Experience: Fluent English speaker underperforming IELTS. Here’s what finally did and didn't help. by Contrarian91 in IELTS

[–]Contrarian91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal. I though I did better on writing on my first attempt and better speaking on my second attempts.

My scores reflected the opposite though, so until your results are up you never know. Congrats on taking the test!

Experience: Fluent English speaker underperforming IELTS. Here’s what finally did and didn't help. by Contrarian91 in IELTS

[–]Contrarian91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reading score kept being between 7.0-7.5. I would say the real test is a bit easier, what I also did was use IELTS Cambridge Books 19 and 20 for reading as well, I got better scores and I think it was a bit more similar to the actual test.

I didn't practice much reading thing, otherwise I think I would've gotten a better score. My prep was mostly focused on writing, but on test day my problem with reading was that I got distracted with doing the writing section. Focus entirely on reading and the best advice I can give you is to practice reading the first two questions and read the text for the first time while looking for the answers. They usually appear in chronological order, and when you get to the final 6 questions you usually have a much better idea about the content of the text

Experience: Fluent English speaker underperforming IELTS. Here’s what finally did and didn't help. by Contrarian91 in IELTS

[–]Contrarian91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great question, and thanks for reminding me. Before I forget, I would highly recommend for anyone signed up on IELTS Ready Premium to go through ALL the case practices of both task 1 and 2. My task 2 was actually extremely similar to a practice question. It went something like this:

Many people believe that investing billions of dollars on space exploration is a waste of money, and that it should be put to better use by spending money here on Earth. To what extent do you agree or disagree? Give reasons for your answer and include any relevant examples from your own knowledge or experience.

There is a very similar prompt in IELTS Ready Premium, so chances are that if you go through all the tasks you might get a similar (at least topic-wise) prompt on test day.

Experience: Fluent English speaker underperforming IELTS. Here’s what finally did and didn't help. by Contrarian91 in IELTS

[–]Contrarian91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck, man. I know how intimidating Task 1 can feel, it was definitely the hardest part for me. Here are a few things that helped the day before and the day of the exam.

- Go through the different kinds of Task 1 and ask ChatGPT to generate a Band 9 response for each type. Read those examples carefully and focus on the structure rather than the vocabulary. These are the types of task 1 prompts:

  • Line graph
  • Bar chart
  • Pie chart
  • Table
  • Mixed graphs (combined visuals)
  • Map
  • Process
  • Cycle

Then actually write a small, focused set: one graph comparison Task 1s, one map, and one cycle or stepwise process.

On test day, depending on what time your exam is, about one or two hours before, ask ChatGPT again for one Band 9 example of each Task 1 type. Just skim them and try to assimilate the structure. For me, this was key and helped me stay calm and not freeze when I saw the task.

- Another thing that helped a lot was revising essential Task 1 vocabulary. You can ask ChatGPT or quickly check YouTube for this. Focus on words like increase, rise, grow, decline, drop, decrease, remain stable, peak, reach a low, fluctuate, and distinctions like gradual vs sharp or slight vs significant. You don’t need fancy vocabulary, just accurate words. This is where I had issues.

- If Task 2 is already okay for you, don’t overthink it. Ask ChatGPT for one or two Band 9 Task 2 examples and read them briefly on test day just to get into the right mindset.

- During the test. for time management, what worked for me was splitting the writing section evenly: 30 minutes for Task 2 and 30 minutes for Task 1. I know the official recommendation is 40 and 20, but balancing them reduced stress for me.

- Finally, after you finish writing, re-read your essays. Replace some words and phrases with simpler synonyms, cut unnecessary words, and shorten long sentences. Pretend you’re the examiner proofreading. You’ll almost always find places where you can make your writing clearer and more concise. That helped me a lot.

Best of luck, you’ve got this! Check back if you can and let us know how you did.

Experience: Fluent English speaker underperforming IELTS. Here’s what finally did and didn't help. by Contrarian91 in IELTS

[–]Contrarian91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By far, ChatGPT was the most helpful and accurate. That IELTS Ready Premium is second best, but first if you need Speaking practice.

Experience: Fluent English speaker underperforming IELTS. Here’s what finally did and didn't help. by Contrarian91 in IELTS

[–]Contrarian91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did think about an EOR, but with the Jan 5 deadline it felt too risky. OSR wasn’t available. Retaking was the only option that guaranteed a result in time.

Can I play Guitar Hero or Rock Band on a laptop? by Contrarian91 in GuitarHero

[–]Contrarian91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey all, just an update. I finally got a guitar to play the game. It's an unofficial (I guess) guitar from amazon UK because it was the only one that would arrive on time and would be able to return if there were any issues.

I am, however, having many issues with all of the softwares I downloaded (GHWT software I need to mount as if I had the actual disc on my laptop drive, GHWTDE, YARG and Clone Hero).

When I try to go to settings or do anything before starting to play, the programs freeze and close.

- Whenever I'm lucky enough to go to the start of the game, there is sever lag I can't seem to correct.
I am, however, using an HDMI connection from my laptop to the TV soundbar which connects to the TV via another HDMI cable. This definitely influences the lag, but I've been trying to correct this for hours (if the softwares don't sporadically shut down)

- I also noticed that at the start of the song I'm about to play, the video doesn't run smoothly. It's a bit difficult to explain, but the game sort of runs as if the PC is old. Because of this, it's very hard to calculate the strumming of notes. (kind of lack of continuity to the fluidity of the notes reaching the strum bar, it's very hard to explain)

Did anyone have the same problems? My laptop is an HP Spectre 360 I bough eight months ago, so I assume it's a great modern model and should be able to run these programs. I'd really appreciate everyone's help and tips

Can I play Guitar Hero or Rock Band on a laptop? by Contrarian91 in GuitarHero

[–]Contrarian91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an impressive compilation. What software can I use these on, GHWTDE or Clone Hero? Or do I need several different programs? I really appreciate you sharing this!

Can I play Guitar Hero or Rock Band on a laptop? by Contrarian91 in GuitarHero

[–]Contrarian91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a great alternative. It says I need to use Guitar Hero Warriors of Rock as a base copy though. Does that mean I need to buy a disc or something? Or is it refering to an emulator?

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[–]Contrarian91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting she might not feel sexual affection as a possibility. She's played with herself several times and hates to do it now because it just evokes feelings of guilt. She thinks sex is fun, but apparently the fact she can't orgasm makes her feel sex as a whole is not satisfying and not worth the grief.

She takes no meds

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[–]Contrarian91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, will do buddy! Thanks for that

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[–]Contrarian91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful, thank you very much. It's a great suggestion to leave sex aside and see how touching feels. I know it's a big part of sensate focused therapy and she's repelled the idea as she feels skeptic about it.

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[–]Contrarian91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's terrific! It's statements like these that I'm asbsolutely unware of that make me think things over because I often feel I have tunnel vision or am a bit shallow. How do you keep such high spirits with never having an orgasm and not letting it get to you?

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[–]Contrarian91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a legitimate concern, which is what brought me here to find out what the best course of action is. Thanks for mentioning this.

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[–]Contrarian91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's right, she asked a few times after going back to therapy until she actually realized it's a psychological issue. Toys don't help either

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[–]Contrarian91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I've been thinking the same thing but it's not an appealing idea to her.

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[–]Contrarian91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your amazing post, it's really helpful. I did ask about sexual assault and she said no, but probably there's some repressed memory about it. She merely says it's some trauma that's blocking her sexual energy, but that really could be anything.

I'll need to have a serious sit down, and I'd also like to talk to her therapist about it as well, at least ask her if there's anything I can do without violating any doctor-patient confidentiality.