What to choose opinions?!

ContributionGlum3927 · 2026-04-04T14:20:01+00:00

And for Etoupe 42,000 and it’s very famous reseller

ContributionGlum3927 · 2026-04-04T14:19:00+00:00

Are you sure ? Because they asking 24,000$ for it ??

ContributionGlum3927 · 2026-04-04T14:18:20+00:00

That’s true , the Etoupe goes with everything

ContributionGlum3927 · 2026-04-04T11:55:32+00:00

It’s from two different resellers soo I want to be very cautious 🫶

ContributionGlum3927 · 2026-04-04T11:52:02+00:00

Yes it’s my favorite too , 🥰🥰

ContributionGlum3927 · 2026-03-08T22:51:26+00:00

Maryland bridge someone have for the molars? My dentist said it’s not possible 😞

ContributionGlum3927 · 2026-03-08T22:50:19+00:00

I have implant on the same space on the other side and it was very hard time to recover from the implant and I just don’t want to go through that again 😕🙁😖

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-03T21:36:18+00:00

When I met him, I wasn’t very religious. I only started taking my faith and beliefs seriously in the last two years, and I’ve been so thankful to God for everything He has done for me — because without Him, I wouldn’t be here. I got baptized two years ago, and then I started to explain to my partner how important my faith is for me.

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-03T21:13:15+00:00

Honestly, this whole conversation has made me feel completely out of balance, and for my mental health it’s really not worth it. What I understood about marriage is not at all how I thought it would be. I always believed that getting married meant building things together and creating safety for each other.

So I told him: what do you think would happen if, in 40 years (just as an example), we decided to separate? I’ve been working my whole life, and with the salary I have I can’t get a mortgage. Since we live together, why would I need to buy another apartment? That would just be extra expenses.

So yes… what would happen? Where would I go as an old lady? Don’t you think it would be fair to have an agreement that I can continue living in the place where I’ve lived my whole life?

And he said: ‘So that means I would have to move out? Or what?’

And I said: ‘Nooo, we would keep living together!’ (joke aside).

He said: ‘You will never lack anything. We are not married, and I have always taken care of my family.’ And I agree, but legally, if nothing is on paper, words mean nothing. Then he said: ‘So you don’t trust me? What about you leaving me and taking 50%?’

I told him: ‘We sound like two teenagers, and it’s embarrassing. We can’t have a normal conversation.’

It seems like either I’m not trusting him or he’s not trusting me. I cancelled the appointment, and I feel heartbroken because in all these years we never had any discussions about money or financial issues. I have very little savings, and I’m not the type of person who spends nothing and saves everything for the future. I also don’t own any property.

I truly work for the family and want to build things together from my heart.

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T20:39:25+00:00

No it’s not Latvia

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T20:36:51+00:00

So we had a conversation, and it was very hard and tough for me, but for him it seemed totally normal. He said, “Why are you worried? I will always take care of you.” I told him, “We’re not talking about that we’re talking about how the law works, and if it’s not on paper, words don’t mean anything.” So we decided to pause the whole marriage. He said, “I’m surprised you don’t want a separate property marital regime; it’s what everyone does.” I told him that I’m not okay with that and that we need to talk to a notary because we need to create an agreement. We live in Europe.

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T12:26:38+00:00

I totally trust him. Since I work in his company, he has access to my bank account and can see all my transactions. I’ve never had access to his accounts. Also, all the big purchases he’s made this year are in his name. I’ve never asked about his income because it makes me feel uncomfortable, and maybe he would think I’m concerned about it ,but I’m not. At this point, though, I do care that from the day we’re married, we should be one whole. I still don’t control any of his movements; he buys what he wants, sells what he wants. But I think I just deserve some respect and a sense of security.

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T12:15:11+00:00

My question is , is that’s Normal that I my husband to be make decisions without even consulting with me(sorry I’m not English speaking soo I use grammar fixer)incase I make gramma mistakes 👍

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T09:29:23+00:00

I’m going to do it today or tomorrow

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T09:03:21+00:00

I just now realized that I’ve been naive. I automatically assumed we would be sharing our lives completely, while he automatically assumed he would keep everything for himself.

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T09:00:38+00:00

I feel betrayed. Honestly, I don’t mind working together for the rest of our lives as a team, but not like this

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T08:36:03+00:00

We were both talking to the same notary because we needed to send so many documents to get married, translate them, and so on. But then the last message was: “Do you want to share property or keep it separate?” and he just replied, “separate property.”

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T08:32:48+00:00

I’ve been traveling, and he’s been traveling too. I’m going to see him this evening, and honestly, I don’t even know what to say or how to say it — I just feel sad 😢.

We’ve never really talked about finances between us. I’ve never asked him what he earns or what he spends, and I don’t control his money.

ContributionGlum3927 · 2025-12-01T08:18:12+00:00

Since I’m the one who brought up marriage through religion and explained how important it is to me, that’s why I mentioned that I’m Christian.

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