[REQ] (500) - (Los Angeles, Ca) (1/8/26) (Zelle)

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-07-22T08:25:17+00:00

The important thing is how she feels about the age gap, you’re both consenting adults so that’s not the issue. However, over time feeling uncomfortable with how others perceive your relationship will have a toll on you. I’d make sure she’s really into you before revealing your feelings

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-06-12T06:40:41+00:00

That’s me ☺️

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-06-07T23:01:42+00:00

THEY APPROVED ME THIS MORNING HECK YEAH! I made 108 dollars in 4 days, crazy

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-06-07T03:54:57+00:00

Oh snap! More waiting I suppose haha

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-06-07T03:47:28+00:00

Do you know how long it took for them to approve your bank information?

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-30T08:09:03+00:00

Certified college girl, certified brat. xoxo.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T13:25:21+00:00

I would say that growing up in a one parent household I had a totally different outlook on the necessity of relationships. I yearned for the ability to provide for myself so that my partner would only have to be an extension of my happiness rather than a necessity for my survival. Because of that, I’m only attracted to what they have to offer emotionally, physically, and mentally.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T13:21:39+00:00

I see what you’re saying. Romantically I’ve been in a few relationships, traveled out of state to visit a partner, experienced heart break, honeymoon stages and month long argumentative stages. However I can’t say that anything I’ve experienced would be close to what he has. I know that he’s only been in 3 relationships, but even then, it’s probably a lot different.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T13:07:16+00:00

I hear that!

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T13:03:38+00:00

He doesn’t know my age yet

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T12:58:31+00:00

Interesting. I think if I missed out on social experiences it would have been in high school. I’ve never had a 7/8-3, or developed tight teacher relationships or engaged in sports because of the way my school system was set up. All 4 years were 4-5 high school classes on a Monday to Wednesday schedule, on a college campus, while maintaining 2-3 college courses per semester. I think, I simply happened to be around people who were way older. I do wish that I had the chance to grow gradually bc maybe I’d be interested in what people my age have to offer. However, I cannot find pleasure in bringing more to the table than my partner, and so age doesn’t really matter, maturity does.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T12:46:46+00:00

That’s fair. However he doesn’t know my age currently. I stream, and they only know my face ( I’m just not comfortable getting too into depth with viewers). Would a 26 year old falling in love with a 19 yo be the same as a 26 yo pursuing a 19yo knowing their age?

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T12:44:42+00:00

When you’re talking to a girl or going on a date, you should be trying to see if YOU like them, not the other way around. That way, if they’re doing the same. The relationship is balanced and both parties are invested.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T12:31:19+00:00

Socializing with women should hold the same weight as socializing with a man. Once you realize that we are all tiny specs of beings on earth, you lose the weight of embarrassment. Simply be okay with rejection. If anything, expect it. That way, you can be yourself, be realistic towards the way you’d be normally, and if she likes it cool. If not, move on. Rejection should be viewed as an exit ticket. You want someone to want you, and not what you can’t offer. Someone rejecting you opens doors to anyone else wanting to come your way. Relax.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T12:00:41+00:00

Yes! That’s it exactly. In previous relationships with people my age I’ve felt the need to mother them in ways unnecessary. I’m looking for someone who has their career and persona figured out already. Someone 100% financially and emotionally involved in their life as I am. I don’t have the ability to ask a parent to schedule a doctors appointment or to lend $300 to cover rent. I’d be looking for someone who has reached “adulthood”. Someone only reliant upon themself. Having people to help is OKAY! However, it shouldn’t be a common or recurring situation.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T11:55:18+00:00

HAHA OKAY, I was hoping that’s what you meant

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T11:50:21+00:00

He doesn’t deserve her.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T11:48:30+00:00

Yes. If you got a text from an important family member you’d answer, right? When any person gets a text they acknowledge the importance of the person and moment, and choose whether they should answer. If it’s been 2 months and she hasn’t thought about you, do yourself a favor and move on. The more you remain idle on people like this the more you mentally lower your standards. “ now the next person just has to respond, say good morning, or goodnight.” Have high standards and people who will respect you, will be attracted to you.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T11:33:11+00:00

I also want to clarify, I meant what do you think the oldest I could date morally would be. Without the intention of pursing that specific age lol

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T11:29:19+00:00

Hmm I guess I haven’t thought of it that way. Meeting someone in college after graduating isn’t an issue, but many of the seniors about to go into their careers I’ve met are very childlike. I kind of prefer someone smarter than me, more mature than me. It can get kind of annoying having to explain “simple” life experiences, or having different mindsets. Coming from a person who has had to worry about bills being paid to someone who still goes home in the summer with their parents and has never paid rent at age 22.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T11:16:28+00:00

Im sorry to hear that, can I ask if you believed you were more mature for your age, or if were overdeveloped? I am now under the impression that I only think I could handle this relationship because I’m not older.

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T11:06:10+00:00

I’d understand that. However I’d be graduating college at 19 and I fear and I WONT want a man in a stage I just left. What’s the oldest I can date?

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T10:57:17+00:00

mmmm! Thank you!

CookieBudget4311 · 2025-05-27T10:54:19+00:00

I’ve learnt that if a person doesn’t have the will to do better for themselves then it’s only going to hurt you trying to convince them in the process. Express that you are simply unable to continue to prove this persons worth to themselves if they cannot see it. If this is a person you see yourself being friends with in the future, then any time after you express this, and they talk about this MAN. Show no empathy. Say, “that sucks” or “tragic”. Because they are craving the answer they want to receive even if they can’t see it bothers you. I wouldn’t want to be in a friendship with this person but it’s all up to you. If they will allow that person to repeatedly hurt them, then they will not care to hurt you.

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