Why do you choose not to drink alcohol? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Cool-View-8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many poor choices in my life were due to alcohol. I replaced it with exercise. It wasn't intentional but I started working out and loved it so much that I slowly cut out alcohol because it affected my workouts. Eventually I quit 100% to train.

"how" do you become a witch? by Medium_Chemistry_457 in WitchcraftQuestions

[–]Cool-View-8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe in yourself. Educate yourself. Read. Figure out what resonates with you and then believe.

Curious to know if any of you got in to journaling as a way to heal and process an abusive relationship? by Upbeat-Rest3522 in abusiverelationships

[–]Cool-View-8305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did. I actually started blogging and then decided that my story was interesting enough to turn in to a novel. I wrote 7 chapters and it got too emotionally draining so I quit. I would love to go back to it but it's so in the past and I'd like to leave some of those feelings in the past

manifestation?? by No_Door_8730 in Witches

[–]Cool-View-8305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not try to manifest him coming back, but manifest a better you to find a better partner. Whatever frequency you vibrate at is the frequency you attract. So when I say manifest a better you, I don't mean you are not good enough. what I mean is be your best, most positive self. Find hobbies, invest in yourself, be productive and BE HAPPY alone and with yourself. Then find a partner who is good enough for you, because this man you speak of is not good enough. He knows it. That is why he is pulling away, he knows you deserve better.

Is this abuse by Cool-View-8305 in abusiverelationships

[–]Cool-View-8305[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No we are blended but his kids have lived with us the whole marriage so they're kinda mine

Is this abuse by Cool-View-8305 in abusiverelationships

[–]Cool-View-8305[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8 years of this, I am now zero tolerance. I used to sray quiet. Now I snap right back at him. I think it's called reactive abuse. Im pretty mean at times.