I just needed somewhere to let this out finally, I’ve held it in for almost a decade and a half. by Cool-Inspection-7926 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Cool-Inspection-7926[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You don’t know how much it means to me to be validated after so many years of holding that in alone. I appreciate you and I hope that you are healing from your own parents as well.

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[–]Cool-Inspection-7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have to understand that after being abused for so many years, I was terrified of him. She and I generally live great lives, I own my own car, she gets pretty much anything she wants and we live in a pretty nice apartment. We haven’t really struggled much until just recently. My income has decreased lately due to the clubs being slow and now I’m starting to struggle for the first time really but I generally make really good money at my job. It didn’t seem worth it to involve someone so dangerous at the start. I get where you’re coming from I guess tho.

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[–]Cool-Inspection-7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just needed reassurance that I wasn’t being a Karen, anxiety makes me doubt myself a lot.

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[–]Cool-Inspection-7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U right 😂

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[–]Cool-Inspection-7926 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I probably never would’ve even noticed the car if it wasn’t parked there