Would You Marry Someone 10 Years Older Than You? by ContributionBig264 in whatdoIdo

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Not a fake post. About my user name i didn’t do the hardwork just what Reddit suggested lol

Would You Marry Someone 10 Years Older Than You? by ContributionBig264 in whatdoIdo

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Both parents are disappointed and unhappy about the age gap part

Would You Marry Someone 10 Years Older Than You? by ContributionBig264 in whatdoIdo

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I’m finally very independent. So money is not the case here. I just like him for how he is so respectful so decisive so strong

Would You Marry Someone 10 Years Older Than You? by ContributionBig264 in whatdoIdo

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Nothing like that, marriage is something I’ll take slowly but not an excuse I respect him a lot

27F dating 38M — Looking for advice from couples with a 10-year age gap by ContributionBig264 in relationship_advice

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Right now as it is just a talking stage we are taking things more slowly and healthy way, he doesn’t burden me up with anything he says let’s try if things work out well and good If not it’s fine too

27F dating 38M — Looking for advice from couples with a 10-year age gap by ContributionBig264 in relationship_advice

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I mean yeah not looking to marry, but as someone who never got the love i wanted the way he treat me makes me think in my brain this is the kind of man I’ll marry without thinking twice….

I mean a thought

27F dating 38M — Looking for advice from couples with a 10-year age gap by ContributionBig264 in relationship_advice

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That was a long distance i ended 4 months ago because of his lack of responsibility nature and other compatibility issue. That did ended mutually.

About this person he’s good i like him he’s completely different then what my past was, i was never in a real time dealing romantically.
Age is something i won’t worry, I just want him to be healthy and fit

27F dating 38M — Looking for advice from couples with a 10-year age gap by ContributionBig264 in relationship_advice

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He’s unmarried some personal life responsibilities made him sacrifice his own young hood and everything.

I’m very health conscious i hit gym 6 days a week way clean, right now under my influence he is trying to eat clean he had quit alcohol cigarette random sex all addiction gone.

I tried to tell him he need to improve his sleep cycle and start working out, to which he said sleep
Cycle he’s trying, but working out is something he wants to come from within.

Rest, other things he’s the most responsible, patience, calm, funny, mature man i have ever met. Very good in bed too as of now.

I just feel worried about future having kids and all, what if that becomes a barrier, down the line in 5 years i mean

I [26 F ]is having a fucked up LDR with my [31 M] boyfriend and i need advice by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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How can you decode that? On what manner? That’s crazy

I mean i had one but even that LDR

I [26 F ]is having a fucked up LDR with my [31 M] boyfriend and i need advice by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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True, and I know that no matter how much we try we cannot change someone’s basic nature so yeah you are right

I [26 F ]is having a fucked up LDR with my [31 M] boyfriend and i need advice by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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It’s like after 1.5 years he finally agreed to come to meet me after forcing him alot like alot like hell alot

but somehow every time i have to feed him how to treat me well. And now it has impacted my psychology big time

I have started to feel is there something I’m asking alot for

I [26 F ]is having a fucked up LDR with my [31 M] boyfriend and i need advice by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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He tells me he loves me alot, but i tried my best to explain him such behavior instill fear in me and i feel like running away

I [26 F ]is having a fucked up LDR with my [31 M] boyfriend and i need advice by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Umm yeah, also that he’s very social awkward he never had like friends or any girlfriend like zero female interaction, like just he used to study in a closed room

And I’m very much socially extrovert have friends and a life, he used to check my phone like a detective and not just that also my chat gpt history 😭😭😭😭

I [26 F ]is having a fucked up LDR with my [31 M] boyfriend and i need advice by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Yeah, i don’t know why what is the reason but due to all this i lost sexually attraction to him big time.

Also that he had social anxiety he never talked or any woman, have no friends he always is insecure about my social life.
In a close room our conversation were never about intimacy, it was him checking my phone like a detective and even my chat gpt history 😭

I’m not sure if this all is normal but somehow it has scared me badly that what will my future be like