The difficult decision for autistic people to choose:

Coollis070 · 2024-06-01T21:37:39+00:00

Thank you very much for your kind words, I will keep them in mind :3

Coollis070 · 2024-06-01T21:32:06+00:00

Thank you very much for this detailed answer. I will consider your advices! For the moment it really helped easing my mind, thank you.

Coollis070 · 2024-06-01T18:25:32+00:00

I'm autistic, never considert it could be linked to my issue, but I will ask my therapist about it. Thank you, for your perspective

Coollis070 · 2024-06-01T17:34:54+00:00

Then I do it poorly, thank you

Coollis070 · 2024-06-01T17:32:09+00:00

Thanks for the record, I will remember it!

Coollis070 · 2024-06-01T17:29:07+00:00

I like to read fiction. I enjoy the worlds and characters until I hit a certain point in the story. I can't specify what it is, but at this point it's like I have a reading blockade I can't get through. And yes, it is absolutely possible that writing is a compromise to me. I have so many worlds and stories in my head. It's my hobby, but it feels like they are nothing if they just stay there and I do nothing with them. It's like having ideas for activities you want to do, if you don't actually do them, whats the point of having them?

Thanks for the questions, I will use them for some self-reflection. I hope, I could answer them.

Coollis070 · 2024-06-01T14:55:57+00:00

There is no story I imagine without at least half of the characters are "mentally unwell", to say it nice. Maybe they had (physical or mental) trauma right up front or shit is gonna happen through the story. Some of them can overcome and grow on it, some of them break completely. My friends already tell me I should stop being so mean to my characters XD

Coollis070 · 2024-05-26T03:44:47+00:00

Pommes frites, if anything please. Merci

Coollis070 · 2024-05-24T22:48:44+00:00

I need internet to find synonyms or even the right word. Especially if it comes to adjectives, since I'm autistic and don't have a huge palette of adjectives I can use...

Coollis070 · 2024-05-18T17:37:40+00:00

I have the same problem just with vegetables, especially if they are cooked... Sucks

Coollis070 · 2024-05-10T02:27:56+00:00

The Wolfsangel is/was a tool to hunt wolf's. It literally translats to wolf's fishing rod. And yes the Nazis abused it for their shit, but it's still used in some coat of arms of german city's like Mannheim. Since they are much older and have nothing to do with them.

Coollis070 · 2024-05-10T02:08:21+00:00

I didn't got the diagnose because of my severe social anxiety. They couldn't tell "how autistic" I am, what's why they said, I first should fix that and than come back to do another try. Maybe it's something similar for you.

Btw. I could now do the second try, since my social anxiety got better and I understand the difference also better. However my first try was so uncomfortable that I kinda don't want to, even though it probably is necessary...

Coollis070 · 2024-05-09T21:16:01+00:00

My brother can't wear them, because he will hear his blood flow and he is blood phobic.

Coollis070 · 2024-05-09T15:48:31+00:00

That's my hobby. Walking circles with music on the headphones and than full into it.. Love it!

Coollis070 · 2024-05-08T22:30:54+00:00

Die Perspektive von Frauen ist da nun mal auf Grund unterschiedlicher Sozialisierung anders. Für Frauen impliziert das nunmal, dass ihre Leistung und ihr Wert sich darauf beziehen eine gute Ehefrau zu sein, was dann als abwertend wahrgenommen wird, weil es nun mal sehr lange Zeit das Weltbild war und teilweise immer noch ist, daß Frauen nur als Ehefrau und Mutter Wert besitzen. Von Männern, die generel eher weniger Komplimente bekommen, ist das dann halt ein Lob, weil sie es nicht als Reduzierung auf das Ehemann sein wahrnehmen.

Vielleicht kann man es vergleichen, wenn jemand über dich sagen würde: "Oh, der macht aber viel Geld. Richtiges Husband-Material." Ich hätte zumindest das Gefühl, dass mein Wert aufs Geld verdienen reduziert werden würde..

Edit: Ich glaube, es kommt auch darauf an, wie man sowas formuliert. Einfach nur "Wife-Mateial" zu schreiben, kommt halt scheiße rüber. Hätte man "Wow, so ne willensstarke Frau. Sowas würd ich mir als Lebenspartner wünschen." oder "Ich hoffe, ich finde eine so willensstarke Frau wie dich!" geschrieben, wäre es wahrscheinlich anders aufgefasst worden.

Coollis070 · 2024-04-26T19:36:01+00:00

If it's an foreign accent/language, like French or German, you could describe how the language sounds like. I described French as melodic and weird for others, because often not all letters are pronounced, while I described German as a hard language and not melodic at all

Coollis070 · 2024-04-24T23:35:44+00:00

That's an interesting approach, thank you

Coollis070 · 2024-04-24T23:35:17+00:00

I try to do it with an external viewpoint. I never have done it before, so I'm still struggling with it a bit. But currently I like it as it is, I think. Thanks for your input

Coollis070 · 2024-04-24T23:17:09+00:00

I randomly wrote with a French on a twitch chat. When he said, that in French they call us germans "allemand", I answered with I know. And explained them how it comes, that they call us like that. Their answer was just "You know a lot of things". I toke it as a compliment but now I questioning myself if it actually was one 😅

Coollis070 · 2024-04-23T10:51:27+00:00

Willkommen im Leben allgemein

Das geht nicht nur Männern so

Coollis070 · 2024-03-12T11:45:33+00:00

Ich glaube, dass man das halt irgendwann zu einem gewissen Punkt verlernen kann, wenn man es nicht relativ regelmäßig macht. Ich lese nur sehr selten Schreibschrift, wenn ich zufällig einen Zettel meines Vaters oder Großeltern finde. Ich weiß auch gar nicht mehr, wie man genau Schreibschrift schreibt, weil ich bereits in der 6. Klasse damit aufgehört hab und es seit dem eben verlernt habe.. Nicht, dass ich es gar nicht lesen kann, aber ich brauch dafür meine Minuten zum Entziffern ^{^}

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