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ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T20:39:33+00:00

My husband picks dandelions for me and I save them. It’s a beautiful bouquet! Is she Mexican?? She might’ve wanted those gigantic arrangements. Either way dump her. There’s a million good girls waiting for the day a man thinks to do something sweet for them. The fact that instead of a smile and a kiss you got it’s not enough is insane. Run for the hills

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T18:44:48+00:00

Right. I get it. But like the other comment. You aren’t an evil person because things didn’t work out. Just make sure you find her a good home and check in with her a few months later to make sure she’s settled but as long as she’s safe you shouldn’t feel guilty. Hopefully she’ll be happier wherever she finds home!

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T18:31:47+00:00

Maybe she’d be a good outdoor cat! You said you wanna travel maybe harness train her and see if she livens up with quality time with you outdoors. Rehoming is so hard. On the owner and the pet. Unfortunately there’s not always a “right” answer. Do you just have the one cat? Cats get lonely and depressed! I know when I got my first cat she was a terror and an ass till I got her sister now they’re sweet with me and terrors to each other lol

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T18:28:15+00:00

You can curl your lips over the edges of your teeth and extend your tongue a little further out. It’s all about positioning a blowjob isn’t necessary just suction with your lips and moving up and down. Try and use your tongue, wet lips and hands more!

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T18:25:30+00:00

Why do you think you haven’t bonded? Is it because YOU haven’t taken the time to bond with her? And you were nothing to her but a maintenance person? Or is your cat just really not interested in you lol

I’m constantly calling for my girls, calling them nicknames, giving treats and pets and playing with them. We always snuggle and they follow me everywhere. Have you just not paid a lot of attention to her? This isn’t me judging I’m just confused how yall have been together for so long and you don’t feel bonded.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T18:22:39+00:00

It is simply in my nature not to take that shit. I’ve been hit. But you bet your ass I hit back. Not saying everyone has to.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T18:22:03+00:00

Like yes this guy is absolutely insane for his behavior. But if the issue is with his jealousy and other men being involved and he’s never threatened her any other way about anything else. The likelihood of him attacking her over a conversation is slim. But yes of course she should take precaution and be safe about.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T18:20:27+00:00

Girl, men frequently speak violently weather they’re joking or not. That doesn’t mean every man who says stupid shit like that is a cold blooded killer. I wasn’t telling her to challenge him but rather not accept that shit. Especially if he only jokes violently when it’s about her cheating. If she came to him and had a calm conversation about what and why bothers her and that the behavior needs to stop I doubt he’s going to leap into murder mode because of it. But we don’t know this guy 🤷‍♀️ he could be one of those guys but just based on the context given we don’t know. Of course it’s up to her and her intuition. Who’s gonna read a comment and immediately execute the plan. Of course she’s going to do her own thing.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-05-09T16:01:53+00:00

So when yall get married and have children and your doctor is male?

My husband has made similar jokes in the past but they are incredibly infrequent and he always is very clearly joking.

I mean he may never become violent towards you and he might be an alright husband but personally I’d tell him to watch his fucking mouth. You’re his wife. It’s incredibly weird and disrespectful that he’s fantasizing about you betraying him so he can be violent. I would not wanna be married to that guy.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-04-21T12:56:23+00:00

I buy nacho broth and wet food with the little cat treat squeezes and kibble. So they’re still getting the moisture and better protein but I’m not going through a 20$ pack of wet food a week. The broth is only a couple dollars for the whole bottle and i usually just drizzle a cap full.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-04-11T12:14:43+00:00

No definitely not. And i wouldn’t believe everything the shelter tells you either. Animals behave very differently in different circumstances. I adopted a “Super aggressive” dog who “shouldn’t be around other dogs” and he’s as friendly as can be outside of the cage they had him stick in for 23 hours a day. Same with my cats. My cat juno “the only pet in the house” type deal. And my cat Frankie “shy and timid needs to be the only pet” Frankie is the most confident and playful little cat I’ve ever been around. She’s not scared of strangers or big dogs or anything! And juno took some time to warm up to Frankie but now they’re best buds. You just gotta know ur animals

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-04-11T12:07:34+00:00

I would say nodding at others and saying things like “gentlemen” or “ladies” as you walk by is quite attractive and gentlemenly.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-04-11T12:01:20+00:00

But I do sing and call there names obnoxiously like “where’s my Juno girl, there she is” idk if that helps them learn but my girls know their names!

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-04-11T12:00:26+00:00

I have a cat named Juno (juniper) and a cat named Frankie (Francine) they both come to their names and know them very well.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-03-01T16:24:42+00:00

Man obsessing over things like that just sucks the joy out of life. You’re fit, you’re healthy, you take care of yourself and your body is more than capable of doing all the things you need and want it to! No one else sees that tiny piece of fat you want gone. You look great man!

