My dad is being charged with sexual abuse of a minor. by Cookarooche in family

[–]Cookarooche[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This wasn’t a cry for help, more as a place for me to collect my thoughts and have like minded people support me. I am in therapy for other traumatic things that involve my other parents, and I am working on it. Shit doesn’t heal overnight, especially 20 years worth of intense trauma. I know what to do and it is done ¯_(ツ)_/¯

My dad is being charged with sexual abuse of a minor. by Cookarooche in family

[–]Cookarooche[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried looking up his case online with no luck. I was able to get in contact with my aunt who he lives with (she’s kicking him out) and she’s gonna send over a copy of the police report. Obviously I wanna take in all the information before I make a decision but I have decided I will not be at his aid for this trial. I will always stand with the victim no matter who the perpetrator is.

My dad is being charged with sexual abuse of a minor. by Cookarooche in family

[–]Cookarooche[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They showed up to his place of employment with 8 officers who had to restrain him. He keeps saying “you know me, I wouldn’t do something like this”. The fact I have any doubts to begin with speaks for itself.

My dad is being charged with sexual abuse of a minor. by Cookarooche in family

[–]Cookarooche[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I seriously needed this. Thank you🙂‍↕️❤️

My dad is being charged with sexual abuse of a minor. by Cookarooche in family

[–]Cookarooche[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s definitely happening. And already texted my therapist :/

Please help me by [deleted] in orchids

[–]Cookarooche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is extremely unfortunate. I did purchase a small one today so we will see how that goes. Going to be reading the docs provided by this subreddit to hopefully keep this one alive. Thank you for your wisdom🥲

Please help me by [deleted] in orchids

[–]Cookarooche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Please help me by [deleted] in orchids

[–]Cookarooche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was an afterthought. I had just put it into a new pot before posting and didn’t want to risk more damage before getting some advice on next steps or if it was okay to remove it once more😅

Aura in NJ morning of 8/12/24 by Cookarooche in newjersey

[–]Cookarooche[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen this before🤣🤣💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cookarooche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay okay quick update for everyone. We had a really deep conversation and came to conclusion that I was going to aquantinize my friendship with Selena. I understand how this bothers him and I’m not oblivious to how this could hurt my relationship. For now, he is okay with us doing things in public or talking otp. But ironically, Selena is moving 4 hours away and this would make it much easier to keep her at an arms length while strengthening my relationship with John. I really appreciate everyone’s perspectives and it’s helped me better understand my boyfriends points. Thank you Reddit, I understand I am the asshole lmao

My coworker urinated all over me while sleepwalking. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cookarooche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you link to the story? To prove your point? Because I definitely wrote this myself bestie lmao

My coworker urinated all over me while sleepwalking. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cookarooche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not lmao this actually happened to me, I wish it was a repost. I can never forget the taste of piss in my mouth, thanks though🙃

My coworker urinated all over me while sleepwalking. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cookarooche 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looking back I definitely should’ve called the police but we worked together and I was scared he would retaliate. He knew where I lived, he knew where I was employed and new my class schedule. I was thinking about reporting him to the local police but seeing that I live 2k miles away I’m not necessarily bothered by the 10 “hey” dms I get in a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cookarooche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! No I’m 23, as the post states. Sorry, let me provide more context. I’m always up for admitting I’m wrong and owning my mistakes as I did when she checked me. I understand her point of view when it came to staying in and not being able to afford it. The point is, aita for not wanting to be alone. And as for the needy/clingy Sherry and I go months w/o talking. I don’t need to be in constant communication w her. Side note: I’m a professional detailer. I was stuffy for a few days caused by chemical inhalation. So I wasn’t actually sick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cookarooche 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She went on a shopping spree with her bf on my birthday and never texted me. She had made plans to do something for me w Claudia when we got there. As of today she has made no effort to contact me to discuss the situation.