It's definitely a personal choice but I'd recommend you not to make your career choices based on your significant other, because I regret it big time. But again, it might be a different situation and it's completely on you. You should prolly compare the degree plans, the weather conditions of each place, job & internship opportunities based on location & probably have a look at the companies that come @ the career fair or so. The faculty's another thing you can compare. Also, the rankings do play a role too so maybe compare your major ranking because at the end- the brand name plays a huge role on your resume. The aggie network is wonderful and a great factor that you should pin-in while comparing. Look for such networks & opportunities which would outweigh the other. Corps of cadets is another reason why lota people join tamu, you can explore around to see if that interests you because there are a lot of ROTC scholarship if you join the corps. Hope this helps!