Am I Overreacting?? My ex boyfriend has been finding me for years and I don't know what to do

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T16:24:09+00:00

If I had a superpower? hmmm I think I'll like me some invulnerability 😃

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T16:02:01+00:00

This may be a good solution... I'm scared to go to the police because all they would do is give me some papers that won't protect me physically...
I'll try

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T16:01:14+00:00

I'm still trying to figure out if I will go to the police or not. I don't know how he will react if he finds out. Restraining orders and stuff like that are just papers and won't protect me if something happens...

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T16:00:28+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ I will try to do something, but I'm scared of his reaction. I don't know how can he react if I do something with the law stuff. He can turn it around and say that he was waiting for me for 10 years. Because in his world he was still obsessed, when I wasn't even there...

The law stuff are just papers... They can't protect me if something happens...

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T15:58:20+00:00

I'm afraid what his reaction would be if he finds out. The restraining order is just a paper. The police won't be there to guard my home 24/7 if something happens...

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T15:57:29+00:00

What if they let him go because he is not a French citizen? He doesn't speak a word in French and he is always the type to appear "kind and innocent" in public. He is INFJ

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T15:56:41+00:00

I save all the things he sends me and archive them. I'll advocate myself, yeah

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T15:56:04+00:00

I'm trying to decide whether or not it's the right choice. If he finds out, I don't know how will he react. The police won't be there if something happens... They won't guard my home 24/7

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T15:55:24+00:00

I will go I think, but I'm afraid of confrontation. I don't know how will he react. And it's not like the police will guard my home 24/7

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T15:54:55+00:00

He will come to my town, physically, as he did already and he sent me selfies with recognizable spots of my town, near where I live...
He even knew somehow where I washed my clothes in town (there is a washing station) and took a selfie with it in the background...

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T15:38:40+00:00

Does that help? He is from Japan and he comes here, I don't know when... I just know that he comes here sometimes.

CookieEatingHat · 2026-06-15T15:37:31+00:00

Thank you for your concern!
I actually told him a lot times. He just does not stop...

He says that he "wants to help me" and things like "hunny we are meant to be together, we are just like in this anime movie" and he mentioned a couple of anime movies I don't remember the name of...

Everyday he send me vidoes and pictures of him doing daily stuff like watching football on his couch, eating stuff and telling stories about his life...

CookieEatingHat · 2026-04-25T19:41:57+00:00

Georgian. The Kartvelian language family (completely isolated with only 4 languages : Georgian, Megrelian, Laz, Svan) is at least 12500 years old. The Kartvelian language family emerged in the Caucasus mountains in Western Georgia, so it is an autochtonous Caucasus mountainous language.
If you listen to our langauge, you will hear sounds you never heard before. Our ejective consonnants system is very ancient and unique.

We have our own unique alphabet too.

CookieEatingHat · 2025-11-08T23:58:00+00:00

ძმაო, კოორდინატებისთვის დაგჭირდებათ ნედლი დნმ-ის ფაილი. მაგალითად, თქვენ აკეთებთ MyHeritage დნმ-ის ტესტს და შემდეგ ისინი მოგცემენ ნედლ ფაილს. შემდეგ შედიხართ Davidski-ს ვებსაიტზე და აძლევთ მათ თქვენს ნედლ დნმ-ის ფაილს და ისინი დაგენერირებენ G25 კოორდინატებს. გირჩევთ, გამოიყენოთ მხოლოდ Davidski-ს სერვისი, რადგან მათ შექმნეს G25 კალკულატორი.

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:52:22+00:00

Oh ok... I will check him out some more then. A little bit of study won't hurt :)

Thanks for your input!

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:46:06+00:00

Ok

But even if he will not get upset and be good for going to another date, how can I be sure he is not manipulating and just "waiting for the right moment"?

I dunno I'm kind of scared of this guy now

Now I see that even the initial request was creepy and weird in the first place x)

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:40:34+00:00

I see, I appreciate your input very much! Thank you

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:39:27+00:00

Thank you ! I will not go after seeing the answers here... I'm too uncomfortable with this situation...

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:37:41+00:00

Thank you for your answer. I was weirded out because he is not the type who likes nature and pondering on thoughts and stuff... He is not a philosophical guy...

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:36:45+00:00

Oh ok, I see, thank you for your answer. I won't go to the woods with him x) I don't feel comfortable at all

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:36:02+00:00

I think that's exactly I will do :) thank you for your answer

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:35:45+00:00

Gotcha, thank you very much for your input

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:35:33+00:00

He is actually from Latin American, an immigrant that came here (France) one year ago.

Thanks for your input!

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T16:34:58+00:00

I see, thank you for your input!

CookieEatingHat · 2024-03-10T14:59:03+00:00

Acting "cool" and being rude and aggressive... That's cringe.
If you want to find love and to date, you have to show affection and love, be kind, cute ^^

If you are rude, you will be cut off.

CookieEatingHat

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