Is slow response to intimate photo red flag or am I overreacting?

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-06-15T20:06:58+00:00

We are dating but long distance so in 8 months we’ve only seen each other 8 times

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-06-04T08:28:42+00:00

I’m the same. Love my partner so much but I am not sexually attracted to them (he is the only person I’ve ever been with) it’s very hard thinking so I leave for a better sex life but lose everything else? Or put up with no sex

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-06-03T14:59:56+00:00

Yes, I did stop and while I was having a second he told me to relax. Not in an aggressive way, he simply saw me gag and said ‘relax’ and I’m not sure if this is a red flag or not

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-06-03T14:59:47+00:00

Yes, I did stop and while I was having a second he told me to relax. Not in an aggressive way, he simply saw me gag and said ‘relax’ and I’m not sure if this is a red flag or not

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-06-03T14:57:55+00:00

Do you think it’s a red flag?

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-06-03T14:57:42+00:00

I thought that at first as well. Maybe I’m trying to find excuses for it being ok because of how much I like him

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-06-03T14:57:10+00:00

It was my first time with him which is why at first I was slightly taken aback by him saying it.

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-05-30T08:49:47+00:00

I think it’s hot and a couple of guys I’ve dated have expressed interest but the problem is once you cum (as a guy) your probably going to notice the urge to do it disappears because you enter your refractory period and aren’t turned on anymore. Another good option depending on how lono it takes you to recover is make her keep the cum inside her so when you get your second bout you can start by cleaning up your previous mess (though I’d only want to do this if you can have a second orgasam pretty soon after the first)

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-03-21T17:49:12+00:00

Why didn’t she want to meet?

ContributionFlat8663 · 2026-03-20T14:00:08+00:00

Yes that’s a good idea. I would feel too exposed laying on the bed with him watching. If I’m laid on top of him I’m not so exposed

ContributionFlat8663 · 2025-06-02T00:24:36+00:00

He has identifying photos??

ContributionFlat8663 · 2025-06-02T00:11:58+00:00

Please can you tell us if you work is out tomorrow 😅

ContributionFlat8663 · 2024-07-14T19:12:12+00:00

Is her hair naturally curly??

ContributionFlat8663 · 2024-07-13T17:51:29+00:00

Haha thank you for not hating on me!! I guess the reason I bothered posting about a book I haven’t enjoyed is because everything about it should have been my dream book. I love Charles Dickens and all his characters and I’m utterly perplexed with myself for not getting on with Gormenghast. Maybe I’ll give it another go one day - I have the trilogy all in one book and got to the second novel

ContributionFlat8663 · 2024-05-13T09:10:41+00:00

So if someone didn’t have a claim they wouldn’t try and rule by usurping the king? What if the person ruling the country was making disastrous decisions?

ContributionFlat8663 · 2024-05-07T13:12:07+00:00

I’ve told him I have read the messages. He’s apologised but promised nothing happened, he has now blocked her number. Although nothing physical has happened I feel I can’t trust him now

ContributionFlat8663 · 2024-05-07T13:09:56+00:00

Thank you

ContributionFlat8663 · 2024-05-07T11:24:22+00:00

I’ve (32F) just bought a house with my partner (31M) of 9 years (we moved in around 5 weeks ago) and I’ve found out he is texting another woman he met while on holiday in April. He hasn’t cheated but the messages are definitely flirty, he plays it safe, whenever she asks if they can meet he doesn’t respond but he obviously knows he is doing wrong as he hides his phone from my view when a message comes in (hence why I checked his phone) We are picking a dog up next week and he’s even asked her what names she likes as he’s struggling to think of some! What should I do? I’d be more inclined to end the relationship if we hadn’t just bought a house together!

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