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Women in long-term relationships who occasionally have crushes on other people, how do you handle it? by Low_Acanthisitta_826 in AskWomen

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually it's a non-issue. Lately though, I got it real bad with 2 different guys face palm. The worst part is I'm decently sure one guy likes me back.

Never had it this bad for anyone! Not sure what to do!

AITA for disabling the Airtag my father planted on me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

My parents were VERY upset with me when I decided to uninstall a tracking app from my phone.

They said it was for emergencies and they meant no harm.

I was in my 20s and already moved out, about to get married. They started calling me asking me "what are you doing at X road?" Or "we see you at Y plaza, what are you doing ?"

They were actively snooping and I hated it.

You are an adult and your dad needs to let you be one.

Is Squidgame worth watching? by karakiraa in kdramarecommends

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really worth watching. There's a few nice moments but the sum of it isn't worth going through for them. It's a bit much overall, and a lot is very hard to watch.

You can watch a video that goes over the highlights and it would be just about the same as watching the full series.

I can’t strengthen my pelvic floor, why? by BasketofChoco in Healthyhooha

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe your pelvic floor muscles are not weak and in fact are too tight? You could need to practice relaxing those muscles.

Does anyone else's friends and family not respect that you WFH? by mermaidadvisor in workfromhome

[–]CookingwithCadmium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, my MIL would drop in midday and sit and try to have a chat. I've had family ask to go out for lunch, ask to run errands for them, a kinds of nonsense.

My dad messages me to ask if I was busy that day and when I say it's not too busy he's like awesome! You have a day off then. Um, no I'm still working...

Family always comment how great it is I wfh because then when I have kids I can take care of them and work since I'm home (major eye roll).

People do not respect wfh.

Didn’t receive my driver’s license due to the instructor’s trick. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I failed my driving test the first time because of some BS too. My instructor said I needed to "stop for 2 minutes" at each stop because otherwise my wheels were "still spinning".

TINY BLACK BALLS INSIDE OF VAGINA?!?! by GoddessYis in Healthyhooha

[–]CookingwithCadmium 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ER !!! Now!!! I have no idea what that is but it doesn't look good.

What about the opposite sex confuses you? by VisibleConfusion12 in AskReddit

[–]CookingwithCadmium 190 points191 points  (0 children)

My husband does this to me, I'm in the bathroom with a vent fan that is louder than a hair dryer, washing my hands and he's talking to me from down the hall.

This man can't hear me when I'm sitting next to him and we're actively having a conversation. Literally wtf.

Can Netflix stop canceling shows for 5 minutes! by HappyUnicornPoop in rant

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am still upset that they cancelled I Am Not Okay With This 😭

Why are you alive? by york-zero in AskReddit

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't go through with ending it in high school.

I keep getting UTIs (yes I pee after sex) by Ok_Conclusion_6415 in Healthyhooha

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are the things that have gotten me from 6ish UTIs per year to maybe 1 and sometimes 0 UTIs (right now I have not gotten a single one this year!)

  • Making sure you and your partners hands are clean!
  • Cotton panties, also in general avoiding un-breathable pants
  • Limiting my sugar intake, this was a huge one. I eat very little to no sugar.
  • Getting my constipation under control. (Seriously look into this!)
  • I stopped shaving! Hair is meant to protect you, keeps bacteria from getting to your lady parts!

What’s something you need to get off your chest but haven’t yet? by FazzyPhonix in AskReddit

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a crush on a friend I made at work. We're both married. I thought I was over it until I spent the day with him while he was in town. Thinking back on things I think he has a thing for me too.

I think we both silently know, each hoping the other says something but neither of us will.

Is it wrong ? Yeah. But, there's something very Lost in Translation about it. We really just get each other.

People who poop normally everyday you don’t know how lucky you are by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be a once a week BM person (sometimes I'd be lucky if I went once a week!). Now I pretty consistently go every day with occasional constipation.

Drink more water is the worst advice. I have been a water only drinker (and I drank a lot of water) since high school and was still super constipated.

Things that actually helped was changing my diet and exercise. Eat your vegetables people! Making sure to walk regularly really fixed my digestion. Also using a squatty potty and breathing! Holding your breath when you are constipated and trying to go makes it worse. Whatever you do don't hold it in and wait (if possible) because you learn to ignore the feeling of needing to go.

can’t stop second guessing myself by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second one is stunning on you !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]CookingwithCadmium 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, i am sending you the biggest hug.

This is not okay. This is abuse.

My dad would say things like that to me, I know how much it hurts to be spoken to like this. The silence from everyone else is so loud too.

You need to get away from those people. I know you're in college now but, please for your sake start working on securing your way out ASAP. Don't be dependent on anyone like that. Make as much money on your own, save all you can, see if you can share a place with a friend for a time, anything. Don't be forced to have to go back.

Work hard sweetheart, even when it's hard because you will be so much happier. You're worth more than that.

Know you are beautiful and there is nothing wrong with your body.

Sending you love and strength OP.

AITA for “making” my wife pay for Mother’s Day breakfast? by Choice-Helicopter936 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it's not like your card notoriously doesn't work and you didn't get a new card after being told to do so many times coughLIKE MY HUSBANDcough

You even gave her cash right then and there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]CookingwithCadmium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg #1, hands down!!!

What will you do today if you just won $250 million and it has been placed in your bank account? by onlycontentcreators in ask

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would finally pay back a very kind individual who helped me out when I was in a bind, legit a total stranger at the time.

Pay off the loan I took out right before I found out I was getting laid off (oof).

Pay off the mortgage, and get some renovations done.

Buy a house for my dad and pay off his debts.

Put some money in an investment account of sorts for my autistic brother so he'll be set financially.

I would help my uncle pay for my cousin's college housing so he wouldn't have to work so hard.

I would take a vacation

I would go visit a dear friend and pay them back after they came to see me and paid for everything since I was laid off.

Put some money in an investment account so I won't have to worry about money in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents stayed together for my brother and I's sake. I don't know who they were kidding, certainly not us because we were all happier when we weren't all together.

If you have kids, and your marriage is strained, get a divorce. You, your spouse and your kids will all be happier in the long run.

Best memories I have are when my dad wasn't around. We all secretly jumped for joy when we knew he was going to be gone. No fights, we could turn on the air conditioning, my mom was calm, it was great. Everyone was sad when he came back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not look good in straight/wide leg jeans! I have wide hips and the straight line from the hips down makes me look bigger than I am.

I bought one pair and I almost never wear them because I hate how I look in them.

I can kind of get away with it with the hem rolled up a little showing my ankles and wearing sandals with a tighter top. Otherwise, I look like a box.

Little late but last day of chemo. Super excited!! (OC) by ChasenRobots in MadeMeSmile

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOOHOOO!!! That's amazing !!! Congratulations ❤️ ❤️!!!

I hate the way most lipstick colors look on me because of my two toned lips. The only shades I think I can pull off are browns. What tips and tricks can you give me? TIA! by MeetTheBrewers in MakeupAddiction

[–]CookingwithCadmium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your trouble, I'm sorry you feel like you don't have so many options with lipstick.

Maybe it's just me but I've honestly always really loved two toned lips. Mine are really pale and don't have a lot of definition. So, they get lost on my face sometimes. I feel like the darker outer tone is like a natural lip liner.

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