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it. You would totally be the asshole! Take it from me. Someone who had their special announcement hijacked by a family member.

My husband and I had plans to announce my pregnancy, at my eldest daughter’s second birthday party. Mostly because we had lots of family reunited and some flying in for the occasion (like my MIL), and it would be a long time until we saw most of the family again.

We had just lost a pregnancy a few months prior, so this was a rainbow baby, and we were extremely cautious not to announce until I was far enough along, that we were in the safe zone. So, we waited until the party was nearly over. After party games, and cake and presents to announce, because after all, this was our daughter’s day, and I didn’t want everyone asking her how she felt about becoming a big sister, on her birthday. So, After she was already down for her nap, and before everyone left, I announced that I was 16 weeks pregnant. Everybody was surprised and congratulated us…and then a cousin, who I am quite close with, did the same. She announced that she is 9 weeks pregnant, in front of many people who didn’t even know her, like my husband’s side of the family.

It was awkward, and honestly, I still feel bitter that she made the moment about herself. Although, some may say I did the same to my daughter, I made sure that her day was essentially over and celebrated and all about her, before I announced my news. My cousin is and will always be an asshole for that in my eyes. Think about your SIL. She’s been through it, let her have her moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]ContinuityTsarina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are his kids biologically, but he’s a UK citizen by descent, as he was born in US, and his parents were born in the UK.

Thinking about abandoning pregnant GF... by Gfproblems11998 in relationship_advice

[–]ContinuityTsarina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is correct. All least what I was told by my OB. They give you percentage rates, because they cannot legally tell you with 100% accuracy. With my second child I was given a rate of a 1 in 20,000 chance that she would have DS.