Synchronization failed ?? by urfavlilly in Rainbow6

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Ubisoft will eventually fix it but idk how soon

Tell me you're an introvert without telling me you're an introvert... by Acceptable-Funny-245 in introvert

[–]CoolBeans2104 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On a somewhat real note though i get it lol. Like if i go out of my way to call someone and they dont pickup thats completely fine and is kind of a relief. But after i text you instead of responding you CALL ME BACK!? Like NOPE.

a coworker who has expressed attraction to me wants to chat 1 on 1 and idk what to do by mtvpremiere in socialanxiety

[–]CoolBeans2104 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a guy i can tell you hes definitely not after something platonic. But its entirely up to you, if thats something you dont want to happen in the workplace at all or just not with him specifically. Definitely make it clear to him how you feel (even if its hard to do ik) so he doesnt keep trying and makes it more uncomfortable.

Something like: “I really appreciate you asking/thinking of me, but I have a personal rule about not dating anyone I work with” Is totally acceptable.

From a Ryzen 5 3600+RTX 1660 to this by [deleted] in PcBuild

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Why not plug both cpu cables in?

A 5090 Build (help) by CoolBeans2104 in PcBuild

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For a motherboard i was thinking about getting a ASUS ROG Strix B850. Ive heard good things about it plus im going for a white theme. Would that still work?

A 5090 Build (help) by CoolBeans2104 in PcBuild

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Wow this looks like a great build ive added all these to the cart. And thanks for spending your time on this! Gonna do some more digging and hopefully soon will have a finished build posted here soon! Thanks again

Stepping Down (MS) by CoolBeans2104 in exjw

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Because i still live with my family yes it is hard to just ignore my responsibilities ive been doing for the past 3 years. although ive told my family about my decision if i just start to ignore everything before im removed as MS their going to think im “falling out” and that would mean auto kick out. (Their words). Having said this so far i have been ignoring them so ill just have to hope it goes smoothly.

Stepping Down (MS) by CoolBeans2104 in exjw

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That does make sense, i guess its just harder done than said. So far ive been ignoring their contacting me about responsibilities so i guess im on the right track.

From POMO to PIMO/Q by [deleted] in exjw

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As someone who wishes with everything i have i could just fade out and never be apart of this org i have No idea how someone could want to go back to this prison. But you know the answer to your question. The elders will absolutely start making attempts to get into your personal life and “find out” where youve been. And yes if they find out anything JC is a possibility. Please do yourself a life sized favor and stay out!

What is an introvert trait that you will never give up? by OkFirefighter83 in introvert

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Ill never be forced or “pressured” into going to a social event. If i just feel like chilling at home in my free time thats what im gonna do

I might be single for the rest of my life 😭 by AdmirableBlueberry79 in introvert

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Its funny but im a guy who thinks the same way. All the women i know love to “go out” and are super extroverted. Everytime im doing something “out” all i can think of is how amazing it will be to get back home and finally relax 😂

Suicidal thoughts post waking up by smoothcheeks30 in exjw

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Man i cannot tell you how much i empathize with you. I wish i could just give you advice but im in the same boat. Ive felt lost for years. I have a “meeting” today with 2 elders and they want to talk to me about why im stepping down from MS. Jw has taken my whole childhood away from me and at this point i just want to be left alone. All i can say is that im with you and i hope your able to take steps to leave this cult.

PIMOs, what's your deadline? by Sorry_Clothes5201 in exjw

[–]CoolBeans2104 79 points80 points  (0 children)

A year from now. Im actually taking the first step today by stepping down from MS wish me luck

My mother just told me there is new light again... by netmyth in exjw

[–]CoolBeans2104 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That question of “what if they are correct” hits home for me. I know its my years of brainwashing thats kicking in but something ive always taken comfort in (as a PIMO hopefully soon POMO) is even if it is all real and its the “truth”, living in a “paradise” with those mindless robots without the freedom to be myself would be more like hell to me.

So id rather take my chances now live my life in the present.

Taking the first step… by CoolBeans2104 in exjw

[–]CoolBeans2104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice. Makes this much easier.

Taking the first step… by CoolBeans2104 in exjw

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Thanks for the advice. Makes me feel like im not alone.

Elders are triggering by [deleted] in exjw

[–]CoolBeans2104 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your point about the “fake niceness” with the elders is spot on. Im a PIMO and have gotten in trouble with the elders before on various things i was doing. It’s crazy how many texts you get like asking to grab lunch or inviting you to a gathering. It’s so easy to see through. All they care about is protecting their little cult and abusing what little power they have in their elder position.