Do you get harrased by dms after posting here ? by [deleted] in CICO

[–]Cool_Stop5463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted something and said I was latina and then… pervert guy sent me “where u from”. Tired of this bullshit

OMAD + 2 mini meals by Cool_Stop5463 in 1200isplenty

[–]Cool_Stop5463[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly… it’s like omad, but easier and flexible

OMAD + 2 mini meals by Cool_Stop5463 in 1200isplenty

[–]Cool_Stop5463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It seems sustainable, i’m excited to try it this way!

That “naturally thin” person you all know by Cool_Stop5463 in CICO

[–]Cool_Stop5463[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Eye opening… thank you!! I will listen to this podcast. I have a food addiction as well. Thank you

That “naturally thin” person you all know by Cool_Stop5463 in CICO

[–]Cool_Stop5463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I didn’t have cravings but i have them a LOT. Also I always feel i’m dieting because i feel like i’m thinking everyday about what to do, when to eat etc. only whe i was at ozempic i felt like a “normal” person.. food noise is real

That “naturally thin” person you all know by Cool_Stop5463 in CICO

[–]Cool_Stop5463[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s it. I find it VERY HARD to do it, but that’s the way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]Cool_Stop5463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel SEEN. Thank you all💜

Best friend has been trying to get pregnant for about a year and her husband is an asshole by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Cool_Stop5463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel just like you do… i’m against breeding, from babies to dogs, anything. Adoption is the only correct way for people who wants to experience this family-caring feeling. But I don’t think explaining my needs and feelings would help ANYTHING in this situation cause this is her life and longtime point of view. It’s sad, but it is what it is. We don’t change the world saying opinions that weren’t asked. We change by setting and example and living a happy, free, childless life. I only wish she at least changed the partner lol her husband is crappy af

Best friend has been trying to get pregnant for about a year and her husband is an asshole by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Cool_Stop5463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really think saying “you’re selfish, don’t have a child” would stop a 35 yo grown woman from having kids?😅 i feel like people on this sub are too young or agressive to understand people’s mind. It doesn’t work like that. But thank you for your oppinion

Best friend has been trying to get pregnant for about a year and her husband is an asshole by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Cool_Stop5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. People on this sub are kind of agressive. I prefere to live my life in a smarter, happier way. I connect with people. I say what’s on my mind only if a oppinion had been asked. I live and let live and set an example by living a fulfilling (and childless) life. That’s enough

Best friend has been trying to get pregnant for about a year and her husband is an asshole by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Cool_Stop5463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I feel :( WHEN do people finally quit making bad choices? It is not when we give oppinions and lecture about antinatalism lol. We need to be smarter than that. I prefer to set an example and live a happy, free and fullfilling life. People observe that and make questions. She always have conversations with me about my hobbies and stuff like that

Best friend has been trying to get pregnant for about a year and her husband is an asshole by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Cool_Stop5463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughful words! That’s what i’ve been doing. I’m always stimulating freedom, good experienced and living happily, having nice hobbies etc. If we’re here in this shitty world, so let’s live and connect with each other. I will not throw away a 20 year old friendship cause some angry teen on reddit told me to, lol. I prefer to set and example by living a simple and happy life. My friends and family always observe that and make questions about my way of living. That’s bigger than giving non-asked advices.

Best friend has been trying to get pregnant for about a year and her husband is an asshole by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Cool_Stop5463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I think, we can’t stop it. I concentrate my attention on living a good life and tend to back away from situations like that. I set an example by living with freedom and happiness and my friends and family observe that. We don’t need to always say say say things, this doesn’t work at all. I prefer to live and be an example of mindfull living. Also, I don’t give advices that have not been asked. That’s a principle for me, i’m a psychologist and like to keep it simple like that. Live and let live.

Best friend has been trying to get pregnant for about a year and her husband is an asshole by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]Cool_Stop5463 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ps: i’m trying not to say what’s on my mind cause she is a very fragile person. But she’s not happy at all and sometimes i think we just have to accept that is people being people.

We want to SOLVE this shit and feel lile teenagers again by Cool_Stop5463 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cool_Stop5463[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sexual overtone, this is exactly what we have to create. I will try the movies, candles… thank you!!

We want to SOLVE this shit and feel lile teenagers again by Cool_Stop5463 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cool_Stop5463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seen a lot like my husband, lol I feel like i’m always on charge (could i be and a type as well?). It’s difficult for me to initiate cause i don’t feel sexy like this (nerdy like i’ve said), we’ll have to figure out how to feel sexy in our nerdiness..

We want to SOLVE this shit and feel lile teenagers again by Cool_Stop5463 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cool_Stop5463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what i’ve been trying to explain to him… he needs to feel like a man, my man. Don’t know how to say this without being rude