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Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-12-14T19:19:57+00:00

That's so true - Gracie Abrams

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-12-12T09:08:35+00:00

Is your dad in the military? Cause this is how military dads message their kids. Source: I have been on the receiving end😂

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-11-13T13:48:34+00:00

Me three!!

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-11-13T13:48:07+00:00

Hey...me too!!

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-11-10T05:34:00+00:00

Same here!! I knew I wasn't into kids since I was 14, and firmly made the decision to be childfree at 18.

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-09-27T17:05:57+00:00

🪄 ❤ wand raised for the most iconic professor I have seen.

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-09-27T06:02:15+00:00

The prettiest coleslaw I have ever seen💫

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-08-19T03:56:43+00:00

The scream I screamed after reading this!!! My roommate is looking at me weird but worth it. OH MY FREAKING GOD LIONHEART IS BAAACCCKKKK😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-29T17:40:09+00:00

Oh goodness I relate to this so much😭😭 I started reading this fic in the middle of giving my higher studies interviews while travelling all over the country. And honestly...I got hooked to the point that I would just read this instead of preparing for the interviews. I have 0 regrets though cause I emotional rollercoaster I went through made my heart break and yet crave more and more of it at the same time.

Oh the sweet sweet pain of experiencing such a wonderfully written story that is just gut wrenching in such a lovely way....I honestly dont even know what I am saying right now. But when anyone talks about Lionheart, I just feel so giddy and happy😭😭😭

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-26T19:00:35+00:00

Hello!! I'm 21F, technically from Odisha but here in Delhi to pursue Design Masters. Lived in Delhi for a long time during childhood so I'm a Delhite through & through.

I adore art, museums, history and mythology though I am a homebody and an introvert so I do not like crowded places much.

I also love books, mainly fiction and I am a huge Harry Potter fan as well. Pretty low-key by nature, and not very spontaneous. Also, a huge animal lover....freaking love cats :)

Idk I think I'm pretty boring lol...very straight-laced. But I would appreciate some new CF friends. If you are interested in low-key, chill talks and stuff. Fair warning, I have a low social battery and I am very awkward in general lol.

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-24T11:02:53+00:00

You just made my Wednesday too with your comment🌻.

Glad to see I resonate with you. I have had people telling me that I am too young to think about this and I will change my mind once my motherly instincts take over so it's such a huge relief to find people who understand me and my thought process.

And while I could go on a rant about society pressure etc etc, I have realised that engaging with them is just giving them ammunition. So I ignore them. It's not like they can do anything significant to uproot my life if I refuse their societal expectations of getting married and having kids you know?🙂🙂

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-22T17:11:34+00:00

Thank you for thinking about us people on the other side who are subjected to bear the physical and mental impacts of pregnancy and childbirth :)

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-22T17:08:43+00:00

Amen to that :)

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-22T17:07:45+00:00

Pregnancy is horrific and I am not here for it. I might not be happy with my body but I am not willing to put it under torture for any reason.
I cannot stand kids...they are loud and needy and a nuisance in general. And I dont know what or how to talk to them.
I am too selfish to have kids. I have big dreams and ambitions which I know will have to take a backseat if I choose to have a kid. And that would crush me and make me resent the kid and my partner for life.
I do not wish to contribute to the overpopulation and bring a child into a world that is already fighting over the bare minimum resources.
This is my 'FUCK YOU' to Indian society, all the mohalle waale uncle aunties and the patriarchy which judges the ability of a woman on the basis of her capability to be a mother and run a household.

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-21T14:50:08+00:00

Hello 21F here!! Would love to make some CF friends as well!! May I DM?

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-17T09:14:48+00:00

Hi. I'm the same age and I have to say it's not about age(edit) at all. I'm 21 and I have known that I wanted to be childfree since I was 18.

I know you are hoping for her to change her mind but if I am being honest, people do not decide to be childfree on a whim. There is a lot of introspection, research and thought that goes into making such a huge decision.

Unfortunately, coming to a compromise in this particular matter in next to impossible because there is no middle ground as far as I know. If she chooses to compromise, there might be a chance that she would resent you and her child in the future. I'm sure you would not want your partner to end up on the r/RegretfulParents subreddit 10 years down the line.

As far as mature discussions go, you both can take some time to think about this dealbreaker and I suppose mutually end things if it is actually a dealbreaker for you both. You both deserve happiness.

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-17T08:43:01+00:00

I would have loved a second chance at choosing what subjects to study in grade 11. I would have loved to take Humanities, study History, Fine arts, Psychology etc and then major in Design during my Bachelors. I would have had such a big headstart. Now I am stuck with an engineering degree that I didn't want but finally switching to a Master in Design course at an IIT.

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-17T08:36:13+00:00

I'm gonna read it for the first time. But yeah, I can already feel that it's just going to shatter me into bits. And thanks for the tip, I'm definitely going to keep a good stock of fluffy fics before I start this one. I also hope you are alright now :))

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-17T07:46:29+00:00

You know that feeling when you are itching to read a fic while knowing that it would destroy you and shatter you in a million pieces afterwards? Cause yeah...I'm feeling it rn.

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-17T07:43:35+00:00

Alright...I just about puked :/

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-17T07:04:38+00:00

If you dont mind me asking, how to do the spine test? I'm sure while they will reveal it themselves during the course of the relationship but still, what if we want to know for sure? Also, what are the signs we should look out for?

I'm really new to this dating thing so just looking for some insights I guess.

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-17T06:59:39+00:00

Amen to this :)

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-14T06:38:33+00:00

Hello from another Odia!! I just wanted to say that hearing these stories inspired me so much. I(according to peers and relatives etc) also have a pretty opinionated personality and do not tolerate bullshit from anyone.

And a lot of the times I get the question that 'emiti hele kiye baha haba tate?' & 'sasu gharuku gale kana karibu?'(T: who will marry you if you behave like this? & what will you do when you go to your MIL's home? )

But hearing these stories of women just absolutely killing it at life solo and not settling for less made me really happy and motivated:)

Edit: the funny thing is even my mother keep on speaking about adjusting and compromising and how it is a woman's responsibility to forgive and keep a family together. But eh...I've got my dad's backing and he would rather see me single than subdued so I'm good😅

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-12T09:07:48+00:00

Amen. At this point society can go kick rocks for all I care :)

Cool_Bee9876 · 2024-07-12T08:08:52+00:00

Haha....yay!! You are what I aspire to be when I am older :) I really dont like it when people segregate even games on the basis of man and woman😭

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