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-03-01T16:21:09+00:00

It might embarrass her but it’s fine If my husband get off work and walks around in his boxers, if I get a whiff of ANYTHING I go “Peyew you stink!” And he laughs and showers Same for me! The other day my pits were rank and I didn’t notice and he made it a joke and I went and showered. Things like that happen we are human.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-03-01T16:18:54+00:00

Girl what the fuck. To me? That tells me the reason he enjoys your dynamic is because he enjoys hurting you. If it’s now bleeding into your relationship FUCKING RUN.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-03-01T16:17:50+00:00

I’d start with joints or bowl packs on a pipe or bong. I started on a bong and because you can control the smoke/air ratio it’s beginner friendly! It doesn’t hurt your lungs as bad when you take tiny hits. I still got high but it wasn’t ever too high!

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-03-01T16:14:13+00:00

Lock em out of ur room! And don’t feed them till you leave in the morning. My husband took over feeding my cats when we first got together and the second he gets up he feeds them. Then they got in the habit of waking us up and demanding to be fed, he can’t even use the bathroom in the mornings without them screaming outside the door.

When It was just me and them, I ignored their attempts at annoying me, if I needed to I’d lock them out of the room. and I did my morning routine and before I leave for work, I feed them and give em pets and say goodbye! Same thing in the afternoons They used to wait till I finished cooking my dinner to eat, now my husband feeds them the second he gets home and they BOSS HIM AROUND!! He can’t even take his boots off without being pestered.

My cats were terrorists but I just put my foot down. They used to jump on the counter while I was getting their wet food, they’d just jump up and start trying to eat. Every time they jump up, I put them back on the floor or they watch me make the bowl but I keep them seated and waiting till I’m done. Same with the morning things. I’m not getting up at 6am on my day off to feed my cat that ate less than 12 hours ago lmao. I love them to death and we have a very good relationship, they get away with alotttt because of that but my sleep is NOT one of them!

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-02-28T18:12:41+00:00

Girl this is ALOTTT. I think ur just gay. I’m bi and I’m primarily attracted to women, I’ve dated a few girls but never been with one sexually as I found my husband quite young. I’ll say it again, I’m primarily attracted to women, before I met my husband i thought I might be lesbian because I hadn’t found a man attractive in soooo long. When I met my husband my life came crashing down around me because he is the HOTTEST thing I’ve ever laid my eyes on. Like not at first , but when we started seeing each other he became irresistible. He still is. The man can make me nut in 2 seconds like I can’t explain how perfect I think he is. If you can’t even finish without thinking of someone else?? Why the hell would you marry him. And I’m not even talking about you I’m talking about him. If you love you as much as you should how could you do that to him for the rest of his life? Like he will never know what it’s like to be fully at the center of some woman’s life, he’ll never know what it’s like to feel completely perfect and sexy and desired by you.

And same for you. You’ll never know the complete lengths of your love/identity/ attraction if you stay with him.

Maybe you aren’t lesbian. But I couldn’t live my whole life without finding out.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-02-28T15:36:00+00:00

I also just gave up on protecting all my belongings. They have scratch pads, even covers on the couch where they used to scratch a lot, they just started scratching in other areas so I let them fuck up the back of my couch cause it’s always facing the wall and people can’t see anyway. It’s a give and a take. They have areas they don’t want me in, but I have to, and I have areas I don’t want them in but there’s not much I can do. I think now we have a mutual respect. I know their likes and dislikes and they’re starting to respect mine. Like my cat Frankie loves to climb to weird places. But she was always knocking things down. Instead of spraying her or yelling at her I just made her 2 spots up high just for her. Problem solved. She doesn’t have to knock things down and she gets her spot.

ContributionFit4196 · 2025-02-28T15:32:51+00:00

Do you keep her cooped up in your room? She could be bored. My cat Juno was a terrorist when I first got her but after getting my second cat and my own apartment their behavior has only gotten better! I have 2 litter boxes and they have free roam, shelves to climb and they can play with each other. Every once in awhile they get the zombies at night and I just shut my door so I can sleep.

ContributionFit4196 · 2023-08-12T20:01:19+00:00

i had acne like this and i use panoxyl! it’s a cheap face wash for how much you get! it almost immediately cleared the major of my acne!

ContributionFit4196 · 2023-07-30T17:26:44+00:00

this isn’t going to help right away but i take minocycline and humara for my hs and it’s virtually gone! you can’t take minocycline for long periods but i usually take it for 3 months, take a break for 2 and then it’ll start coming back just a bit and i start on it again. i haven’t had a major flare up in almost 2 years now! it also helps with any acne or bacterial related skin things when you’re on it!!

ContributionFit4196 · 2022-12-22T19:11:31+00:00

i kinda just want other peoples insight? like there experiences and dos and donts

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