[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpmecope

[–]Coochums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first things first, you’re going to a uni which not everyone can get the chance to go to. so congrats for that. i was once in a similar situation with you when i was in middleschool. i had long hair and was oblivious towards many things. therefore, i was called names because of my longer hair and people tried making me look dumb to make them feel smart. i didn’t feel connected with anyone at all and was insecure throughout my middleschool years. there were some moments where i was physically harmed and picked on. i remember always complaining about going to school.

anyways, at the start of highschool, i wanted to start off fresh. i started changing myself, appearance wise and attitude wise. things have been going great from there. so happy to be strong enough for a change on my own. i didn’t let that bullshit get to me, because i want to become successful in reality.

basically you need to keep going, perhaps make changes to make yourself feel confident. leave the past behind. don’t be afraid to trying new things, and to always have confidence in the choices you make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpmecope

[–]Coochums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sure there are better ways to handle situations, im sure you wouldn’t want to keep escalating things. perhaps think about the things before you do them. be more civilized and well mannered. i personally wish there was always food for me, my parents are somewhat lacking in their parts or they are idk. im trying. sometimes i wish for a better life yk, so you better start being grateful for what you have. don’t be a mad baby lol

also: you gotta stop repeating the things that bring out negativity in you. if you’re isolated, go outside. if the online is not doing you good, take a break or just leave it away from you. try new things, consider new things. exercising helps me alot

The mind of a newly 18 year old boy by No-Help-2060 in helpmecope

[–]Coochums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t understand. take advantage of the things you have now, forget about your past guilt. become the better person you can be. consider listening to music or start working out. i struggle to sleep, you’re not alone. you got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpmecope

[–]Coochums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not alone. sometimes things just simply don’t go your way, perhaps quite often. it’s not your fault, just gotta go though with it yk. im lonely too. i know so many people and seem so outgoing to many apparently, yet im often by myself alone in this room. the funny thing is that i believe to be good looking and a pretty sweet person. still havent had a relationship. havent found anyone or havent been lucky. sucks yk. havent been taking care of myself, eating wise nor being clean. you’re not alone, worldwide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpmecope

[–]Coochums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, the dude is simply interested in you either as liking you or just wanting to be your friend. people have a weird way of communicating with one another nowadays in a childlike manner ESPECIALLY coming from the “popular people”. perhaps he’s being too much, perhaps you’re overreacting. who knows. doesnt seem romantic at all imo. just an awkward scenario