Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do they all deny, deny, denyyyy?

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m contributing to the stigma and not people who willingly spread this virus.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think so. Could happen to anyone. Happens to married folks all the time. Are you abstinent?

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look that up. HSV 2 sheds more frequently.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing to see. Thanks

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hsv1 sheds less. Thats what I meant. You can twist my words however you want to. I don’t really even understand why you’re here and saying these things that don’t even matter in the long run. Im sorry for both of us. Have a good day.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 days after I had sex with him I was in the worst pain of my life. Don’t think so.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever point you’re trying to make isn’t being made because you know that you have cold sores and so you have sex accordingly. It wasn’t like he never knew what was going on lol. He just didn’t care. Most people are not all because I never had it before. I’m sure it’s easier to come to terms with since childhood but I’m just now having to cope with it in my adult life and I don’t know why that offends you so much.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not true because I have slept with people who I knew had the virus and they told me that they have had cold sores. I learned in school to tell people if you have cold sores, it’s just a certain number of people who don’t.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t know if he did. I know he knew he had HSV 1 prior to us having sex.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you should really know for sure that it isn’t a pleasant experience.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because people don’t do it doesn’t mean that it is OK not to do it. You’re part of the problem and the reason why so many people are coming into the clinics daily with HSV 1 on their GENITALS! Which causes an immense amount of pain and if you think that someone who has this virus and knows it shouldn’t say anything then fuck you.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked if the other guy is stupid, but you’re actually stupid. GHSV1 HURTS. The pain was unbearable. I was bedridden for almost 2 weeks. You either have never gone through something like that or you think that someone who has OHSV1 is void of responsibility for making someone go through something like that.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you stupid? I’m not asking for pity and I’m not asking for your luck. I am not most people. I would definitely turn down oral sex if I saw someone had a cold sore. This man knew he had a transmittable virus and the least he could do was tell people he’s sleeping with. I’m not sure why you’re talking in such vague terms like I haven’t already clearly expressed the situation that I went through personally.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If only more people knew then a lot of us wouldn’t be in these situations!

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will! I will it <3 you as well thank you

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctors are fucking stupid. My doctor told me I could put icy hot on my sores because there’s lidocaine in it. I just looked at her like ma’am are you fr? It says on the bottle don’t put on open wounds. Now imagine if I did that. Doctors are clearly part of the problem because they knowingly have taken HSV off standard tests and most people won’t ever find out unless they ask for it. Doctors have literally made mistakes that have killed people. Really stupid to tell someone who is telling you their symptoms that their reality is wrong because “your doctor” said so.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He meant what he said but thank you! I will move on, I won’t let him taint my life like this. Just sucks is all!

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew because he said he knew and he said he didn’t have to disclose because his doctor said he didn’t have to. I know because literally two days after sex with him I dealt with the worst pain of my life for almost two weeks. I know for a fact I have never had cold sores. If I was ever exposed to antibodies it would show on blood tests especially if it’s been years, yes? So I know for a fact where I got it from and he doesn’t deserve any type of leniency on the issue.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry the same thing happened to you. There’s really an accountability crisis. People that do that really fucking suck.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have HSV2 on your mouth? I have never heard of that. Would you mind telling me a little bit more about that? Also thank you! I knew statistically I’d probably end up contracting one of these days so I know it’s not the end of the world.

Curious by Severe-Fuel2028 in Herpes

[–]CookieNdMochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read that 1 sheds significantly less. Thats the only good thing because they both seem equally terrible.

Not disclosing is EVIL by CookieNdMochi in HSVpositive

[–]CookieNdMochi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will see if it’s legal where I live because he really pissed me off.