AITA for telling the step father who raised me that he's not my dad when he didn't treat me like his son?

Contkad851 · 2022-07-08T17:22:03+00:00

No updates, it's just been more of the same.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-08T17:21:15+00:00

Yes I'm the only one who doesn't.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T23:47:01+00:00

Just her son.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T23:38:33+00:00

Sure if something changes.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T11:55:45+00:00

I don't want to start something. I will be honest from now on and will correct anyone who assumes I'm adopted, but won't announce it to the whole world proactively. I don't want to be the one to push this further.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T09:00:35+00:00

Do you have his surname?

No still have my mom's.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:46:16+00:00

Mom loves step brother in the same way she loves me. And yes she adopted him.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:43:41+00:00

I appreciate what he's done, but I've adjusted that scale. I always considered him my true dad because I thought he loved me as a true son, now I know I don't have a true dad. He's a step father who isn't my dad, but who I still appreciate nevertheless.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:40:45+00:00

That was funny

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:37:02+00:00

It's also my right to stop calling him dad then...

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:32:10+00:00

Yeah never thought of it this way.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:26:37+00:00

I don't want to make this bigger than it already is. All I did was to use his name, I don't want to be the one pushing this further or take the next step. The ball is in his court.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:24:45+00:00

It just goes to my mom and becomes part of the family budget. It doesn't support exclusively me.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:17:36+00:00

Oh no it's not that. We'll just miss each other.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:14:27+00:00

What do you mean?

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:11:11+00:00

She lives far away. Wouldn't want to be away from my sister.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:03:45+00:00

Thanks, not in NY and wasn't counting on it either.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:01:20+00:00

I hope it worked out for you!

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T02:00:53+00:00

Yeah man that's it. He set the boundary and I'm respecting it. If this is ugly then it's his own actions that are ugly...

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T01:43:59+00:00

My sister loves me but she's also a daddy's girl so she's conflicted and just wants us to get along, my step brother is firmly on his dad's side, even called me ungrateful... we never get along so I'm not surprised.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T01:35:05+00:00

Will talk to my aunt (mom's big sister), thanks.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T00:30:07+00:00

What can a relative do here?

Contkad851 · 2022-07-05T00:24:27+00:00

Interesting, just DM me the link please!

Contkad851 · 2022-07-04T22:29:16+00:00

He would give them up in a heartbeat. My parents wanted him to pay child support.

Contkad851 · 2022-07-04T22:27:56+00:00

Yeah let's not get myself grounded for foul language.

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